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The Death Of Morality? Ethical Humanism vs Religion

Thu Jun 17, 2010 4:02 PM EDT
ethics, faith, us-news, parenting, morality, atheisim, agnostics, ethical-humanism
By Perrie
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Recently, I read a discussion between a person of faith and an ethical humanist about why it seems that America and other western nations have lost their moral compass. The person of faith blamed this loss of morality on growing numbers of people who have given up religion and are now embracing Ethical Humanism, atheism or agnosticism. The ethical humanist disagreed, stating that you don't need religion to be a moral and ethical person. This discussion was not particularly unique. I have seen it discussed many times before, and more often than not, I have seen these discussions turn nasty. The personal observation that I have made in my almost 50 years is that there does seem to be a trend towards a lack of morality and ethical behavior. We can see it on a grand scale, when banks fail and need to bailed out; yet greedy CEO's receive large bonuses. Their greed out weights what should be their embarrassment. And we see it in our day to day lives, with the loss of people saying "Please" and "Thank you". When we no longer embrace the pleasantries of holding a door for someone, or giving up our seat on a bus or a train to an older passenger or a pregnant woman. We hear in our daily conversations, words that would have been consider rude, now peppered everywhere. But the question I wonder about is this; does loosing ones religion encourage this and ethical humanism is the reason? Maybe, none of this matters and it's just a cultural change for the worse.


There are several factors to accurately look at this question objectively. First, one must see if there has been a significant change in the number of adherents to a faith in the last 50 years. According to the Gallop, there has been a slight decrease in people who attend a religious institution. Presently 63% say that they do, making for a 10% decrease in the number of congregants. The more significant number comes when asked "How important is religion in your life?" Here the number is significantly different, with 75% of Americans saying very important in 1952 to 56% presently. But the mixed message that the Gallop found, was that although there are fewer people who participate with a particular faith, still 8 out 10 people identify themselves with a faith and furthermore, the Gallop points out that "The fact that fewer Americans say they have a religious identity does not necessarily mean there has been a decrease in overall religiosity in America. It is possible that some portion of those who don't identify with a specific religion are still personally or spiritually religious."

A more in depth view of religion was reviewed by The Pew Forum for Religious and Public Life. The Pew broke it down by age generations. The major shift in religiousness happened with the Baby Boomers. In their youth they questioned their faith, some changed faiths, and a 25% would call themselves either unaffiliated, secular, atheist or agnostics. This trend continued with Generation X and what is now called Millennial generation. This is different from past generations. But of equal importance is that later on in life many return to the faith that they were raised in.

The most significant part of this survey is that the people who identified with being, secular, agnostic, atheists or unaffiliated, 67% believe that there is an absolute standard of right and wrong, while those that are religiously affiliated agree with this statement at 80%. Although this is an important difference, the Pew also found that consistently through those generations, those who were religiously affiliated where more likely to question their faith, and hold beliefs that differ from their faiths teachings. But 67% of those who I will call Ethical Humanists, is still a large majority of people who believe in an absolute standard of right from wrong, why does there seem to be a death of morality?

It seems that he definition of the death of morality differs with how faithful one is. According to the Gallup, those who profess a strong religious affiliation, morality hinges on issues such as abortion, stem cell research and gay marriage. But is those a measure of morality, or are they issues? These are indeed measures of specific beliefs that people may use as a gauge of being moral. But for many others, these are just issues. Then what is a measure of morality? What about lying, violence, sex, the lack of politeness, and manners and the usage of bad language family. Are these not measures of morality and civility? Some are measures of morality, others are measures of civility, and these are two different things which do not necessarily have any connection.

According to the Gallup's annual "Values & Beliefs" survey, most American's feel that there is a decline in morals with 77% saying that morality was either fair to poor. The report stated:

People identifying themselves as "conservatives," "liberals," or "moderates" all responded in similar fashion. Furthermore, those who specifically said they consider themselves liberal on social issues answered this question similarly to those who identified themselves as social moderates or social conservatives, although self-described social conservatives were somewhat more negative.

And...

Women, older people, and church-goers tend to be more pessimistic than other groups about the state of moral values in the United States, but the differences are not great. There is also close agreement between people with different levels of education, people of different races, and people living in different regions of the country.

So most of us, whether we are religious or not, identify with the idea that there has been a loss of morality, but the reasons why are unclear.

So, it seems that the reason that there seems to be a death of morality, is much more cultural than religious. There was a cultural change that happened, starting with the Baby boomers and has continued through the following generations. It is my personal belief from being a teacher and watching the interaction of parents and their children, that we have raised very self indulgent, selfish children, with no or little responsibilities, manners, and who are no longer taught the "Golden Rule." Our TV shows, movies, and video games glorify violence, callousness, and foul language. They use cursing as part of casual conversation. The constant texting and cell phones cause a disconnect in social interaction with our youth. This media induced coma, allows the influence of advertising to sell our youth on the idea of instant gratification and the "everybody has gotta have it" mentality. From the evidence that I have presented and my experiences as a teacher, I believe that the death of morality has nothing to do with whether a person is religious or not. It is about our society as a whole. In an effort to give our kids everything, we have forgotten to give them the most important things, quality time with them, guidance, and yes, some discipline, and a sense of responsibility and community. What has really died is good parenting.

Resources:

http://www.gallup.com/poll/124793/this-christmas-78-americans-identify-christian.aspx

http://pewforum.org/Age/Religion-Among-the-Millennials.aspx

http://religions.pewforum.org/

http://www.gallup.com/video/27760/State-Morality.aspx

http://www.gallup.com/poll/8587/Publics-View-Morals-Bad-Getting-Worse.aspx

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Perrie

I based this article on a dialog that Mal and Lisaed had. I found that it was a very intriguing conversation. I hope that you do to. Please mind the CoH and no attacks of those who have/ have not a faith will be allowed.

  • 17 votes
#1 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 4:06 PM EDT
Joanna Caroll

I'd love to read that. Is there a link? Regarding this article....how much time do you have? What a thought provoking article. Just today, I said aloud at work, "Within the next 100 years, organized religion will cease to exist." Of course, the reality is, it may not take that long.

  • 10 votes
#1.1 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 9:12 PM EDT
Perrie

Hi Joanna,

The article that Mal and Lisaed had there conversation, I no longer remember. They would have to answer that.

As for your prediction, I wouldn't be that sure. Religion is effected by the pendulum effect, and what seems like it might be on the decline, often swings back the other way.

In any event, thanks for taking the time to read my article. Please feel free to express yourself. We love the input!

  • 11 votes
#1.2 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 9:42 PM EDT
MalamuteMan

Hi Joanna,

This all started on my article "It's a DAMN SHAME!!!!!". and the specific point in the comments where this came up starts at comment #6.6.

  • 12 votes
#1.3 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 9:52 PM EDT
Joanna Caroll

Thanks Mal - more summer reading!

  • 7 votes
#1.4 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 10:07 PM EDT
js-445607

There will always be those who follow and cannot think or act without some kind of instruction. This is where religion comes into the mix. If you are one wanting guidance organized religion is the easiest path. The drawback here is that often those locked into this way of believing cannot open their minds to those who do not.

The people who are independent in their thinking and open to all that goes on in life seemingly have a better grasp on reality. These types do not expect others to worship or believe as they do and respect that everyone is entitled to believe as they wish.

As far as morality goes I believe it is inherent in all of us and our environment dictates whether we should be respectable and appropriate. Pretty much everyone is introduced to respect and the niceties of public exchange. Most of us know that when we step out our doors we put on our "public" faces and behave accordingly. Some have never been instructed in this and we find the ones engaging in road rage public confrontations and other inappropriate behaviors. The public has put up with these behaviors or attacked them incorrectly when what needs to be done is to never feed into the negativity in the first place. The old "The customer is always right" does not always apply any longer and we have allowed people to abuse each other and get away with it. This needs to stop.

  • 12 votes
#1.5 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 11:05 PM EDT
Pat-#@!&!#@

Perrie, you wrote a great article and must have put a lot of time in it. Well done. I agree with the idea that moral decline is more cultural than religious. I also think a lot of the nastiness we see in people these days is due to economic pressures, I believe people in general will lighten up when their financial circumstances improve. I hope.

  • 5 votes
#1.6 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 11:31 PM EDT
Perrie

As far as morality goes I believe it is inherent in all of us and our environment dictates whether we should be respectable and appropriate. Pretty much everyone is introduced to respect and the niceties of public exchange. Most of us know that when we step out our doors we put on our "public" faces and behave accordingly. Some have never been instructed in this and we find the ones engaging in road rage public confrontations and other inappropriate behaviors. The public has put up with these behaviors or attacked them incorrectly when what needs to be done is to never feed into the negativity in the first place. The old "The customer is always right" does not always apply any longer and we have allowed people to abuse each other and get away with it. This needs to stop

But this is exactly the thing that I wonder about. Why has this happened and seems to be getting worse? From everything that I have read, it has nothing to do with those who have faith and those who don't. There is something in our society that says everything YOU want to do is OK. That YOU are the center of the universe. That YOU can abuse everyone else to make yourself feel better. This is very disturbing to me.

  • 14 votes
#1.7 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 11:56 PM EDT
Perrie

Pat,

Thank you for your kind words, and yes I did, but that's the teacher in me!

I also think a lot of the nastiness we see in people these days is due to economic pressures, I believe people in general will lighten up when their financial circumstances improve. I hope.

I think that has something to do with that. But I think that there is something missing in our national if not western character. We have lost the desire to be moral and ethical by any means...and this is a very troubling trend.

  • 9 votes
#1.8 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 12:12 AM EDT
js-445607

Perrie as a society we allow the pendulum swing one way too far and the other way too far before we come to a happy balance. I believe one of the reasons behaviors seem to be getting worse is we is as a huge population we have access to all types of information and there is very little we cannot access. Again I think the out of control "me and only me attitude" is attributed to our attitudes also. When my children acted up I knew right away that I needed to look at my own behavior thoughts and temperament. Life has changed drastically and it seems very chaotic at present but it is a true sign of change. I think we need to be very vigilant of our behaviors and attitudes and step up to being responsible for ourselves. The rampant disrespect comes from never owning up to anything and thinking you are entitled to everything.

  • 10 votes
#1.9 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 12:54 AM EDT
Perrie

I think we need to be very vigilant of our behaviors and attitudes and step up to being responsible for ourselves. The rampant disrespect comes from never owning up to anything and thinking you are entitled to everything.

Absolutely! it was touched upon in my article Lie to Me. I think you were on there. Do you remember?

  • 8 votes
#1.10 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 1:05 AM EDT
Peter-741281

The personal observation that I have made in my almost 50 years is that there does seem to be a trend towards a lack of morality and ethical behavior. We can see it on a grand scale, when banks fail and need to bailed out; yet greedy CEO's receive large bonuses. Their greed out weights what should be their embarrassment. And we see it in our day to day lives, with the loss of people saying "Please" and "Thank you". When we no longer embrace the pleasantries of holding a door for someone, or giving up our seat on a bus or a train to an older passenger or a pregnant woman. We hear in our daily conversations, words that would have been consider rude, now peppered everywhere. But the question I wonder about is this; does loosing ones religion encourage this and ethical humanism is the reason? Maybe, none of this matters and it's just a cultural change for the worse.

When it comes to addressing the issue of "greedy ceos" have you considered that in the same 50 year time observation period Warren Buffet and Bill & Melinda Gates have given more to charity than any CEO in history?

There isn't a significant single factor responsible for "moral decline" if in fact it is even occurring. Every generation feels that the next is in "decline." I hear all of the time that "We're not as cool as we were in the sixties." or "No one will ever know the freedoms of expression we had in the seventies." or "This generation can't fathom the pleasant innocence we knew in the forties and fifties." Fact is there was just as much violent crime in each generation and just as much lack of "morality" in each generation. It's just you-tubed and face-booked now and brought to the masses attention at a much more rapid rate.

Would the decaying "moral fabric" be a global phenomanom or a regional one? What impact do individual cultures and backgrounds have on this event? Are morals and human decency in as rapid decline in say Chile as they are in France? Are we being lumped globally or individually?

Where on earth does an example exist of a successful paring with "morality" and organized religion?

  • 6 votes
#1.11 - Sun Jun 27, 2010 12:35 PM EDT
Perrie

Peter,

Every generation feels that the next is in "decline."

Somewhere up these threads, this has been mentioned many times. And although this is true, it is also true that societies in the past have met with there demise because of moral decay.

Would the decaying "moral fabric" be a global phenomanom or a regional one?

Good question. I guess it would be could be both, but I doubt that it would be at the same rate. In this article, I was referring to the US.

What impact do individual cultures and backgrounds have on this event?

I guess that would have to do with the individual cultures. And I am sure that the changes would effect each culture differently.

Are we being lumped globally or individually?

Definitely, not globally. Like I said, this article was specific to the US and a remark that was made between two individuals, that had me looking into this phenomenon.

Where on earth does an example exist of a successful paring with "morality" and organized religion?

Buddhists, The Baha'i. I guess ones where dogma isn't stressed.

  • 6 votes
#1.12 - Sun Jun 27, 2010 2:55 PM EDT
nonStitiousZealot

Peter ,

When it comes to addressing the issue of "greedy ceos" have you considered that in the same 50 year time observation period Warren Buffet and Bill & Melinda Gates have given more to charity than any CEO in history?

Although that may be accurate [I haven't checked] it does not make up for
the damage done by those CEOs of lesser means and larger greed .
One cannot compare those economically at the very top with everyone else
and expect to see similarity .

  • 4 votes
#1.13 - Sun Jun 27, 2010 6:42 PM EDT
Peter-741281

I agree - there is a lot of greed at the top but there is also a lot of blame the corporation or the ceo for the sake of lashing out. Remember New Orleans? Who beat the federal goverment down there with water trucks? Wallmart and after their stores were looted.

  • 4 votes
#1.14 - Mon Jun 28, 2010 6:55 AM EDT
CodeSculptor

Well, is there any documented decline in morality? People can claim that there is, but they can only speak to a highly subjective and strongly narrowed avenue of time.

People often complain of "well, that never happened when I was..." only to dismiss evidence to the contrary under the fallacy of confirmation-bias and no-true-scotsman.

People don't want to remember things like, on of the the most religious Christian nations engaging in the holocaust -- willingly. And they believe that kidnappings are new... and they believe that the priest molestation cases are only recent abominations. And they insist that banks and financial schemes are a novel construct of recent history.

They tend to ignore the ugly bits like rampant racism, overt sexism and were even more likely to participate in or condone immoral acts like Japanese internment camps, or the appalling treatment of Native Americans, or witch-hunts and so on.

  • 4 votes
#1.15 - Wed Jul 7, 2010 10:17 AM EDT
Socrates1

Interesting, and to a certain extent you may be right.

As tolerance increases the ability to defend oneself decreases. I guess one would need to address the goal of morality.

  • 2 votes
#1.16 - Wed Jul 7, 2010 1:29 PM EDT
Perrie

They tend to ignore the ugly bits like rampant racism, overt sexism and were even more likely to participate in or condone immoral acts like Japanese internment camps, or the appalling treatment of Native Americans, or witch-hunts and so on.

I think that these acts in their time were condoned, but we would not allow them to happen now.

But history is 20/20 hindsight.

  • 3 votes
#1.17 - Wed Jul 7, 2010 2:12 PM EDT
Perrie

As tolerance increases the ability to defend oneself decreases. I guess one would need to address the goal of morality.

I would agree.

  • 2 votes
#1.18 - Wed Jul 7, 2010 2:13 PM EDT
believer-369603

As tolerance increases the ability to defend oneself decreases.

I would agree.

I don't see this. Where is the correlation between tolerance and defense?

  • 2 votes
#1.19 - Wed Jul 7, 2010 3:37 PM EDT
1623 yankee

There will always be those who follow and cannot think or act without some kind of instruction.

Yes, they're called small children.

The key to reponsibility, ethics, morality, self discipline and the exercising of the Golden Rule are not the church or religion, they are parents and home. Without a constant display and lifestyle that reinforce these values daily by parents with set and firm guidelines, we end up with resultant adults who are untrained boors and think of no one but themselves.

Parents are the responsible (culpable) agents of their childrens' futures and NO ONE else.

  • 1 vote
#1.20 - Wed Jul 7, 2010 4:03 PM EDT
Socrates1

If I am willing to tolerate, for example, your belief that it is ok to beat your wife, can I than teach my kids that it is not ok to beat your wife? If originally it was illegal to beat your wife, can I than, through tolerance, continue to maintain that it is illegal?

  • 1 vote
#1.21 - Wed Jul 7, 2010 9:15 PM EDT
thelyamhound

If I am willing to tolerate, for example, your belief that it is ok to beat your wife, can I than teach my kids that it is not ok to beat your wife?

Of course, just as Seventh Day Adventists and Hindus can teach that it is not acceptable to eat meat while "tolerating" us meat eaters in daily life.

If originally it was illegal to beat your wife, can I than, through tolerance, continue to maintain that it is illegal?

Well, keeping wife-beating illegal is as achievable through notions of civic utility as through those morality. A more interesting example might be something like bestiality, incest, or necrophilia, all of which I hold to be immoral, but which I'm not convinced one can legally proscribe based on any reasoned civic argument.

  • 2 votes
#1.22 - Thu Jul 8, 2010 5:25 PM EDT
Perrie

OK, let's say that I am a doctor, and I have taken the Hippocratic oath. An injured child is brought into my ER. The child happens to be Christian Scientist. Do I treat? Who's values become compromised?

  • 2 votes
#1.23 - Thu Jul 8, 2010 8:42 PM EDT
Robert Erickson

First, do no harm. By not treating the child, harm would be done. The value of the child, is the one not to be compromised. After that, they could spend many long, healthy hours in a reading room, figuring out why you were wrong.

  • 3 votes
#1.24 - Thu Jul 8, 2010 9:02 PM EDT
Perrie

I've got to think about that one. I think as the doctor, you might not have a crisis of conscience, but as the parents, your child is now doomed to hell.

I had to face a similar situation once ( as a teacher a guardian) with a child that was Jehovah Witness and a blood transfusion. It is not one that is easy to decide.

  • 2 votes
#1.25 - Thu Jul 8, 2010 11:09 PM EDT
Robert Erickson

As a basis, I took the proirity of the child's life as primary. Then let the rest sort itself out. Otherwise, the conflicts, lead to paralysis of action. I don't think the child would be doomed to hell, for the actions of a third party?

  • 2 votes
#1.26 - Thu Jul 8, 2010 11:46 PM EDT
CodeSculptor

Legally, you treat the child as you would any other patient UNTIL it collides with the dictates of the parent. If the parents indicate that their religion does not allow transfusions, then by law, no transfusions may be given.

The sensible way for a society to handle this is to do what the parents say, then, when the child suffers the obvious outcome -- then have them arrested or declared incompetent as parents because they manifest a delusion. It's absolutely no different from the Andrea Yates situation.

If you believe that god gave you orders that cause the death of your children, then you are obviously in the 'cuckoo-for-coco-puffs-category'...

Rob, keep in mind that the Abrahamic religions DO believe that sin is inherited, and that even atonement can by substitutional. And many other religions believe in karma and reincarnation, where your actions from other lives (possibly lived in the future) can determine your spiritual standing.

  • 2 votes
#1.27 - Fri Jul 9, 2010 1:27 AM EDT
Robert Erickson

I think that once the parents demonstrate that they are "cuckoo for cocoa puffs", it would be safe to assist the child, or it should be.

  • 3 votes
#1.28 - Fri Jul 9, 2010 1:32 AM EDT
Socrates1

As tolerance increases the ability to defend oneself decreases.

I was attempting to answer believer questioning this, perhaps not such a great example.

Try again.

If I tolerate you planting your crops on my land, I lose the ability to use it myself.

  • 2 votes
#1.29 - Fri Jul 9, 2010 2:33 AM EDT
believer-369603

Ok, I see what you're getting at Socrates. I had a much narrower definition of "tolerance".

In your example, a line was crossed. Somebody planting crops on my land is obviously indulging in rude and selfish behavior, and i would feel no obligation to "tolerate" that behavior. Remember that saying, "Your rights end when your fist reaches my nose"?

I see your point, but I don't think "reasonable" people would reach that threshold, under normal conditions. I do believe there is a socially acceptable and commonly understood limit to "tolerance"

  • 2 votes
#1.30 - Fri Jul 9, 2010 3:32 AM EDT
Perrie

OK Rob,

Let's mix it up a bit. I will take my real life example. Jehovah Witnesses don't believe in blood transfusions. This is a given fact. Most carry a card that states this, and in most cases, blood substitutes can be effective. This is accepted by most in the medical community and has been upheld in many courts. So we are not talking about far out wackos here.

So here is the case of my student.

She and her mom were in a terrible car accident. My student had sickle cell anemia. It was very touch and go for her. During her time in the hospital, her mom had been visited by some Jehovah witness, and over the course of time there, converted. The daughter (10 at the time) was not happy about this, but she was a good girl, and listened to her mother.

During a field trip, my student became very ill. She had developed a bleed in her liver. These bleeds happen to children with sickle cell, and are the main reason for blood transfusions and death. ONLY blood transfusions work, because the rid the body of the bad blood and give it healthy blood.

I took her to the hospital, not knowing that Jehovah witness, can't get blood transfusions. My student, took it upon herself to remove the card from person. But the hospital we went to, had her records and told me the situation. My student begged me for the transfusion, but she is minor and I had to make the decision. I decided on my beliefs, and she got the transfusion. The mother was outraged at me, and told me that I was damned, and had damned her daughter to hell.

Was I wrong or was I right? It has been an issue that has troubled me for years, even more so now that I am a parent.

  • 3 votes
#1.31 - Fri Jul 9, 2010 9:30 PM EDT
Perrie

Code,

Legally, you treat the child as you would any other patient UNTIL it collides with the dictates of the parent. If the parents indicate that their religion does not allow transfusions, then by law, no transfusions may be given.

How about in the above story. It conflicted with what the child wanted.

Rob, keep in mind that the Abrahamic religions DO believe that sin is inherited,

Jews don't believe in original sin. They believe you are born with out sin.

  • 3 votes
#1.32 - Fri Jul 9, 2010 9:35 PM EDT
Robert Erickson

You saved the girls life, sweetie. Let not your heart be troubled. God will sort it out. This is not as complicated, as evil would lead you to believe. It wanted the child dead. You did not.

  • 3 votes
#1.33 - Fri Jul 9, 2010 9:37 PM EDT
Perrie

Rob,

I think that once the parents demonstrate that they are "cuckoo for cocoa puffs", it would be safe to assist the child, or it should be.

By who's standard? Each faith has their own. I don't have to agree with my student's mom to understand where her belief comes from.

believer,

I see your point, but I don't think "reasonable" people would reach that threshold, under normal conditions. I do believe there is a socially acceptable and commonly understood limit to "tolerance"

So define tolerance in my situation.

  • 2 votes
#1.34 - Fri Jul 9, 2010 9:39 PM EDT
Perrie

Wow, that was quick Rob!

Listen, I think I was right, and I know that is what the child wanted, and I know that is what the doctors wanted, but to her mom, I had made an awful mistake dealing with her soul, something that is not quantifiable, and for her the damnation of hell was unbearable to her. So didn't I cross the line or would your answer be different if the child didn't want it?

  • 3 votes
#1.35 - Fri Jul 9, 2010 9:44 PM EDT
Robert Erickson

I couched that answer in the language of my personal religious beliefs. However, I submit that a moral, ethical, or religious system, unable to save a child's life, is fatally flawed, in it's original premises. Is it not?

  • 2 votes
#1.36 - Fri Jul 9, 2010 9:49 PM EDT
believer-369603

perrie---I don't think you can be "wrong" if you're following your conscience, in most circumstances.

  • 2 votes
#1.37 - Fri Jul 9, 2010 11:20 PM EDT
Perrie

I couched that answer in the language of my personal religious beliefs. However, I submit that a moral, ethical, or religious system, unable to save a child's life, is fatally flawed, in it's original premises. Is it not?

I would agree, but for some, eternal life is more important. Who am I to say otherwise? And for most Jehovah Witnesses, the not doing blood transfusion isn't a big thing.

  • 3 votes
#1.38 - Fri Jul 9, 2010 11:41 PM EDT
Perrie

perrie---I don't think you can be "wrong" if you're following your conscience, in most circumstances.

What about people who believe that it is truly wrong to "mix the races". They are following their conscience, but personally, I think it's pretty sick.

  • 3 votes
#1.39 - Fri Jul 9, 2010 11:43 PM EDT
Perrie

BTW guys, I am not being a smart Alec here, I am just trying to play devils advocate. My point is that it's very hard to define these concepts.

  • 3 votes
#1.40 - Fri Jul 9, 2010 11:45 PM EDT
Robert Erickson

Sorry, Perrie, I had to go out for a while. I realized the stance you were taking. My second argument would be the child. That I believe she has human rights, as the rest of us, and her wishes should be respected. No other persons, including her parents, beliefs, should be the cause of her death. It's an interestng exercise, thinking is good. (:

  • 2 votes
#1.41 - Fri Jul 9, 2010 11:51 PM EDT
Don of Iowa

Perrie, I do not think you are wrong either. I have been in many Christian faiths myself, Baptist, Mennonite, Southern Baptist, and Pentecostal. What I got from all of it is that everyone seems to be able to look at the Bible and come up with their own interpretations of what it means to be Christian and what and what is not acceptable. In the end what I have come up with is that it depends upon what is in your own heart and the true reasons you did what you did. I do not feel any of us can truly be judged by the beliefs of another, it is our own beliefs and our motives for doing what we choose to do. In my own opinion if you can ask yourself what your motives were and if they truly were not done for any other motive than you wished to do good and save the girls life then you have done no wrong. Just because someone believes what they do does not mean it is correct. I feel circumstances happened in the way that they did in order for the girls life to be saved. If not circumstances would have turned out differently, if she was to die she would have died regardless o what you chose to do. Perhaps what was really taking place was a message was being given to the mother that she had chosen the wrong belief, you have no way of truly knowing. But in the end I feel if it was the will of the Creator to take her life nothing you could hav done would have changed that.

it is because of all the contradictions in many of the Christian faiths and some of my own questions I have moved on and am now Buddhist. Buddhist beliefs are such that the Creator is so above what we may understand and is so beyond anything we can imagine that the idea we are each spoken to and moved according to his will is something that is merely human to try and raise man up to the level of the Creator. The Creator does what it will or will not do regardless of our interactions or requests. It is not for us to concern ourselves with the workings of the Creator, the Creator is more than capable of handling all things without our intercession. Our purpose in life is to become the best that we can be, to become enlightened and to raise ourselves to a higher level. It is ourselves we must concern ourselves with, not others nor the workings of the Creator. We shall each come to our path in out own way and shall reach enlightenment when we have advanced spiritually to the level where we may understand the path to enlightenment. To each in their own time.

It is since I have come to this path that I have come to feel each of us must walk our own path in our journey, and I now feel no one path nor any human truly understands more than anyone else about the Creator. It is only yourself you may look to in deciding if you are doing the best you are able. If you truly seek you will know what is right and what is wrong if you will but see and listen to what is given to you.

In your case I think you truly did listen, you followed where your heart led you. I also feel if that is what led you then you did no wrong and if you allow that same sentiment guide you through life then you, for yourself can truly do no wrong. It is only when we choose to not listen or heed what our hearts tell us that we are capable of doing wrong. When a person does wrong, whether they wish to admit it or make excuses for it, they know deep in their heart where they refuse to truly look that they have done wrong. If they choose to follow this long enough they become blind to what is right. This is not that which you followed.

Forgive yourself and trust in your choice, you allowed yourself to be led where you needed to go. No one may ever judge you wrong for what you did. Be well and be at peace, you have done no wrong, this I truly believe.

Sorry for taking so long a way to get where I was going.

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#1.42 - Fri Jul 9, 2010 11:53 PM EDT
believer-369603

When i say "conscience" I mean that little part of all of us that is truly honest about ourselves. If somebody has a valid, moral and ethical reason why the races should not mix, then they;re following their conscience. If not, they are following dogma or some learned stuff.

Example: I cannot, under any circumstances, picture myself having a homosexual affair. My conscience tells me that there is nothing at all wrong or aberrant about it. I have no valid reason to not like it. Therefore I cannot make a moral judgement about it.

Another example: Stewed tomatoes make me gag. Why? i don't know. I just can't stomach the thought of it. But my conscience tells me there is no moral reason for my reaction. Therefore...I can't make a moral judgement of people who eat stewed tomatoes......but I'll never eat at their homes :-)

Is this making any sense?

  • 2 votes
#1.43 - Fri Jul 9, 2010 11:56 PM EDT
CodeSculptor

Perrie, I think that the only sensible option should be reason and not superstition.

However, legally, the minor patient doesn't have a say (unless they are emancipated) -- that is, usually. Depending on the age and "maturity" of the minor, the level of comprehension and level of informed consent, the risks/benefits involved then you could go into something like this, regarding the "mature minor doctrine" or

Johnson P. Refusal of treatment by children and the mature minor doctrine. Qual Care Newsl.http://www.cqcapd.state.ny.us/newsletter/74cclong.htm . Accessed February 23, 2007.

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#1.44 - Sat Jul 10, 2010 12:28 AM EDT
Perrie

Rob and Don,

Thanks guys for your opinions. It has troubled me on and off, since it happened.Your words have made me feel a bit better about my decision, although I still have my doubts about that day.

Code, can you find another link to that case. Your link isn't coming up and it is of special interest to me, since I live in NYC, although this event happened in the 1990's.

beleiver,

When i say "conscience" I mean that little part of all of us that is truly honest about ourselves. If somebody has a valid, moral and ethical reason why the races should not mix, then they;re following their conscience.

Here is one that I have heard often about why people feel that their children shouldn't marry out of their race.

It will make it harder on their grand kids, since the world hasn't changed enough and these kids don't fully fit into either community.

or

It's harder to make a DNA match in case of a cancer. ( that is a real fact)

Are they bigots?

  • 3 votes
#1.45 - Sun Jul 11, 2010 12:15 AM EDT
Don of Iowa

IMOO I would have to look at some of their other actions in regards to race. Some I would have to say yes they are. I have often heard the excuse made about grandchildren and thier children but today that one does not truly carry water if it ever did at all. It is just using the excuse of the fear of exposing them to racism to cover racism in the first place. The other instance does seem to carry more water in regards to the DNA match but even there I feel it is just trying to have a plausible excuse to hide behind so you are not suspected of being a racist. One of the things I have noticed most about racism is the attempt to find justifiable reasons for practicing racism rather than being honest with the real problem the person feels. In other words it is often just a smoke screen to hide what is otherwise and despicable action.

But here again this is my personal opinion, I have yet to know how to walk across water without knowing where all the stones lie beforehand.

  • 2 votes
#1.46 - Sun Jul 11, 2010 12:28 AM EDT
Socrates1

Perrie, It's quite a dilemma. I'd say do what you did realizing the consequences. Many times we must do what we think is right for others and hope that at some time in the future that they will realize the reason for the decision. If they never do, you must feel comfortable with yourself and your decision.

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#1.47 - Sun Jul 11, 2010 4:24 AM EDT
Perrie

Don,

Personally, I agree with you. With the exception of the DNA problem (which although is true, it is equally true of a white person marrying an Asian person, yet no one says anything about that), I think that these are just excuses to hide racism.

But, that is just my opinion. Other's may argue that I live in a fool's paradise.

  • 3 votes
#1.48 - Sun Jul 11, 2010 12:40 PM EDT
Perrie

Socrates,

I don't think that this situation would have ever given me complete closure, so I took the path that gave me the least amount of doubt. Had the girl died under my care, I would have never forgiven myself. She had not embraced her mother's new faith, and this is not my belief system. But I do believe in respecting the beliefs of other's. It's just that my beliefs and the mom's were in utter conflict, and that is where the guilt comes from. But if I had to do it all over again, I would do the same thing, so I guess that says something.

  • 3 votes
#1.49 - Sun Jul 11, 2010 12:46 PM EDT
Socrates1

Exactly, you must follow your own ethical system, and be prepared to accept the consequences.

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#1.50 - Mon Jul 12, 2010 12:11 AM EDT
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maddad

well written, thoughtful.

a unique thought i am having is that there has always been a middle America that is convinced the entire moral fiber of the nation is on the edge of destruction. my grandparents generation in the 50's, 60's and 70's were convinced doomsday was right around the corner, my parents generation was convinced we were doomed to failure throughout the 80's & 90's, yet somehow we are still are a charitable, mostly decent group. everyone has their bad seeds, that is what prisons and justice systems are for. JMO

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#2 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 4:17 PM EDT
Perrie

there has always been a middle America that is convinced the entire moral fiber of the nation is on the edge of destruction.

This is very true! As a matter of fact, here is an interesting quote....but I'll make you guess who wrote it:

"The children now love luxury; they have bad manners, contempt for authority; they show disrespect for elders and love chatter in place of exercise. Children are now tyrants, not the servants of their households. They no longer rise when elders enter the room. They contradict their parents, chatter before company, gobble up dainties at the table, cross their legs, and tyrannize their teachers. "

Seems like something that is pretty contemporary, right? Defiantly describes what is going on today.

I'll wait till I tell who said it.

  • 9 votes
#2.1 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 4:29 PM EDT
maddad

Socrates....?

but to be honest my first guess was my grandfather...i know he either memorized it or paraphrased....

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#2.2 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 4:35 PM EDT
maddad

clipped to Atheist, Crime & Punishment & Writers Groups.

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#2.3 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 4:39 PM EDT
Perrie

Yes and Thank You Maddad!

Damn...I thought it would take longer than that to figure it out. Be honest...did ya google it? LOL!

  • 6 votes
#2.4 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 4:47 PM EDT
MalamuteMan

We often hear that argument... The "This is just another reiteration of the good old Dooms Day is coming soon" argument. It is true that many of these themes repeat themselves throughout history, but from my perspective it is the scale of these issues that presents problems that are a bit different than any we have seen in the past. A nation of 300 million (to say nothing of a world of 7 billion) "entitled" rabid consumers of just about everything are testing limits... limits of one people to endure the excesses of others... limits of the capacity of the planet to support our excesses. In my view, good moral behavior involves more than treating other humans respectfully and fairly, it also involves doing the same for ALL creatures... not just the creatures that live here on planet earth now, but the creatures who are yet unborn (including our own progeny) and who are depending on us to leave them the same beautiful planet that our ancestors left to us.

  • 8 votes
#2.5 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 4:53 PM EDT
maddad

...did ya google

why, all i had to do was click on the quote....i am gettin' smartur heer!

  • 5 votes
#2.6 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 4:53 PM EDT
Perrie

Mal,

I have to agree with you. It does seem to be at an unprecedented level. But then again, I'm not 3000 years old, and maybe that did lead to the fall of the Greek empire.

  • 5 votes
#2.7 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 4:59 PM EDT
Perrie

Mark,

Damn! I didn't notice that when I copied that quote, that I also pasted in the link. Dahhhh...

I guess I'm not getting smarter here, LOL!

  • 5 votes
#2.8 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 5:00 PM EDT
maddad

come to think of it, over the past couple of years, i am turning into one of those...damn kids are sinking our country...types now and then. but then another teen stands up for what is right and screws my way of thinking to the wall.

  • 7 votes
#2.9 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 6:48 PM EDT
Robert Erickson

Children currently learn their moralitly from home, or half a home, peers and several thousands of hours of television and video games. It's amazing they do as well as they are.

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#2.10 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 8:59 PM EDT
Perrie

i am turning into one of those...damn kids are sinking our country...types now and then. but then another teen stands up for what is right and screws my way of thinking to the wall.

So true! There are many amazing young people out there and many who defy the odds and turn out well despite many hardships.

  • 5 votes
#2.11 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 9:45 PM EDT
Perrie

Robert,

From what I have seen as a teacher, I would have to agree with that statement.

  • 6 votes
#2.12 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 9:46 PM EDT
js-445607

I'm a kid junky and know thousands of them that I met at age 5 or younger and are now in college or married with children. Ninety-nine per cent of them are fantastic motivated and successful. I know that one of the problems we've had, as a society is expectations. I was born in 1944 when women were expected to grow up get married have children and be in service to their husbands. Children were to be seen not heard and men ruled society. As you can see times have changed and with that change keeping up with the variances and demands takes a while plus it is a push me pull me between the religious and the humanists. We'll get there eventually but we must remember to have fun on the way. We are no better or worse off than we've ever been. I think we are better off as we all have a voice and only have to use it.

  • 7 votes
#2.13 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 11:16 PM EDT
Perrie

I was born in 1944 when women were expected to grow up get married have children and be in service to their husbands. Children were to be seen not heard and men ruled society. As you can see times have changed and with that change keeping up with the variances and demands takes a while plus it is a push me pull me between the religious and the humanists. We'll get there eventually but we must remember to have fun on the way. We are no better or worse off than we've ever been. I think we are better off as we all have a voice and only have to use it.

Now that is a very positive note. I like it!

  • 7 votes
#2.14 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 12:14 AM EDT
js-445607

Thank you, Perrie, I'm truly enjoying your thread.

  • 5 votes
#2.15 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 12:56 AM EDT
Perrie

:-)

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#2.16 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 1:06 AM EDT
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MalamuteMan

Hi Perrie,

Nice article Perrie! Here are a few of my thoughts on this topic...

We are loosing our moral compass because we are not taught to be moral... I don’t think the influence of advertising can be over estimated!!!!!!!!! In many ways, Madison avenue has become our teachers. Of course, religions can teach us a good moral grounding, and some do, but many religions have gotten side tracked with hidden agendas (many of which are political agendas having no foundation in morality).

But religion is not the only way to learn good moral values and a sense of responsibility. My parents were not religious at all, not officially atheist, just not particularly interested in religion one way or the other. We were taught about the Golden Rule, but this was not specifically emphasized either. Somehow the Golden Rule became the foundation of MY moral ethics. I extend the Golden Rule not only to people, but to ALL other creatures, to pretty much everything... even to what some would call inanimate objects. For example, as a kid I used to climb peaks in the Mojave desert so I could roll boulders off the summit to watch them crash down the slopes of the peak... Now I say to myself,

If that boulder could care about where it lives, perhaps it would be very glad to occupy such a high place on this mountain. Who am I to cast it down the mountain? After all it took it millions of years to reach this point.

Some people would say this way of thinking is silly because boulders have no consciousness and no cares. Well perhaps not, but even so, thinking this way helps me to have a greater sense of appreciation for the marvelous place in which I live.

Speaking of what religions teach us, there is one element of the bible which I feel fuels the sense of entitlement we have in our society today...

Genesis 1:28 from the American King James Bible
And God blessed them, and God said to them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moves on the earth.

Not only does this suggest that everything is here for us (the biblical basis of our entitlement), but it tells us to multiply... something that was once a good idea, but has gotten way out of hand.

  • 9 votes
#3 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 4:36 PM EDT
Perrie

That is a lot of territory to cover, but I'll try.

We are loosing our moral compass because we are not taught to be moral... I don’t think the influence of advertising can be over estimated!!!!!!!!! In many ways, Madison avenue has become our teachers.

True for the most part. Kids see "stuff" that they want on the TV and bug their parents. But the parents have an option to say no, something they tend not to do. That is because they are trying to make up for the time they don't spend with their children, making money to keep up with all the buying. Kind of a vicious cycle.

But religion is not the only way to learn good moral values and a sense of responsibility. My parents were not religious at all, not officially atheist, just not particularly interested in religion one way or the other. We were taught about the Golden Rule, but this was not specifically emphasized either. Somehow the Golden Rule became the foundation of MY moral ethics.

I agree that the "Golden Rule" isn't the only way to be a good ethical person. But you have an interesting caveat in this . You said that it was not specifically emphasized either. So how do you think that you became an ethical person? Do you think that it was innate?

Some people would say this way of thinking is silly because boulders have no consciousness and no cares. Well perhaps not, but even so, thinking this way helps me to have a greater sense of appreciation for the marvelous place in which I live.

I don't think that's silly. It's about preservation.

About Genesis; I think that you have to take that quote in the time that is was written. We still need to reproduce to some extent in order to keep mankind alive, but not at the rate that we are. Also when it gives man dominion over the earth, later on it also says that we should be good stewards of the earth, something very few people practice.

  • 6 votes
#3.1 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 5:40 PM EDT
MalamuteMan

So how do you think that you became an ethical person? Do you think that it was innate?

Was it innate??? NOT AT ALL!!! My childhood presented me with physical challenges that shaped my life. Some of my peers used my limitations as an excuse to treat me in ways that I didn't appreciate. Those experiences made me realize that I didn't want to be someone who treated others the way I had been treated. Thinking about the Golden Rule I had been taught, albeit without strong emphasis, I realized that it applied to my situation. I certainly cannot make any claim to have lived by the Golden Rule without fault, but throughout my life I have taken it more and more to heart. I think other creatures, especially my dog friends, have taught me the most about the Golden Rule and the merits of treating all things with the respect and kindness I hope to receive. So I guess my parents gave me the general primer on the Golden Rule, but my experiences in life and the other lives I have encountered have been my most compelling teachers.

  • 8 votes
#3.2 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 6:17 PM EDT
MalamuteMan

Also when it gives man dominion over the earth, later on it also says that we should be good stewards of the earth, something very few people practice.

The problem I have with that, regardless of where those words came from, is that we humans pick and choose the ideas that suit us... We hear the "have dominion" words, but turn a deaf ear to the "be good stewards" words. Many people apply the "be good stewards" idea when it is convenient and requires no deprivation but give in to their desires when comfort and convenience would be compromised.

  • 8 votes
#3.3 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 6:27 PM EDT
Perrie

Mal,

So you had the golden rule as your foundations. Therefore, when confronted with adversity, you had an inner core to guide you. Now think how those experiences could have negatively impacted on you without that inner core.

  • 5 votes
#3.4 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 6:29 PM EDT
Perrie

The problem I have with that, regardless of where those words came from, is that we humans pick and choose the ideas that suit us... We hear the "have dominion" words, but turn a deaf ear to the "be good stewards" words.

But now you are involved in human nature. The words are all there plain to see. But if people pick and choose what they want to read, that can't be helped.

  • 6 votes
#3.5 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 6:31 PM EDT
MalamuteMan

But now you are involved in human nature. The words are all there plain to see. But if people pick and choose what they want to read, that can't be helped.

CAN'T BE HELPED!!! Arg!!! Does that make it okay to pillage the planet???

Sorry about quoting myself over and over, but with that I can't resist doing it again...

Our highly developed cerebral cortex has been so effective at bringing us the comfort and security that was so scarce for the predecessors of our species that now we are overrunning the planet and stressing it beyond its capacity to support us.

  • 7 votes
#3.6 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 6:50 PM EDT
Perrie

Mal,

I know how much you hate it that people don't care about the planet, but that is beyond your personal control. Only through education will people take note. It has been happening, but it's one step forward and two steps back sometimes.

  • 6 votes
#3.7 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 7:36 PM EDT
js-445607

I too was shaped by my environment as a child. It was a "please" and "thank you" era in "public" but behind the scenes it could get quite ugly. "Shut up and do as your told" "Do as I say not as I do" were common utterances by adults. There was also a lot of competition among siblings and parents, which still goes on and always has. Most adults of those days did not bend and also did not take their children under consideration when decisions were made. They did not tell us much but at age 18 we were "Out on our own" which would have been fine but since we've never had "our own" how does this work? When you look at the human condition from the history of others and your own personal experiences it is easier to have a strong moral fiber because you do not blame others for your short falls but you always learn from others.

  • 6 votes
#3.8 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 11:40 PM EDT
Perrie

When you look at the human condition from the history of others and your own personal experiences it is easier to have a strong moral fiber because you do not blame others for your short falls but you always learn from others.

Absolutely! But before you get there, you need the foundations laid. That is where parents, teachers and other adults come in.

I can tell that you really like kids and I find that really refreshing. So many adults these days have lost touch with the children around them. Maybe that is why they don't know how to parent?

  • 7 votes
#3.9 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 12:24 AM EDT
js-445607

Perrie children are the backbone of our society the wellspring of new ideas and inventions. Children are unsullied by their environments and when allowed have knowledge and curiosity beyond most adults. They get upset and over it in a flash they forgive and the laugh a lot. So, if I could choose my teachers in life I'd pick a child.

  • 5 votes
#3.10 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 12:59 AM EDT
nonStitiousZealot

So many adults these days have lost touch with the children around them. Maybe that is why they don't know how to parent?

The social forces against males associating with other people's children
is part of the problem . There is only a little jail time and a lifetime
possibility of being wrongly labeled under the perversion laws .

  • 5 votes
#3.11 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 1:03 AM EDT
Perrie

NSZ,

There are a load of male teachers in my school that no one would even think of as a pedophile. And there is always DNA evidence, too.

But that comment wasn't just directed at men. I think that woman are every bit as guilty of this as men are.

  • 6 votes
#3.12 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 1:09 AM EDT
Perrie

js,

Post 3.10 ...just beautiful!

  • 5 votes
#3.13 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 1:21 AM EDT
nonStitiousZealot

Sorry P. ,

I didn't mean to imply that the comment was directed just at men .
I have to wonder if there are a lot fewer male teachers these days
than before the days of NBC style exposés of male predation .

  • 5 votes
#3.14 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 1:21 AM EDT
Perrie

No actually more men are now going into teaching. There was a decline after Vietnam ( men used to go into teaching to beat the draft) but now there are more men than ever.

The men you see on those shows are doing time for making time with teens on the internet. It is not at school. Yes there is an occasional bad apple, but for the most part, the guys are just great. My girls like their male teachers better than their female teachers!

  • 9 votes
#3.15 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 1:32 AM EDT
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thelyamhound

Nicely written article, Perrie. I've got too much to say to be able to say much of anything at this time; I'm gonna wait and see what kinds of conversations crop up.

What I will put out there is that it's interesting looking at this from the perspective of someone who is religious, but not a theist--and who therefore must assume that human morality is anthropogenic. By that token, I'd say that the decline has less to do with the decline in religiosity (so far as such can be demonstrated) than with a failure on the part of both the religious and irreligious to devote proper time to moral philosophy as a necessary pursuit, along with the failure you note in raising children with basic behavioral guidelines built around simple respect for others.

  • 6 votes
#4 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 4:57 PM EDT
MalamuteMan

Hi thelyamhound,

a failure on the part of both the religious and irreligious to devote proper time to moral philosophy as a necessary pursuit

Perrie said (and I agree),

This media induced coma, allows the influence of advertising to sell our youth on the idea of instant gratification and the "everybody has gotta have it" mentality.

Devoting time to "philosophy" of any kind is simply too boring and laborious for our "gotta have it NOW" society. Imagine taking a room full of middle schoolers and trying to convince them to stop texting and put down their iPhones long enough to engage in a discussion about "philosophy"... BOOOOORRRRRIIIIIING!!! Philosophy doesn't offer enough quick, fun, gratification to hold their attention.

Sorry... I am a bit of a Luddite... I bet you couldn't tell... eh???

  • 6 votes
#4.1 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 5:09 PM EDT
thelyamhound

What's interesting about that, though, Mal, is that gratification/consumption and morality/philosophy needn't be mutually exclusive. I work in the arts as an actor/clown/buffoon/acrobat and a playwright, and in fitness as a personal trainer. The latest communication technology is actually of some professional urgency to me, if only because I'm expected to be reachable wherever I am . . . and that is rarely at home. New fitness toys & trends also fall under the same umbrella of consumer-goods-that-might-be-luxuries-to-some-but-are-necessities-for-me. I can be circumspect about what, exactly, I need, or how much, largely as a result of, yes, my Buddhism, but also the existentialism, social contract theory, and even nihilism to which I've been exposed.

And I don't know if one need pause too long to find the time to explore these notions; after all, my introduction to philosophy came by way of musicians like Michael Stipe and Bono, directors like David Cronenberg and Hal Hartley, and so on. Heck, one could get a whole education just looking up the various references from The Simpsons.

In other words, its not the presence of advertising or the popularity of consumer goods so much as it is a failure to teach individuals to regard such cultural noise as text, to be deconstructed, decoded, decentered.

  • 6 votes
#4.2 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 5:21 PM EDT
MalamuteMan

its not the presence of advertising or the popularity of consumer goods so much as it is a failure to teach individuals to regard such cultural noise as text, to be deconstructed, decoded, decentered.

I gotta agree with that! Also, I will say that there are great merits to our many human inventions... even iPhones... But there are almost always unintended consequences that come from our clever contraptions... Here is something else I have said on this topic...

We are clever enough to contrive how to transport men to the moon and bring them back alive and well; but not wise enough to see that technology is changing our planetary ecosystem so rapidly that the survivability of all life is threatened. We introduce one marvelous gadget and potion after another; and when we discover unanticipated and undesirable side effects from our inventions we devise yet another new thing as the remedy. Over the billions of years since life took hold on this planet there have been many changes to the ecosystem; some were small, others huge, and some were even catastrophic, but because there has usually been plenty of time between one change and the next life has always been able to adapt and prosper. Life has never had to deal with the deluge of change brought forth by mankind over the last two centuries. Our highly developed cerebral cortex has been so effective at bringing us the comfort and security that was so scarce for the predecessors of our species that now we are overrunning the planet and stressing it beyond its capacity to support us.

We want to believe we have the wits and the means to invent whatever may be necessary to fulfill our wildest dreams. But our dreams distract us and allow us to neglect our responsibilities to ourselves, to future generations, and to all the creatures of this planet. We must discipline ourselves or perish!

  • 7 votes
#4.3 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 5:31 PM EDT
Perrie

hound,

I have not forgotten about you. I am still thinking. I will be back!

  • 5 votes
#4.4 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 6:34 PM EDT
stevie-971695

MalamuteMan..... I am glad you touched on the advances in technology. Never more than now has communication been so great. A few clicks on the mouse and we can talk to people any where in the world. Everyone has cell phones, even preteen adolescents. And the kids have access to internet before they are ten.

This communication has made "the loss of morality" grow faster and farther then any other time in history. In the past different areas were more secluded and not tainted by the rest if the world. Maybe that is how the Amish and their religion will survive longer than the other religions.

I can't condemn the new technology but I think it has a lot to do with all the advances in communication.

Nice article Perrie!

  • 4 votes
#4.5 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 6:58 PM EDT
Perrie

thelyamhound,

Finally!

I'd say that the decline has less to do with the decline in religiosity (so far as such can be demonstrated) than with a failure on the part of both the religious and irreligious to devote proper time to moral philosophy as a necessary pursuit, along with the failure you note in raising children with basic behavioral guidelines built around simple respect for others.

I want to make sure that I am understanding you right. Simply put, a total lack of introspection, combined with a lack of guidance has lead to a lack of morality.

I agree with you that technology doesn't need to lead to a lack of morality. Actually used with restraint, they add much to our lives. On the other hand, there are many times that I see people out at a restaurant, and all the kids are texting, and not interacting with the rest of the table. I blame the parents/ adults for not setting those guidelines, but the end result will be children who grow into adults with a lack of interpersonal skills.

In other words, its not the presence of advertising or the popularity of consumer goods so much as it is a failure to teach individuals to regard such cultural noise as text, to be deconstructed, decoded, decentered.

Well, here I have to repeat what I said to Jack. Most people are intellectually lazy. So to deconstruct, decode and decenter, is almost as likely as giving one's self a root canal.

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#4.6 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 8:08 PM EDT
js-445607

Just a thought here with the texting and the restaurant and children. Years ago taking your child to a restaurant was difficult as they were supposed to be on their best behavior from the minute they exited the womb. The problem with this is the adherence to very strict and ridged rules were in place and truly were not good for human growth. The next step was to take entertainment to the restaurant yet still wanting best behavior. As the children got older, say an 8-9 yr. old a book could be brought to read during boring times. However, as in church public and restaurants by the time a child turned ten years old they were expected to know their manners and stay focused upon and contribute to the conversation.

All of these skills are easily taught but you must give your child a reason to want to adhere to moral conduct not simply demand it and ignore it yourself. Parents who get lazy are tortured and so are the rest of us.

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#4.7 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 11:53 PM EDT
Perrie

js,

I didn't believe in inflicting my little ones on people trying to have dinner when they were babies or toddlers. We stayed home or got a baby sitter. By the time we had taught them table manners in our home ( about 4) we started to take them to restaurants. We never talked baby talk to them, and always made them a part of the conversation. They were well behaved because we did the ground work in our home.

The texting business, is a whole different thing. It's about being connected to their friends and disconnecting from you. It is also rude, plain and simple. If you are not going to be part of the dinner conversation...stay at home. You can't get a fancy meal without at least being a member of the table.

So...do you think I have an opinion on this, LOL!

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#4.8 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 1:28 AM EDT
js-445607

Perrie, I can't argue with your statement that's for sure.

Teaching children niceties is protection for them as well as pleasing the adult population. My own children were taught that at home they could express themselves however they like but if they were out of line a discussion would be the result. They knew that when they went out in public they but their manners on and kept them on. My youngest (at age 6) was ticked off at her brother (age 10) on a day that she had a special program at school. I was fixing her hair and he came to the bathroom door and begged her forgiveness and asked to attend the program with her. To my amusement and surprise she announced, "Your behavior has been abominable so I don't want you to go with me." He replied, "But you know the moment I step out of the door I'm a perfect gentleman" Then he apologized again for his offence against his sister and she allowed him to come with us to the school. It was raining hard so I let them out in front of the school so I could find a parking space. The walked hand in hand into the school.

As a parent I kept up the dialogue with my children commenting and observing and asking questions enticing their opinions. We did not watch a lot of television and never without my supervision and rarely played video games. I'd drag them to the kitchen to help with dinner and out in the yard to help garden. They did not seem to mind and we always had a great time. We'd walk all over the city and talk about the sights. As adults they are at ease with their lives and well equipped to face nearly every situation that comes along. I believe this is one aspect that is missing now. Too many children grow up without the skills to know how to behave in any given situation and instead let it all hang out even when it is highly inappropriate. Parents need to protect their children from this and make sure they know how to feel out social atmospheres before jumping in and making fools of them and annoying others.

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#4.9 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 12:48 PM EDT
thelyamhound

I want to make sure that I am understanding you right.

I get that a lot. It remains surprising to me, if only because I was the "emotional" one amongst my gaggle of geeks growing up--not exactly less intelligent than my compatriots, but angrier, more volatile, and more physical. Sort of like Toshiro Mifune in The Seven Samurai (please tell me I'm not the only one who gets that reference).

Simply put, a total lack of introspection, combined with a lack of guidance has lead to a lack of morality.

I don't see how that's "simpler" than what I said, but yeah. :)

To put it another way, we teach kids how to read, write, operate a car and obey traffic laws (eventually), use utensils, etc.; some basic training in civility should come standard with that. In addition, I'd also suggest that the capacity to engage in--or at least observe knowledgeably--art and philosophy is key, because I believe those represent our truest, perhaps our only, distinctions as a species (since, as I don't believe in [G/g]od[s] or a Platonic notion of a soul, I see nothing else distinguishing us from flatworms with opposable thumbs).

On the other hand, there are many times that I see people out at a restaurant, and all the kids are texting, and not interacting with the rest of the table. I blame the parents/ adults for not setting those guidelines, but the end result will be children who grow into adults with a lack of interpersonal skills.

Well, yeah. On that same basis, I was limited as a child as to when I could read at social gatherings. Mealtimes, the book went away; interaction with adults came standard. Actually, I really liked interacting with adults as a kid; if nothing else, I liked to show off how much I had read over the course of the day, the weird trivia I knew about literature and mythology and history. One could argue, I suppose, that this interaction did me as much harm as good, but for the most part, in ensured that I was a polite enough child (minus some difficult years here and there).

Well, here I have to repeat what I said to Jack. Most people are intellectually lazy. So to deconstruct, decode and decenter, is almost as likely as giving one's self a root canal.

Well, yeah; that's the problem. And to me, some religion (specifically, neo-Platonic theism, particularly anthropomorphic monotheism) actually exacerbates the problem. So long as we believe that an individuated and transcendent soul separates us from the animals, we give inadequate focus to what we can actually demonstrate DOES separate us (ostensibly) from most species: the capacity to recognize and debate various threads of moral and intellectual understanding.

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#4.10 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 1:29 PM EDT
Perrie

js,

" He replied, "But you know the moment I step out of the door I'm a perfect gentleman" Then he apologized again for his offence against his sister and she allowed him to come with us to the school.

That is an adorable story. And from the rest of the post, I can tell that we have a very similar style of parenting. It's about time...which is the most important thing you can give a child. Something that you and I give to our children.

I am at a very challenging age. I have identical twin 16 year old girls about to enter their junior year.

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#4.11 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 1:52 PM EDT
Perrie

thelyamhound,

Before I start...where did you get your name from? I have been dying to ask you that for some time, but I didn't want to seem to invasive. BTW, you don't have to answer, if you don't want to. I am a very curious person, and it does get the better of me!

I get that a lot. It remains surprising to me, if only because I was the "emotional" one amongst my gaggle of geeks growing up--not exactly less intelligent than my compatriots, but angrier, more volatile, and more physical.

I find that hard to believe! You are one of the most well spoken people I know on the vine, and your command of the English language is amazing.

But..no..I don't get your reference. But I will google it later!

I'd also suggest that the capacity to engage in--or at least observe knowledgeably--art and philosophy is key, because I believe those represent our truest, perhaps our only, distinctions as a species (since, as I don't believe in [G/g]od[s] or a Platonic notion of a soul, I see nothing else distinguishing us from flatworms with opposable thumbs).

Now you have put your finger on a biggie. It seems that these things are no longer taught at many schools. It seems that as a society, we no longer value these subjects. So our teens reasoning skills are less than par.

interaction with adults came standard. Actually, I really liked interacting with adults as a kid; if nothing else, I liked to show off how much I had read over the course of the day, the weird trivia I knew about literature and mythology and history. One could argue, I suppose, that this interaction did me as much harm as good, but for the most part, in ensured that I was a polite enough child (minus some difficult years here and there)

I have to say, that from my youth, having this kind of interaction not only kept me in the loop with current events and debating skills ( yes, I have a very loud family), but also taught me social skills I wouldn't have otherwise. But now a recent study shows that the average American family eats together less than 1 time a week...how sad.

some religion (specifically, neo-Platonic theism, particularly anthropomorphic monotheism) actually exacerbates the problem. So long as we believe that an individuated and transcendent soul separates us from the animals, we give inadequate focus to what we can actually demonstrate DOES separate us (ostensibly) from most species: the capacity to recognize and debate various threads of moral and intellectual understanding

That is a very interesting statement, especially the comment about "as we believe that an individuated and transcendent soul separates us from the animals", because there are many who would debate that animal indeed do have souls. What they don't seem to have is the capacity to debate moral and intellectual understanding.

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#4.12 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 2:20 PM EDT
thelyamhound

Before I start...where did you get your name from? I have been dying to ask you that for some time, but I didn't want to seem to invasive.

My real name is Lyam (with a long "i" sound, as opposed to "Liam" with the long "e" sound; my mother liked "Liam," but was afraid it might be shortened by others to "Lee," which is her name). The family is mostly Irish, with a little Scottish and Welsh stirred in (with a pinch of German and just a dash of Susquehanna, natch). As it happens, per the Oxford English Dictionary, the name was originally short for lyam-hound, an old Welsh term for a bloodhound. So "the lyam-hound" simply became "thelyamhound."

I find that hard to believe! You are one of the most well spoken people I know on the vine, and your command of the English language is amazing.

Nah, I'm just a show-off. :) Plus I work it harder for cute redheads (I'd say don't tell my wife, but alas, she knows my nature; fortunately, I'm all talk).

But..no..I don't get your reference. But I will google it later!

The Seven Samurai was one of Kurosawa's many "tributes" to American Westerns which mythologizes feudal Japan with the same quasi-heroic eye that John Ford turned on the untamed West. Mifune (one of Kurosawa's frequent leading men, and, with Jacques Tati, one of my two favorite personae in all of world cinema) played a supporting role in this one, one of the seven--the youngest, angriest, and least trained, but also the one who had greater insight into the plight of the peasants the samurai were there to protect.

I often thought of myself (correctly or not) as "the bodyguard" (the Yojimbo, per the title of another favorite Kurosawa/Mifune collaboration) in my little band of the brainy.

It seems that these things are no longer taught at many schools. It seems that as a society, we no longer value these subjects. So our teens reasoning skills are less than par . . .

But now a recent study shows that the average American family eats together less than 1 time a week...how sad.

It's all rather sad, I agree. So the question for me becomes, when did the Socratic element within the family/clan/community disappear? Was it specifically attached to religion (to be affected by decreased religiosity), or was it attached to valuation of intellect within the family and community (to be damaged by the virulent anti-intellectualism that plagues our culture)?

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#4.13 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 3:31 PM EDT
thelyamhound

That is a very interesting statement, especially the comment about "as we believe that an individuated and transcendent soul separates us from the animals", because there are many who would debate that animal indeed do have souls.

That's not the standard theistic/Christian view, but I don't disagree that if there were such a thing as a "soul," animals would likely possess it; I'm just convinced that something that transcends the body would also transcend individual boundaries (we could get into a long discourse on Bruno's "eternal [in]corporeal," but I'll spare you that).

What they don't seem to have is the capacity to debate moral and intellectual understanding.

I'm not convinced of that. Not only do animals appear to function according to some sort of moral agency, but they even appear to have mechanisms for protecting the weak from the strong (despite assertions to the contrary below).

We may never know, as we don't speak horse/wolf/fire-ant/etc.

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#4.14 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 3:41 PM EDT
Perrie

It's all rather sad, I agree. So the question for me becomes, when did the Socratic element within the family/clan/community disappear? Was it specifically attached to religion (to be affected by decreased religiosity), or was it attached to valuation of intellect within the family and community (to be damaged by the virulent anti-intellectualism that plagues our culture)?

I think a couple of things lead to that change. First, I think that when families need two incomes, the mom stopped cooking and dinner was had on the fly. For families that didn't need two incomes, well, they changed over time, as kids had their agendas and so did they and they had the income to do so. I think over all, it is societal.

That's not the standard theistic/Christian view, but I don't disagree that if there were such a thing as a "soul," animals would likely possess it; I'm just convinced that something that transcends the body would also transcend individual boundaries (we could get into a long discourse on Bruno's "eternal [in]corporeal," but I'll spare you that).

I think you misunderstood me. If there is a soul ( I am not sure), then I think that animals do possess them. As for the rest of your statement, I'm really not sure.

Not only do animals appear to function according to some sort of moral agency, but they even appear to have mechanisms for protecting the weak from the strong (despite assertions to the contrary below).

We may never know, as we don't speak horse/wolf/fire-ant/etc.

Oh, I agree that animals do have a sense of morality. I know that elephants cry, and bring their dead to burial ground. That Dolphins take care of their ill and adopt babies. That lions love their parents, even if they are human ones. Even our little budgies love my daughters. The only thing I am not sure of is if they can have a discussion about morals.

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#4.15 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 5:07 PM EDT
thelyamhound

I think a couple of things lead to that change. First, I think that when families need two incomes, the mom stopped cooking and dinner was had on the fly. For families that didn't need two incomes, well, they changed over time, as kids had their agendas and so did they and they had the income to do so. I think over all, it is societal.

Good point(s)!

I think you misunderstood me. If there is a soul ( I am not sure), then I think that animals do possess them. As for the rest of your statement, I'm really not sure.

I don't think I misunderstood; I was just elucidating my own thoughts on the matter. I agree that, if there is such a thing as the "soul," that animals do possess them.

There are many schools of religious that that differentiate between the soul and the spirit (pneuma) . . . but again, I'm not sure I want to open that can of worms (just yet).

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#4.16 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 5:26 PM EDT
thelyamhound

Oh, I agree that animals do have a sense of morality . . . The only thing I am not sure of is if they can have a discussion about morals.

I get that. I just tend to think that if they have a sense of morality, there must be some mechanism for their understanding of it; that is to say, there might well be "discussion" that we have no way of measuring. Of course, I'm also used to working within martial arts (particularly capoeira) that refer to what happens between players/fighters in a match as "discourse." I even think of sex as being essentially conversational. All of which is to say that there are modes of "discussion" that don't relate directly to language.

I think, however, that our use of language creates a wider divergence in how morals are practiced, enforced, or changed than one usually sees within a species, so I agree (to an extent) that the sheer complexity of our moral structures is unique, which might well be a reflection of language, and thus of the sophistication of our moral discussions.

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#4.17 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 5:30 PM EDT
Perrie

I even think of sex as being essentially conversational. All of which is to say that there are modes of "discussion" that don't relate directly to language.

Sex is one of the ultimate forms of communication. It can express so many emotions from love to anger, from understanding to lack of communication. According to anthropologists, the reason that man evolved to have face to face sex, is just this very reason.

I think, however, that our use of language creates a wider divergence in how morals are practiced, enforced, or changed than one usually sees within a species, so I agree (to an extent) that the sheer complexity of our moral structures is unique, which might well be a reflection of language, and thus of the sophistication of our moral discussions

This is what I am saying!

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#4.18 - Mon Jun 21, 2010 12:10 AM EDT
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Hekofawoman

Excellent Perrie! Thank you always for your info and insights, Hek.

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Reply#5 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 5:06 PM EDT
Perrie

Thanks Heck! The guys above are having an intense talk, and I am getting my head wrapped around it.

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#5.1 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 5:46 PM EDT
Hekofawoman

Yes, I will have to read to stay abreast of all of this, you know me, I'm not that knowledgeable, although I have my opinions, and so far .........I'm a lovin it. Good job woman:) Hek

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#5.2 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 9:28 PM EDT
Perrie

Heck,

Opinion away! You're not getting graded on your post, LOL!

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#5.3 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 9:47 PM EDT
Hekofawoman

Ah heck, you know I will (got too much going on right now, and so will you......soon enough) hehehehehek

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#5.4 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 10:24 PM EDT
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lisaed

Perrie---simply stated, imho, a little old fashioned fear of God is a good thing. To the extent that fear of the Creator is diluted or in many cases extinguished.....well the "anything goes" sense of morality takes precedent to Him and His Commandments. And we can see the consequences of that all around us. It is critical that a sense of morality be developed during one's formative years---taught by parents, other family members, teachers, religious figures and any other appropriate role models. Without that sense of morality there is a greater tendency toward sin. Sins that hurt not just the sinner but many others in the world around them. The breakdown of the traditional family that has been occuring now for generations also does not help in establishing a moral society imho. That is the opinion of a social conservative.....and now I'm sure I'll get slammed for being well "conservative."

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#6 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 5:13 PM EDT
thelyamhound

Perrie---simply stated, imho, a little old fashioned fear of God is a good thing.

Perhaps not. As a Buddhist (who neither acknowledges nor worships any deity), I can't quite see the utility in fearing something that I don't believe exists, thus building my moral structures on a foundation that might well be fictional.

To the extent that fear of the Creator is diluted or in many cases extinguished.....well the "anything goes" sense of morality takes precedent to Him and His Commandments.

Why? Buddhists haven't believed in [G/g]od(s) for centuries, at least not as a canonical matter of doctrine; Taoists were arguably the original pantheists (though there might be some Greeks here and there who would argue otherwise). Are we to assume that adherents of these religious systems aren't moral? Or could we conversely assume that morality could be derived from sources other than theos?

And we can see the consequences of that all around us.

Yes and no. Actual crime rates have been declining, for the most part. On the other hand, generalized notions of civility seem to be somewhat lacking. But how would we associate, say, saying "please" and "thank you" or offering to help clear the table when you eat dinner as a guest in someone else's house with [G/g]od(s)?

It is critical that a sense of morality be developed during one's formative years---taught by parents, other family members, teachers, religious figures and any other appropriate role models.

Well, sure. I don't imagine you'll encounter many so irreligious that they'd disagree with that. But teachers, for instance, are all but obligated to address a broader notion of morality than children or religious figures. Respecting property and being considerate of others constitute civic moralities, which are certainly the province of public educational institutions; more strictly religious niceties, like keeping the sabbath, duties to deity (as opposed to other individuals or to self), or (to the degree that it's even relevant, and depending on the age of the children) sexual morality really shouldn't be that homogenously enforced across a whole culture.

Without that sense of morality there is a greater tendency toward sin.

Well, there's a lesser tendency toward morality, in any case; there's no such thing as sin without [G/g]od(s), and no such thing as [G/g]od(s) without some epistemic foundation for belief therein.

The breakdown of the traditional family that has been occuring now for generations also does not help in establishing a moral society imho.

I don't disagree. But I imagine we have different notions as to what aspects of the traditional family are responsible for allowing it to function. That is to say, I certainly don't see gay marriage or adoption as threats to what actually works in the traditional family on the same level that single parenthood or lack of discipline might be.

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#6.1 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 5:37 PM EDT
MalamuteMan

Hi Lisa,

a little old fashioned fear of God is a good thing

I have no fear of God... or for that matter any knowledge that is meaningful to me of any kind of God... and yet I think of myself as a person with very strong moral ethics. I abhor the "anything goes" sense of morality, but not because I fear "Him." Many of "His" Commandments seem like sensible ideas to me, but the first 4 of the famous 10 Commandments seem kind of self centered to me... Not exactly a good "role model" setting a good example for others to follow.

BTW- Even though I don't share most of your "conservative" views, I admire your strong conviction!

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#6.2 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 5:49 PM EDT
Perrie

lisa,

Perrie---simply stated, imho, a little old fashioned fear of God is a good thing. To the extent that fear of the Creator is diluted or in many cases extinguished.....well the "anything goes" sense of morality takes precedent to Him and His Commandments.

Well, I won't say that you are wrong and I won't say that you are right, because I think that it is more complex than that. I think for many, fear is a great motivator. If religion gives people the fear of god's wrath, and that makes them better people, then religion has done it's job.

On the other hand, there are those that don't seem to need a faith to do what is right.

I had a very unique upbringing in the fact that I was exposed to two faiths. Both taught what was right, but also freewill. Just because we know something is wrong, and we might be even fearful, we still might not do what is right for immediate gratification.

It is critical that a sense of morality be developed during one's formative years---taught by parents, other family members, teachers, religious figures and any other appropriate role models.

Actually, this is a well proven fact. There is a quote in the Bible that says (and I paraphrase) Show me the child at 7 and I will show you the adult. So with that as a spring board, there was a life long study of over 40 English children of all different faiths and economic backgrounds. They documented them at age 7 and followed them through even now. Guess what, after they all went through the same rebellious stage of their teens and twentys, by the time they were 28-35, they were the same person they were at 7 in beliefs and behavior.

Without that sense of morality there is a greater tendency toward sin.

Define sin. That term is as difficult to define as morality (post#8) An example; Christians and Jews don't think it's a sin to not wear a head covering, but Muslims do. Jews think it's a sin to eat pork; Hindus cows. Is sin just the 10 commandments or is it more?

The breakdown of the traditional family that has been occuring now for generations also does not help in establishing a moral society imho.

Call me old fashioned, but there I have to agree with you 100%

That is the opinion of a social conservative.....and now I'm sure I'll get slammed for being well "conservative."

Absolutely not! The point of these dialogs is to gain a better understanding and some insight to each other without the fear of being slammed.

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#6.3 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 6:12 PM EDT
Jack Huang

Perrie---simply stated, imho, a little old fashioned fear of God is a good thing.

That depends entirely on how you apply (utilize? exploit?) that fear of God.

Fear of God has been used to teach kids not to lie, but it's also been used to justify murder.

To the extent that fear of the Creator is diluted or in many cases extinguished.....well the "anything goes" sense of morality takes precedent to Him and His Commandments. And we can see the consequences of that all around us.

The world cannot be reduced to simply "either you're a Bible follower or anything goes and you're fine with chainsawing babies."

A reduction in religious fervor or religious belief does not necessarily cause a breakdown in morality. You can look to countries with sharia law as an example of exactly the opposite (according to our common view of morality). Further, the Ten Commandments haven't been rigorously followed for centuries, and Eastern cultures had never even heard of them until recently (in historical terms). You'd be quite hard-pressed to argue that the Eastern Hemisphere was a cesspool of amoral skullduggery before the 1800s, though.

It is critical that a sense of morality be developed during one's formative years---taught by parents, other family members, teachers, religious figures and any other appropriate role models.

Sure, though I'd add the caveat that "appropriate role models" is quite a tricky animal.

Without that sense of morality there is a greater tendency toward sin. Sins that hurt not just the sinner but many others in the world around them.

Sin only applies within a religious framework. Further, "hurt" can encompass quite a number of things--everything from physical harm to the asshat proselytizers' line of "it just hurts me/God so to see you being so apart from God."

The breakdown of the traditional family that has been occuring now for generations also does not help in establishing a moral society imho.

I agree with that vague, general statement, but it'd be more useful to see what you specifically consider to be a "traditional family," and what factors you specifically think are breaking down this model.

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#6.4 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 6:16 PM EDT
MalamuteMan

I gotta tell ya Jack... the precision of your thinking is just bloody impressive.

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#6.5 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 6:33 PM EDT
Perrie

I gotta tell ya Jack... the precision of your thinking is just bloody impressive.

Tell me about it! And for that matter so is yours and quite a few others here. I might have bitten off more than I can chew, but hey let's see where it takes us.

That depends entirely on how you apply (utilize? exploit?) that fear of God.

I have a problem with a God I have to fear. I was taught in a loving God, but as life went by, I saw less and less of his grace on earth, and wondered, "Where the hell is he?" But I digress...

Yes, fear of god can be used for good ( do unto others etc..) or bad ( They are not true believers, fear them)

Further, the Ten Commandments haven't been rigorously followed for centuries, and Eastern cultures had never even heard of them until recently (in historical terms). You'd be quite hard-pressed to argue that the Eastern Hemisphere was a cesspool of amoral skullduggery before the 1800s, though.

Now correct me if I am wrong Jack, but in most eastern cultures, honor is the basis of morality. To bring dishonor to yourself is to bring it on the family. That would keep most people in check. It is not just societal pressure but family, and brother, family pressure is a killer.

It is critical that a sense of morality be developed during one's formative years---taught by parents, other family members, teachers, religious figures and any other appropriate role models.

Sure, though I'd add the caveat that "appropriate role models" is quite a tricky animal.

Quite true.

I agree with that vague, general statement, but it'd be more useful to see what you specifically consider to be a "traditional family," and what factors you specifically think are breaking down this model.

Ahh.. a murky area! I don't think I personally don't need to define a family as traditional, meaning mom and dad, but one in which children are raised by elders who make sure that they have love, guidance, caring, dialog, an interest in education and all of the fundamental needs. But, as a teacher, I often have latch key kids, with absentee parents, with none of the above given to them.

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#6.6 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 6:58 PM EDT
Jack Huang

Heh, thanks.

It annoys more than a few people, though. I've been called "nitpicky" more than a few times. :-P

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#6.7 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 6:59 PM EDT
Perrie

It annoys more than a few people, though. I've been called "nitpicky" more than a few times. :-P

I think that people tend to be intellectually lazy, and you are like the teacher who slams the ruler on the desk and says, "Wake UP!" Nitpick away!

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#6.8 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 7:29 PM EDT
Jack Huang

Now correct me if I am wrong Jack, but in most eastern cultures, honor is the basis of morality. To bring dishonor to yourself is to bring it on the family. That would keep most people in check. It is not just societal pressure but family, and brother, family pressure is a killer.

I don't know about "most Eastern cultures," but that was certainly true after Confucianism swept across China (and if you go by World HIstory According to China, all Eastern culture was ripped off of China, so... :-P).

Ahh.. a murky area! I don't think I personally don't need to define a family as traditional, meaning mom and dad, but one in which children are raised by elders who make sure that they have love, guidance, caring, dialog, an interest in education and all of the fundamental needs. But, as a teacher, I often have latch key kids, with absentee parents, with none of the above given to them.

Yeah, there was a set of infographics made about cultural differences between Germany (West) and China (East) made by a Chinese lady who's lived in Germany since her teens. Of particular note is the "daily life of the old" comparison (third from the bottom).

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#6.9 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 8:47 PM EDT
Jalmeno

Jack,

Further, the Ten Commandments haven't been rigorously followed for centuries, and Eastern cultures had never even heard of them until recently (in historical terms).

Did the Eastern Cultures have anything in "writing"?

Any codifications, canons, etc...?

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#6.10 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 8:51 PM EDT
Perrie

Jack,

That was an amazing link. Boy, when they say a picture says a thousand words. That group of infographics was so descriptive of the differences between east and west. I really liked daily life of the old and How to treat the younger. It says so much about the difference in the mind set of these two cultures. The East has so much respect for family, elders and the future generations. I just hope that industrialization doesn't ruin that for China. I know that when we were an agrarian society, we were more like that, but lost it along the way.

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#6.11 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 10:02 PM EDT
Jack Huang

Well, Confucius wrote quite a bit of literature on the matter of social morality, which was later codified essentially into Chinese social law, and Buddhist texts talk about morality quite a bit, as well. Beyond that, I can't say for sure, though I strongly suspect that Hindu religious texts also mentioned moral guidelines.

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#6.12 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 10:04 PM EDT
lisaed

Are we to assume that adherents of these religious systems aren't moral?

Thelymanhound: Absolutely not....any religious foundation including buddhism helps shape a person's moral foundation. I'm a Roman Catholic...my sister raised Catholic now embraces more the eastern philosophies. I was thrilled to attend with her a talk by the Dalai Lama coupla years ago.....a thrill that rated right up there with the day I was in the audience in St. Peter's Squre when the Pope gave his Palm Sunday mass. I don't judge any religion to be better than anyone else's....but I personally take comfort in believing there exists a power greater than myself. He can be wrath filled and punishing as we see Him in the First Testament. He can be compassionate and forgiving as we see Him in the New Testament. As a person of faith, I believe the ultimate judge of anyone's life --the net summation of their good works and their sins will be God.

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#6.13 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 10:07 AM EDT
lisaed

Jack--any religion can be distorted and used for evil purposes....this is because those of us here on earth are mere mortals....human beings that are capable of sin. Yes, sin is defined in religious contexts---as a Catholic we have a broadbased definition of sins as follows:

The Seven Deadly Sins, also known as the Capital Vices or Cardinal Sins, is a classification of the most objectionable vices that has been used since early Christian times to educate and instruct followers concerning (immoral) fallen humanity's tendency to sin. The final version of the list consists of wrath, greed, sloth, pride, lust, envy, and gluttony. The Catholic Church divided sin into two principal categories: "venial sins", which are relatively minor and could be forgiven through any sacramentals or sacraments of the church, and the more severe "capital" or mortal sins. Mortal sins are believed to destroy the life of grace and create the threat of eternal damnation unless either absolved through the sacrament of Penance or forgiven through perfect contrition on the part of the penitent.

As a God fearing Christian--for me personally, fear of God translates directly to fear of Hell.....a state of damnation vs. eternal grace.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seven_deadly_sins

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#6.14 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 10:14 AM EDT
lisaed

Many people apply the "be good stewards" idea when it is convenient and requires no deprivation but give in to their desires when comfort and convenience would be compromised.

Mal---that's a sin---good example. ANd:

BTW- Even though I don't share most of your "conservative" views, I admire your strong conviction!

Thanks! And if I recall correctly it was you and I going round on some discussion of morality that in part inspired Perries' article...no?

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#6.15 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 10:22 AM EDT
MalamuteMan

Hi Lisa,

if I recall correctly it was you and I going round on some discussion of morality that in part inspired Perries' article...no?

Yes it was... see #1.3

and I have a question about this...

any religious foundation including buddhism helps shape a person's moral foundation

What about my decidedly non-religious (not anti-religious) foundation? I would be interested to here what you have to say about what I said in #3 and even more interested in your reaction to #3.2

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#6.16 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 10:35 AM EDT
lisaed

Mal---It's hard for me to comment on how those who do not share my faith such as yourself come to find their own sense of morality. I in no way mean to imply there is only one road to get there and I mentioned various other factors that help shape a young person's development of a moral code. I did read what you said and all of it makes sense....your's was defined by your parents, who helped instill in you the Golden Rule, and your life experiences as a young person and with your interaction with your pets as an adult. I think of all those things are factors that shape a person's sense of morality. I never meant to imply that morality comes from religion alone. I don't think there is any right way to get there to a sense of morality but I do believe religion can help. My own faith was instilled in me first by mother....who as a staunch to this day Catholic took me to church WITHOUT fail every Sunday ("of course we can make time in our busy schedules to give God 45 minutes a week," she would say as she drove us and we grumbled en route to mass each week). She made sure I enjoyed every sacrament from baptism, communion, confirmation (and Sunday school every week), marriage before God in the Catholic Church, penance, etc. She taught me I think when I was about three years old how to pray sitting next to me as I said my "Hail Mary" my "Our Father", and my "Now I lay me down to sleep" when I had no idea what the words of the first two prayers even meant....didn't matter....they are now an inherent part of me. I feel peace when I say them. Thanks mom for pushing me when I didn't want to as a young person to embrace God. My faith is your gift to me. My father too raised Catholic has become now as he is older a much more spiritual person reading parts of the bible daily etc.

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#6.17 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 10:56 AM EDT
MalamuteMan

Thanks for your reply Lisa! My sister-in-law is a very dear friend, one of the smartest people I know, and a Catholic Nun. Even though I don't understand her "faithful" beliefs, I respect her for her dedication to them. I have a similar respect for you.

PS- Please see #10.16

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#6.18 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 11:23 AM EDT
Perrie

A very interesting dialog! Personally, being raised in and educated in two different faith (Catholicism and Judaism), I have a somewhat similar religious background to Lisa, but, and I guess I say this by choice, I have do what is right, not because of fear from hell, as I was taught by the Church, but because in the back of my mind, I feel that what goes around comes around, which is a more Judaic view. I guess I just pick and choose, because I had such a rich religious background. I must say, if I were to start all over, I do really like Buddisim, and I can see how Lisa's sister embraced it. It is a very clean and clear philosophy. And I totally understand the thrill of meeting both Pope or The Dalai Lama. Men of such conviction are very rare.

But at the end of the day, I feel that people can be moral good people without religion, if they follow just the golden rule.

And yes, it was the both of you that inspired this article. I must thank you both, as I have enjoyed the exchange of ideas greatly!

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#6.19 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 11:45 AM EDT
lisaed

Perrie--6.19---I thank you for the dedication.....I enjoyed your article and the discussion it spurred. Takes some courage to feature such a tough topic very often of heated debate on your column.

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#6.20 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 11:59 AM EDT
thelyamhound

Thelymanhound: Absolutely not....any religious foundation including buddhism helps shape a person's moral foundation.

Then if one can maintain a moral foundation within a religion that acknowledges no deity and holds morality, beauty, and all abstractions to be anthropogenic constructs, why could one not function as well without a defined religion (I say "defined" because I actually think that atheists do tend to adhere to de facto religious constructs like objectivism, secular humanism, existentialistm, etc.; that's probably fodder for a whole 'nother conversation)?

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#6.21 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 12:53 PM EDT
js-445607

I was raised with an overly zealous Christian mother and a non-religious father. My father had a stronger sense of morality because it was inherent in him and he had no need to be coerced into being a good person. On the other hand my mother used religion to punish and to give way to God the responsibilities that were hers. The hardest part is she punished me with threats from God and I knew she was lying. God did not strike me dead for her sins and I was not punished unfairly as I knew the only person responsible for me is I. I believe that there are times when religion gives people license to take liberties in a negative light.

I believe we are born with the components of morality. If a child only receives negative input they will try to thrive on this, as attention is what they need. So basically we start out as wee pure hearts and are shaped from that point.

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#6.22 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 12:58 PM EDT
lisaed

why could one not function as well without a defined religion

thelyamhound---I never said they couldn't.....but I do believe that religion when not practiced by zealots that can turn religion into a force for evil rather than a force for good can help a person to build their own internal moral compass ---which has been my own personal experience. I can't speak to anyone else's experience with their road to morality but my own. And:

I say "defined" because I actually think that atheists do tend to adhere to de facto religious constructs like objectivism, secular humanism, existentialistm, etc.; that's probably fodder for a whole 'nother conversation)?

I can't speak for Perrie--but I think that is exactly the conversation she was looking for with this piece....I can't speak for atheists or secular humanists....but I know Mal has given us some insights into how he developed without God or religion his own moral compass. I've also pointed out on this thread that those who are atheists but who embrace the Golden Rule are embracing a moral construct propagated by religion.

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#6.23 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 1:22 PM EDT
lisaed

but it'd be more useful to see what you specifically consider to be a "traditional family," and what factors you specifically think are breaking down this model.

Jack 6.4---as Father's Day is this weekend here is some "traditional family" food for thought:

Marriage matters. But mentioning the bond between marriage and lower poverty violates the protocols of political correctness. Thus, the main cause of child poverty remains hidden from public view. Since the decline of marriage is the principal cause of child poverty and welfare dependence in the U.S. …it would seem reasonable for government to take steps to strengthen marriage

Research shows that a child raised in a home where Dad is married to Mom is much less likely to live in poverty, get arrested as a juvenile, be suspended or expelled from school, be treated for emotional or behavioral problems, or drop out before completing high school. Taxpayers foot the bill for more than $300 billion a year in means-tested government spending on low-income single moms – and, in relatively rare cases, single dads.

To reinvigorate marriage in lower-income neighborhoods, Rector suggests, government could start by providing facts on the role of healthy marriages in reducing poverty and improving the well-being of children. Why not teach skills for selecting a wife or husband? Why not explain the importance of developing a stable marital relationship before bringing children into the world?

Nothing could be further from government practice. In social service agencies, welfare offices, schools and popular culture across America, what Rector calls "a deafening silence" reigns on the topic of marriage. The welfare system actively penalizes low-income couples who do get married. He adds:

For most on the Left, marriage is, at best, an antiquated institution, a red-state superstition. From this viewpoint, the real task is to expand government subsidies as a post-marriage society is built.

Rather than adopt policies to reverse the 50-year spike in births outside marriage, though, President Obama in his 2011 budget "would eliminate the one program dedicated to encouraging healthy marriage," notes Jennifer A. Marshall, Heritage's director of domestic policy studies

http://blog.heritage.org/2010/06/18/morning-bell-fathers-who-are-husbands-spare-children-from-poverty/?utm_source=Newsletter&utm_medium=Email&utm_campaign=Morning%2BBell

Happy Father's Day to all you dads out there.

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#6.24 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 2:00 PM EDT
thelyamhound

Did the Eastern Cultures have anything in "writing"?

The Bhagavad Gita, the I Ching, the Tao Te Ching, the Lotus Sutra, Great Concentration and Insight, the Gosho . . . and those are just the ones I'm familiar with. There are hundreds more.

Of course, with some exceptions (most notably the Bhagavad Gita), these texts concern themselves more with the "true nature of phenomena" and the ways in which that true nature might influence our contemplating our duties to other beings and/or the broader spectrum of "Being." In other words, there are fewer "rules" to define moral behavior--outside of orthodox Hiduism or Confucianism (the latter being entirely a set of standards for comportment)--and more notions as to how one might contemplate morality and derive rules from said contemplation.

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#6.25 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 2:12 PM EDT
Jack Huang

lisaed, I had literally no interest in indulging canned partisan sniping and political smears when I asked for you to clarify your definition of "traditional family," or the specific factors which you consider to be breaking down this "traditional family." This utter disinterest has not yet faded at present.

thelyamhound---I never said they couldn't.....but I do believe that religion when not practiced by zealots that can turn religion into a force for evil rather than a force for good can help a person to build their own internal moral compass ---which has been my own personal experience.

That's quite a few caveats (one of them circular) for the particular mode of religion described by your earlier statement of "a little old fashioned fear of God."

I've also pointed out on this thread that those who are atheists but who embrace the Golden Rule are embracing a moral construct propagated by religion.

But not solely propagated by religion. The fact that many religions also utilize the Golden Rule (first formally recorded in ancient secular Greek philosophy) says nothing about its inherent religiosity.

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#6.26 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 2:30 PM EDT
lisaed

This utter disinterest has not yet faded at present.

Jack--your rudeness never ceases to amaze me. I gave you a sincere answer and you through it in my face? I should have known better than to try to converse with you. If you've facts to counter the ones I presented about the breakdown of the family structure in America and it's implications for society from another source better to your liking by all means link away and drop the insults. Thanks.

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#6.27 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 3:13 PM EDT
Jack HuangDeleted
Perrie

Perrie--6.19---I thank you for the dedication.....I enjoyed your article and the discussion it spurred. Takes some courage to feature such a tough topic very often of heated debate on your column.

Thank you very much. I was very determined not to let this turn into religion slamming or atheist slamming, but let everyone speak their mind, which is a tall order to do. I can only hope that we don't get a few clowns in here and try and ruin this fine dialog.

About Family and Marriage, I tried to find a study done by a non partisan group, but I can't. I tend to agree, but I like to find info that backs up my feelings. I have often been proven wrong.

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#6.29 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 4:30 PM EDT
Perrie

Yikes! OK, I see that something got under my radar.

OK...Jack and Lisa..I don't like what I am seeing. I will let the comments stand, but please do not ruin the good tone of this article. If one of you wants your comment deleted just let me know. PLEASE... let's try to let this rest.

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#6.30 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 4:41 PM EDT
js-445607

Perrie from my experience of over 20 years in the public school system I think families is structured a bit differently now. I found that the majority of divorced couples shared custody and stepped up to their responsibilities. More and more couples divorced yet remained friendly and cooperative with each other. I knew of a few feuding couples and their pettiness toward one another took its toll on the children. I believe that most value their children and guide them to the best of their abilities. One thing I noticed in working in a neighborhood of struggling families the children stepped up to help their parents even by working part time jobs after school escorting their younger siblings back and forth from school and doing the major portion of daycare meal provision and other tasks. This is not unlike the 50's families.

When you think back about stigma the overall picture will unfold. There was a time up until the late 60's when a woman could not go into a bar or tavern alone without being labeled "loose" or worse. A divorced mother lived in shame and children of divorced couples were looked upon as less than other children. A black man or woman were restricted in their activities and rarely allowed to move into a white neighborhood. Mixed race marriages were an abomination and anyone doing anything out of wedlock was subject to judgement and ridicule. We've had to change our mindset on many points of life and it is difficult for it to all fall in place at once.

  • 5 votes
#6.31 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 5:05 PM EDT
lisaed

Perrie---you should delete Jack's 6.28. I'm reporting it and signing off. There are strict rules from Tyler regarding the Jones Girl and her stalking my page. And his reference to her and what I said to her is completely OFF TOPIC and not provided in the correct context....he does in fact misrepresent it. And for the sake of your thread I'm not going to clarify.

  • 5 votes
#6.32 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 5:25 PM EDT
Perrie

Lisa,

I have deleted the comment based on the information you have given me about Tyler's ruling. Jack, if you have an issue with this, please inform Tyler, since I have not the vaguest idea of what this is about, but if I hear that Tyler has made a ruling, I abide by it. I am very sad that this issue had to come up. Until now, things were so...well, nice.

  • 6 votes
#6.33 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 6:22 PM EDT
Jack Huang

I wasn't aware there was official mediation regarding lisaed's and TJG's relationship, but fair enough. I'd rather not waste Tyler's time simply because lisaed likes calling me a liar.

Here's the comment again without the contentious part:

I gave you a sincere answer and you through it in my face?

Not at all. You gave me a canned copy-paste without a single word of your own devising--an answer which included, among other things:

For most on the Left, marriage is, at best, an antiquated institution, a red-state superstition. From this viewpoint, the real task is to expand government subsidies as a post-marriage society is built.

I doubt you'd disagree that gay marriage is something that's rather heavily supported by what you'd consider "liberals." If they really considered marriage to merely be "an antiquated institution, a red-state superstition," then why bother pushing for broadening marriage, instead of trying to shut down the institution completely?

Or, I could simply pull up marriage statistics, which show that (among US adults) 78% of all adults, 74% of non-Christians, and 65% of atheists/agnostics have been married. Apparently, 37% of sociopolitical liberals have been divorced (which requires being married in the first place), compared with 28% of sociopolitical conservatives. It seems the statistics rather disagree with the overgeneralized declaration you deigned to quote.

Heritage.org is a pretty website, but its content seems to come up short with regards to truthiness. Thus, my criticism of your copy-paste as "canned partisan sniping and political smears." :-)

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#6.34 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 7:28 PM EDT
Perrie

js,

It appears that we both are teacher, ( I could be wrong, but I am making that guess from the info provided). I would have to agree with everything that you said in your post. The one thing though, that you missed and Jack provided the information for, is that the children from divorced parents, were once married. So there are two hopefully loving parents to provide support for their children.

There was a time up until the late 60's when a woman could not go into a bar or tavern alone without being labeled "loose" or worse. A divorced mother lived in shame and children of divorced couples were looked upon as less than other children. A black man or woman were restricted in their activities and rarely allowed to move into a white neighborhood. Mixed race marriages were an abomination and anyone doing anything out of wedlock was subject to judgement and ridicule. We've had to change our mindset on many points of life and it is difficult for it to all fall in place at once.

This I would have to agree with 100%

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#6.35 - Sat Jun 19, 2010 12:45 PM EDT
Perrie

Jack,

Thanks for the info. I couldn't find any quickly and the posts were coming in fast at the time.

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#6.36 - Sat Jun 19, 2010 12:53 PM EDT
js-445607

Perrie, regarding divorced couples I did miss mentioning that in this day and age we do not have to set up each other as enemies to have an excuse to separate when our relationship is finished. I believe for a long time that unless there were "reasons" and those reasons were usually caustic and toxic you were supposed to stick out a marriage that was finished. I am very content that this ugliness is phasing out and a divorced couple can still be friends and raise their children with mutual joy. That past push me pull me and dirty laundry exposure to escape was ludicrous at best.

  • 3 votes
#6.37 - Sat Jun 19, 2010 1:04 PM EDT
Perrie

Js,

I have to agree with you totally. Although children do crave two parents, it is far better for the parents to go their separate ways, then stick it out in a toxic marriage, so long as they both let their children know that they are still loved and are both hands on with the kids.

  • 5 votes
#6.38 - Mon Jun 21, 2010 12:13 AM EDT
believer-369603

yep.

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#6.39 - Mon Jun 21, 2010 10:05 AM EDT
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bobbievee

Superb article! Unfortunately, morality is a subjective concept. To me, the Golden Rule sums it up best.

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Reply#7 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 5:27 PM EDT
Perrie

Superb article! Unfortunately, morality is a subjective concept. To me, the Golden Rule sums it up best.

I think that I can agree with that statement 100%

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#7.1 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 5:50 PM EDT
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ERich-356044

Excellent article Perrie!

I agree with many comments here.... both from religious and non-religious posters! (weird I know!) Lisaed is right when she states the breakdown of families is a cause, and agree with Maluteman when he states that we are loosing our moral compass because we aren't being taught to be moral. Ethics is a funny thing.... I associate ethics with morals, and I find that people are having less of an ethics based behavior.

What pops into my brain is the definition of morality. There have been many arguments/discussions of this on the vine, about hate and acceptance, spirituality and religiousness. I worry about what 'box' we put morality in. I worry about what limitations we put as humans on religion and morality. Does morality take place in the hoods and barrios of the world? Or, does morality (or what someone determines as moral) only take place in suburbia and the worlds of the middle class?

I hope that made sense. Morality needs to be defined first. This will have a different definition to people.

E

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Reply#8 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 5:33 PM EDT
Perrie

Morality needs to be defined first. This will have a different definition to people.

Well, yes and no. It depends on how we define morality. Murder is always wrong. Rape is always wrong. Is having a baby out of marriage wrong? If so why? I'm throwing that one out there to see what happens.

The comments on this article are very deep. I want to take some time to mull them over.

  • 6 votes
#8.1 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 5:54 PM EDT
Jack Huang

Great article, Perrie. It covers quite a bit of ground, so I'll simply see what bite-sized conversations come up and respond to them. As such...

Murder is always wrong.

That depends on how your define murder, doesn't it? It reminds me of the classic mistransliteration of "Thou shalt not murder" into "Thou shalt not kill."

Murder, as a premeditated act of killing a person who is not directly and presently threatening you and your loved ones' lives, is generally bad, but as a counterpoint, I'll pose the classic question of "What would you do if you had a chance to assassinate Hitler during WWII?"

Would assassinating Hitler (or Pol Pot, etc.) constitute a murder, and thusly be necessarily immoral? I think there's a bit of grey area when it comes to moral decisions there, because morality is, in the end, wholly subjective.

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#8.2 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 6:03 PM EDT
Perrie

Jack,

I had a bad feeling that someone was going to bring that up after I posted. It is indeed a conundrum. Because the simple answer is to say, yes, it would be good to get that sort of evil off the face of this earth. You could counter it though by saying, killing is always wrong, even when it's evil, so we will sit evil in a room for the rest of their lives and make them watch films of the evil that they did? You have now achieved two goals. You have not killed, and you have punished the evil appropriately....

Or is my punishment evil in it's self, and death would be better, more humane? Do they deserve that humane treatment?

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#8.3 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 6:24 PM EDT
MalamuteMan

That depends on how you define murder, doesn't it?

Can give us a similar analysis of the Buddhist precept "Do no harm."

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#8.4 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 6:39 PM EDT
ERich-356044

Excellent point Perrie!!!

Murder is wrong, having a baby out of wedlock... gray area right? Gay marriage... to me, it is quite ethical and moral, and to others, quite the opposite!

Those ideas were mulling around in my head when I was reading your article and the comments under it. :)

E

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#8.5 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 6:45 PM EDT
Perrie

E,

Murder is wrong, having a baby out of wedlock... gray area right? Gay marriage... to me, it is quite ethical and moral, and to others, quite the opposite!

Tell me about it! Look up these threads and see some of the deep questions this has taken us!

  • 4 votes
#8.6 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 7:06 PM EDT
Jack Huang

You could counter it though by saying, killing is always wrong, even when it's evil, so we will sit evil in a room for the rest of their lives and make them watch films of the evil that they did?

Or make them watch films that we've found out really bother them. If 90's Discovery Channel, Lie To Me, and Criminal Minds are anything to go by, a lot of real sociopaths aren't particularly bothered by replays of their depravities.

As for death being humane, I think there's an argument to be made there. I don't know where even I, personally, would put execution, though, on the appropriate-severity-of-crime scale.

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#8.7 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 7:06 PM EDT
Perrie

Or make them watch films that we've found out really bother them. If 90's Discovery Channel, Lie To Me, and Criminal Minds are anything to go by, a lot of real sociopaths aren't particularly bothered by replays of their depravities.

This is true. There was a documentary series called "Most Evil" where a social psychologist defined the level of sociopathic behavior from 1-27, with 27 being 'Most Evil" Surprisingly, Hitler didn't make most evil, because to do that, you must be actually involved and gaining pleasure from killing and fooling society at the same time. Think John Wayne Gacy. Maybe, making them watch what they hate the most thriving is more disturbing?

As for death being humane, I think there's an argument to be made there. I don't know where even I, personally, would put execution, though, on the appropriate-severity-of-crime scale.

Quite a tough question, right? Here let me complicate it a bit. Tim McVeigh was quite glad to die for his beliefs. So was death actually a punishment?

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#8.8 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 7:25 PM EDT
Jack Huang

Surprisingly, Hitler didn't make most evil, because to do that, you must be actually involved and gaining pleasure from killing and fooling society at the same time.

Yeah, Hitler delegated his depravities. Do you remember where he did fall on the Evil Scale?

Quite a tough question, right? Here let me complicate it a bit. Tim McVeigh was quite glad to die for his beliefs. So was death actually a punishment?

Don't you hate it when (wannabe) martyrs f--- up your moral calculus? :-P

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#8.9 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 8:50 PM EDT
Perrie

Jack,

Your making me do my homework and in doing so, I made a mistake. The scale goes from 1-22.

I can't find Hitler in particular, but here are two sites that explain the scale and famous people who fall under each number.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Most_Evil

http://investigation.discovery.com/tv/most-evil/most-evil.html

http://investigation.discovery.com/tv/most-evil/evil-scale/evil-scale.html

But according to the psychology Bible the DMS IV Hitler is described as:

ABSTRACT - Adolf Hitler’s personality was investigated posthumously through the use of an informant version of the Coolidge Axis II Inventory (CATI), which is designed for the assessment of personality,clinical, and neuropsychological disorders. Five academic Hitler historians completed the CATI. Th overall mean inter-rater correlation was moderately high for all 38 CATI scales’ T scores (median r = .72).On Axis I, the highest mean T scores across raters were Posttraumatic Stress Disorder (76), Psychotic Thinking (73) and Schizophrenia (69). On Axis II, the highest mean T scores on the CATI scales were Paranoid Personality Disorder (78), Antisocial Personality Disorder (78), Narcissistic Personality Disorder
(77), and Sadistic Personality Disorder (76). Results of the present study support the reliability andpreliminary validity of informant reports for psychological investigations of historical or contemporary figures.

http://www.uccs.edu/~faculty/fcoolidg//Hitler%20PDF%20unproof.pdf

Not as much fun of a read as your infographs though :-(

Don't you hate it when (wannabe) martyrs f--- up your moral calculus? :-P

Damn! So true! But that is why I try to refrain from absolutism and go with shades of gray.

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#8.10 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 10:35 PM EDT
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One Miscreant

Nice article. Thanks for sharing.

We can point to this or that, the breakdown of old ways and the acceptance of new ones, but mostly I think it is what as known as moral relativism. Different moral "truths" hold for different people. Therefore, what is "Moral" to one, is not moral to another. Only within a like group of individuals is the term "moral" relevant at all.

In this way, "morality" can be imposed on members of a society, by a minority segment, by simply passing a law. It is only when the entire society subscribes to this "morality" that it is actually given power. In a secular society, such as America, this is nearly impossible.

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Reply#9 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 5:57 PM EDT
Perrie

One,

Interesting that you brought up moral relativism. It has been a topic that I often fight with myself with. Are all societies equally moral, or are some less and others more?

Within a singular society, it is easier to set the moral tone. There is a "collective" so to speak. But when new groups enter that society or collective with their own set of morality, we see conflict. This is what we are seeing going on all over the world as we become a global society. One collective in conflict with another.

In a secular society, such as America, this is nearly impossible.

I think that there are some standards that are pretty universal, like murder, rape, theft...you get the idea. It's when we get into the nature of each faiths ( or non-faiths) rules that we start to run into problems.

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#9.1 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 6:18 PM EDT
One Miscreant

a) Are all societies equally moral, b) or are some less and others more?

Equally moral? In who's eyes, Yours or Mine? Who decide this? Or are we discussing something/someone bigger? Like God or a creator, etc.?

a)From the view point of the creator, the answer would be yes. You are all equally moral, it's not her fault, that y'all developed in completely different directions over the millennium. b) This concept of "more or less moral" is just one imposing morality on another, IMO.

Yes, within a singular society it's easier to set a Moral tone, but it is also easier to use said moral tone to control freedom. For example, fundamentalist [insert religion here]. The fundamentalist is usually the literal interpretation of text, principles or laws. Literal interpretations allow no wriggle room for things like change. The culture may remained true to it's morality, but it is stunted to grown as a people.

I think that there are some standards that are pretty universal, like murder, rape, theft...you get the idea. It's when we get into the nature of each faiths ( or non-faiths) rules that we start to run into problems.

This one has the potential to get out of control crazy. For example, there are many rationalisations for murder. Stopping genocide being the most common. But in the context of "murder" we planned to kick some German butt. Murder the murderers. It that immoral act any less moral than, killing someone just because they are a jew? Way to complicated for my pay grade.

It's when we get into the nature of each faiths ( or non-faiths) rules that we start to run into problems.

Actually, that's when we have understanding.

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#9.2 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 6:57 PM EDT
Perrie

Equally moral? In who's eyes, Yours or Mine? Who decide this? Or are we discussing something/someone bigger? Like God or a creator, etc.?

That was the question I was posing. The answer I think is that it depends on who's glasses you are seeing the world through.

For example, fundamentalist [insert religion here]. The fundamentalist is usually the literal interpretation of text, principles or laws. Literal interpretations allow no wriggle room for things like change. The culture may remained true to it's morality, but it is stunted to grown as a people.

This is true, if we are talking about a society that is theocracy. But let's look at the US. We are a country of many faiths, yet most of us would be in agreement with the idea that rape is wrong. Our society has defined that and the punishment that goes along with that. This was not done within a faith but a plural society. So a society can set the standard without religion or with religion as a guidance but not an inflexible rule.

This one has the potential to get out of control crazy. For example, there are many rationalisations for murder. Stopping genocide being the most common. But in the context of "murder" we planned to kick some German butt. Murder the murderers. It that immoral act any less moral than, killing someone just because they are a jew? Way to complicated for my pay grade.

No problem. Check out post #8.2 and #8.3

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#9.3 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 7:16 PM EDT
One Miscreant

Agreeing on the definition of moral/immoral is futile. This is why I believe morality is a choice. Situations, societies, hell even religions change. One must be ready to think it through in that context. The murder and rape arguments are such. For example, homosexuality used to be morally wrong too. Vis a vis sodomy laws. Grouped into that bucket of immoral or "unnatural" acts called sodomy. Is it still immoral? IMO no more or less than it was. It's the thought process which has changed. Not the moral aspect of any act.

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#9.4 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 7:45 PM EDT
Perrie

Is it still immoral? IMO no more or less than it was. It's the thought process which has changed. Not the moral aspect of any act.

So, you feel that what is either moral or immoral doens't change, but our thought process that have. I guess you are saying what we are exposed to in our society, media, etc that has changed the way we think. Or am I wrong?

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#9.5 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 8:14 PM EDT
One Miscreant

.. changed the way we think.

Exactly.

Let me try and confuse it better, by using a relious example. Christ knew of morality from his exposure to the torah. The Torah was an established moral document developed over generations.

When Christ started to step in and say things like, "He who is without sin, cast the first stone", the thinking changed, not the religion or the morality, the thinking changed. There is no moral high ground, unless you are without sin. He made them use their brains. Even though as the story goes he was God, he was THE moral authority. He changed the way they thought.

The way we think even today. It is a never ending process, not a list of rules to be followed.

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#9.6 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 8:24 PM EDT
Perrie

There is no moral high ground, unless you are without sin. He made them use their brains. Even though as the story goes he was God, he was THE moral authority. He changed the way they/we thought.

Ahh..but by challenging the status quo, and setting a new standard...one could he preached for pacifism, didn't he change the morals and of course then it goes to follow that it changed the way we think? No more eye for an eye, but turn the other cheek.

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#9.7 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 8:34 PM EDT
One Miscreant

Yes, but I'm hung up on the term "new standard". It implies to me something fixed. Something that will become outdated. Something that will remove critical thinking in the future.

It's the thinking that's important to me, not the list of do's and don'ts.

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#9.8 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 8:42 PM EDT
Perrie

Something that will become outdated. Something that will remove critical thinking in the future.

So your more focused into the evolution of our morality than the actual morality and how what we think, defines that morality. You see morality more fluid, always changing, yes?

It's the thinking that's important to me, not the list of do's and don'ts.

The why of what is moral?

Your concepts are rather fluid. I am trying to get to the root of them. A very different approach

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#9.9 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 10:42 PM EDT
One Miscreant

evolution of our morality...The why of what is moral?...I am trying to get to the root of them.

Yes, yes and good luck hitting a moving target.

Here is another analogy. Take a picture. The picture is life at that moment. Life keeps rolling on by. Each new picture tells a new story of life. You may even get a picture of morality in the collection. Even all the pictures together is not all of life or all of morality. Thinking fills in the gaps.

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#9.10 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 11:01 PM EDT
Hekofawoman

Wonderful analogy.

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#9.11 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 11:02 PM EDT
One Miscreant

TY Ms. Hek. I gotta try and make this simple enough for even me to understand. Lord knows it took me long enough, to get to this point.

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#9.12 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 11:11 PM EDT
Perrie

Take a picture. The picture is life at that moment. Life keeps rolling on by. Each new picture tells a new story of life. You may even get a picture of morality in the collection. Even all the pictures together is not all of life or all of morality. Thinking fills in the gaps.

I like that one. It's crystal clear.

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#9.13 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 11:50 PM EDT
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Jalmeno

The most significant part of this survey is that the people who identified with being, secular, agnostic, atheists or unaffiliated, 67% believe that there is an absolute standard of right and wrong,

I kept rolling over this tidbit a few times.

How does one subscribe to an "absolute" standard of right and wrong without a "good book" of some flavor?

How does one subscribe to an "absolute" standard of right and wrong, and at the same time refuse to subscribe to anything that would provide him with that original guideline?

If you are a non-believer, but are a true law-abiding citizen, you are adhering to a set of laws - laws that were derived from text that was created thousands of years ago, with amendment here and there. So in that case, are you willing to leave it in the hands of elected officials, who, for better or worse, create their own minicipality's "good book"?

IMHO, religion has been part of the world for such a long time, that most people have an ingrained sense of right and wrong. So, although we are not all "of faith", we might be nurtured into it, whether we would like to admit it or not.

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#10 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 7:49 PM EDT
MalamuteMan

Jalmeno,

although we are not all "of faith", we might be nurtured into it, whether we would like to admit it or not.

I think "faith" and "morality" are two different things. Morality is a bit difficult to define, but in very simple terms, I would describe it as "doing the right thing"... I know, "the right thing" is very subjective. Faith on the other hand is, for me, fairly easy to define. It is holding a belief, without any (or possibly very little) tangible evidence or proof supporting that belief. Personally, I try to avoid having faith-based beliefs. If there are questions I cannot answer, like "What created the Universe?" or "What will happen when I die?", I accept the fact that I may never have answers for those questions. I am much more comfortable with that conclusion than I am knowing I am holding a belief that has no tangible foundation.

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#10.1 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 8:29 PM EDT
Jalmeno

But does not all morality's precepts originate from "faith".

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#10.2 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 8:46 PM EDT
Jack Huang

How does one subscribe to an "absolute" standard of right and wrong without a "good book" of some flavor?

How does one subscribe to an "absolute" standard of right and wrong, and at the same time refuse to subscribe to anything that would provide him with that original guideline?

Do you need a religious tome to tell you that beheading a puppy for fun is wrong? What about dropkicking a baby?

If so, I'm curious as to how one derives such moral judgments from one's religious text of choice. If not, why do you think morality in general is any different?

But does not all morality's precepts originate from "faith".

Not at all. Morality derives directly from social interaction. Chimps exhibit it, as do wolves. We may wish to relegate their behaviors to "instinct," but they enforce behavioral guidelines among their own species that operate in precisely the same manner as human morals.

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#10.3 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 8:55 PM EDT
Jalmeno

Do you need a religious tome to tell you that beheading a puppy for fun is wrong? What about dropkicking a baby?

Not all morality is that simple. The original biblical texts give a rich basis for our current laws. Weights and measures, property law, accidental death, damage compensation, formation of courts of law, inheritance, and on and on...

It's not all about hot button issues, like beheading and maiming. It's about the mundane, everyday life experiences that we take for granted.

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#10.4 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 9:08 PM EDT
Jonny-1740441

Thats true Jack, Chimps and wolves do exhibit a form of a behavioral code... through strength. Strongest chimp gets what he wants, 1st crack at food & all the females as do the strongest wolf from the pack.

Does this mean "strength" is what determines or should determin "moral behavior" in humans and what's right and wrong?

No. I don't think so.

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#10.5 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 9:20 PM EDT
Jack Huang

Not all morality is that simple. The original biblical texts give a rich basis for our current laws. Weights and measures, property law, accidental death, damage compensation, formation of courts of law, inheritance, and on and on...

Those Biblical texts were hardly original in the provision of legal edicts for inheritance, accidental death, property rights, weights & measures, etc. I don't see how you can point to those things and: 1. declare them part of "morality" in a general sense, and 2. claim that religion somehow invented/is necessary for such things.

That's not even considering the fact that most Christians don't follow Biblical declarations of that sort down to the letter.

It's not all about hot button issues, like beheading and maiming.

Actually, I picked beheading puppies and maiming babies precisely because those aren't typically morally contentious.

Thats true Jack, Chimps and wolves do exhibit a form of a behavioral code... through strength. Strongest chimp gets what he wants, 1st crack at food & all the females as do the strongest wolf from the pack.

It's not that simple. Chimps also punish their own clan members for stealing and protect the elderly, for example.

Does this mean "strength" is what determines or should determin "moral behavior" in humans and what's right and wrong?

No. I don't think so.

Regardless of whether or not it should determine human moral behavior, the fact of the matter is that it does determine human moral behavior. As the saying goes: history is written by the victors. Well, so are laws.

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#10.6 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 9:32 PM EDT
Jonny-1740441

True Jack. History and laws are written by victors. So does that mean the victors actions, and the laws are morally right...just because they are written by the victors?

I think that's the discussion. The concept of morality, right or wrong inside or outside the context of "faith" aka religion.

As for me... no. Might don't make right. Strength aka Victor doesn't dictate what's right or wrong.

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#10.7 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 9:47 PM EDT
Jack Huang

So does that mean the victors actions, and the laws are morally right...just because they are written by the victors?

What is "right" to you is nothing more than what you personally decide to be "right."

You're operating under this assumption that you (or I) can talk about "morally right" as if there's an absolute, objective moral judgment for all scenarios. There isn't.

As for me... no. Might don't make right. Strength aka Victor doesn't dictate what's right or wrong.

That may be what you wish your ideal to be, but might making right has been proven time and again throughout human history.

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#10.8 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 10:02 PM EDT
Jonny-1740441

And that is the point. There is no "right" or "wrong". There can be no absolute moral values without God. It all becomes relative.

Science explains the natural environment we live in. Religion tries to explain the spiritual environment we live in. Science deals with natural laws. Religion deals with moral, spiritual laws.

My personal opinion, religion and science are both equally important to human condition and well being, as an individual and community. Provided the religion is good; Good defined as positive towards personal growth, positive towards relationship with others (instilling tolerance, understanding, love, peace, forgiveness, patience etc), positive towards relationship with God which all result in personal happiness and harmonious thriving social community.

One doesn't have to believe in a specific God to believe in certain absolute spiritual laws.

I believe certain moral values must always remain absolute. Can't be changed. Shouldn't be changed. Such values? For starters, all man & woman are created in God's Image therefore, unique and valuable, deserving right to life, liberty and individual pursuit of happiness.

To me that is absolute moral value, unchangable, undeniable, secured by God Almighty Himself, not by man, that no-one can or should take away.

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#10.9 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 11:55 PM EDT
gordy327

Religion deals with moral, spiritual laws.

Morality is independent of religion.

For starters, all man & woman are created in God's Image therefore, unique and valuable, deserving right to life, liberty and individual pursuit of happiness.

Well, the likeness of our "image" is not a moral, but a fable. But I can agree on the life, liberty, and happimess part.

To me that is absolute moral value, unchangable, undeniable, secured by God Almighty Himself, not by man, that no-one can or should take away.

You are free to believe that. But our morals do not come from god, nor should they, as god has been quite immoral himself, especially in the OT.

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#10.10 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 1:04 AM EDT
Perrie

OK, before this degrades into the typical religion v non religion, if you read the article, the point was, after much research, the problem doesn't seem to lie with whether a person is religious or not. Is an atheist or not. There is something going on in our culture that has changed and has left us with no moral compass. That is the point here. So please let's try to remain focused.

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#10.11 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 1:12 AM EDT
gordy327

There is something going on in our culture that has changed and has left us with no moral compass.

It's due to a lack of personal responsibility, accountability, and discipline.

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#10.12 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 1:56 AM EDT
Jack Huang

And that is the point. There is no "right" or "wrong". There can be no absolute moral values without God. It all becomes relative.

And my point is that the history of religion demonstrates that religion has never been a guarantee for any sort of "absolute" moral values. Religion itself has changed its goalposts whenever such changes have suited social circumstances (unless you wish to claim that the Crusaders et al. were following "Thou shalt not murder" and "turn the other cheek" to the letter).

One doesn't have to believe in a specific God to believe in certain absolute spiritual laws.

Of course not. However that belief in absolute spiritual laws is, itself, subjective.

I believe certain moral values must always remain absolute. Can't be changed. Shouldn't be changed. Such values? For starters, all man & woman are created in God's Image therefore, unique and valuable, deserving right to life, liberty and individual pursuit of happiness.

Ah, now we're getting into the nitty-gritty. :-)

If all men & women absolutely deserve the right to "liberty", then is prison immoral?

To me that is absolute moral value, unchangable, undeniable, secured by God Almighty Himself, not by man, that no-one can or should take away.

That's fine. However, once again, this belief itself (the belief that so-and-so is absolute) is subjective. ;-)

OK, before this degrades into the typical religion v non religion, if you read the article, the point was, after much research, the problem doesn't seem to lie with whether a person is religious or not. Is an atheist or not. There is something going on in our culture that has changed and has left us with no moral compass. That is the point here. So please let's try to remain focused.

I agree. I'm simply trying to point out that religion does not provide an actual immutable moral system, regardless of some religions' repeated claims to do so. Once we agree with the baseline that all morality is relative/subjective, then we can move forward.

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#10.13 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 8:24 AM EDT
lisaed

I am much more comfortable with that conclusion than I am knowing I am holding a belief that has no tangible foundation.

Mal---that is in a nutshell what it means to have faith---believing in something where no "tangible" evidence necessarily exists. As a person of faith, I have felt the presence of God....nonbelievers will say that is just all in my head....but no it's not in my head but in my heart and it can be felt if one opens their heart to Him.

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#10.14 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 10:29 AM EDT
Jalmeno

what it means to have faith---believing in something where no "tangible" evidence necessarily exists.

Absence of proof is not proof of absence.

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#10.15 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 10:51 AM EDT
MalamuteMan

Hi Lisa,

As a person of faith, I have felt the presence of God....nonbelievers will say that is just all in my head....but no it's not in my head but in my heart and it can be felt if one opens their heart to Him.

I support you in holding those beliefs! I will defend you from those who would persecute you for your beliefs, especially your religious beliefs!

The friction between believers and non-believers happens when people of differing beliefs are not willing to make room for those who are different. Non-believers do this to believers, and believers to it to non-believers. As you know, I am pretty outspoken on the topic of compromise and finding ways to get along with people who are different. I know I have provided plenty of "friction" in the world myself, nonetheless I never stop trying to find common ground.

BTW- I don't care much for the term non-believer. Whether or not my beliefs are consistent with yours or others, I still believe something... I also "believe" that there is nothing I can do, including believing, that will change what is true.

I don't believe I saw you comment on my article on belief... Perhaps you will read it some time.

PS- If you didn't see my request for you to comment on #3.2... I hope you will.

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#10.16 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 11:17 AM EDT
MalamuteMan

Absence of proof is not proof of absence.

True. In such cases, I choose to believe that I have no answer and may never have an answer.

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#10.17 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 11:26 AM EDT
Perrie

This brings me to my discomfort level. Though I would like to believe in God, I see no proof. I have fought this feeling my whole life. There is so much evil in this world, so much pain, that I can't understand how a caring god would allow this., unless he's a real hands off kind of guy. Yet, I do have some hope that god does exist, otherwise, I would have never had children. The thought of them slipping into oblivion is just a horror to me. I would like to believe that our lives have meaning, and that we have meaning, more than just biological beings that are just meant to perpetuate the species.

BTW- I don't care much for the term non-believer. Whether or not my beliefs are consistent with yours or others, I still believe something... I also "believe" that there is nothing I can do, including believing, that will change what is true.

So how do you define yourself? What is the appropriate term that you are comfortable with?

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#10.18 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 11:56 AM EDT
lisaed

Mal---"non-believer" that's just my shorthand again (remember "obamacare"....ouch, no, don't remind me). "Non-believer" means when I use it "person who does not believe in God"---is atheist a fair substitute? Also, many who profess not to believe in God but do embrace the Golden Rule I would just like to point out the bliblical reference to the Golden Rule:

The golden rule has its roots in a wide range of world cultures, and is a standard which different cultures use to resolve conflicts.[3] It was present in the philosophies of ancient India, Greece, Judea, and China. Principal philosophers and religious figures have stated it in different ways, but its most common English phrasing is attributed to Jesus of Nazareth in the Biblical book of Matthew: "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you." (Matthew 7:12, Matthew 22:39, Luke 6:31) The "Do unto others" wording first appeared in English in a Catholic catechism around 1567, but certainly in the reprint of 1583.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Golden_Rule

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#10.19 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 12:05 PM EDT
js-445607

I don't think it matters whether we believe in God or not. I believe that creation is a classroom playground investigation land and every person good or evil is part of the teaching staff.

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#10.20 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 1:03 PM EDT
MalamuteMan

Lisa,

I actually take no offence at the use of the term non-believer, I just don't like to use it myself... due to my beliefs about belief (per my article). Call me an atheist, or an agnostic, or even a non-believer, it won't offend me. Because of what I said in #10.17, I think many would describe me as an agnostic. I call myself a quiet atheist and a fervent secularist (I think secularism was part of the discussion that started this whole thing). On secularism... I think some religious people feel that secularism and atheism are synonymous, I do not. My definition of secularism is (short version) "separation of church and state." I think many "non-believers", including myself, feel that if religion permeates our public institutions there will be no place left for us to live according to our beliefs. We feel religious influence on our government would lead legislation of belief.

I am aware that Jesus was a proponent of the Golden Rule. That and many other ideas he professed demonstrate his great wisdom.

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#10.21 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 1:03 PM EDT
lisaed

We feel religious influence on our government would lead legislation of belief.

Mal---one of the reasons why America exists today is so that that does not happen. Try Iran for that one. PS--but remember that separation of church and state does not mean the suppression of relgious expression.....that would be counter to our Bill of Rights:

the Bill of Rights prohibits Congress from making any law respecting an establishment of religion or prohibiting the free exercise thereof,

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#10.22 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 1:27 PM EDT
MalamuteMan

separation of church and state does not mean the suppression of relgious expression

As I said in #10.16

I will defend you from those who would persecute you for your beliefs, especially your religious beliefs!

To that I add... fight against "suppression of relgious expression."

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#10.23 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 1:48 PM EDT
lisaed

I will defend you from those who would persecute you for your beliefs, especially your religious beliefs!

Mal---and you're a defender I like having on my side....as rarely as that realistically may be able to happen.

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#10.24 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 2:03 PM EDT
thelyamhound

How does one subscribe to an "absolute" standard of right and wrong without a "good book" of some flavor?

I don't know that one can . . . but I don't see why that "good book" needs to arrive under a claim of having been metaphysically received.

Also, I'm of the opinion that all "absolutes" are more illusory, and more transient, than we tend to believe. "Objective" truth, "objective" morality, are simply those "truths" and "morals" that appeal to the widest cross-section of subjective interests.

How does one subscribe to an "absolute" standard of right and wrong, and at the same time refuse to subscribe to anything that would provide him with that original guideline?

As a "subscriber" of pantheism (as a cosmological presupposition) and Buddhism (as a mode of practice), I'm not sure I could answer that . . . and to be fair, I think everyone operates according to a cosmological presupposition and a mode of practice, so I doubt we could say that anyone is fully without religion. They might, however, be utterly without theos (or belief therein), which I think is the key distinction between the theist and all others; they might even be without belief in metaphysic, which might be the only distinction between the religious and the irreligious (though, as I've said, schools of thought like objectivism, social constructivism, existentialism, and secular humanism could be described as atheistic religions, which is to say that there are few, if any, truly irreligious individuals).

Even someone who denied being religious probably subscribes, at least, to a moral code built on a foundation of observation and utility.

If you are a non-believer, but are a true law-abiding citizen, you are adhering to a set of laws - laws that were derived from text that was created thousands of years ago, with amendment here and there.

Perhaps. But the decision to abide by that law, or not to, and the decisions as to what laws one obeys and which one does not (as when, say, someone stops at stop signs and refrains from killing or stealing, but smokes a joint now and again), are still based on some internal moral mechanism (or so it would seem). Isn't it just as likely that obedience to law and obedience to dogma emerge from the same evolutionary mechanism for moral behavior?

So in that case, are you willing to leave it in the hands of elected officials, who, for better or worse, create their own minicipality's "good book"?

I would actually suggest that elected officials should have as little power as possible to regulate behavior; families, communities, and/or faith organizations can do more, in my opinion, to affect voluntary moral compliance than can law, which should limit itself to restricting on rational bases, with an eye (or heck, both eyes) toward civic utility.

IMHO, religion has been part of the world for such a long time, that most people have an ingrained sense of right and wrong. So, although we are not all "of faith", we might be nurtured into it, whether we would like to admit it or not.

Perhaps. OR perhaps religion has been part of the process by which we attempted to codify moral preoccupations that arose--organically, evolutionarily--from intuitive moral understandings.

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#10.25 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 2:31 PM EDT
believer-369603

How does one subscribe to an "absolute" standard of right and wrong without a "good book" of some flavor?

I don't know that one can . . .

Of course one can. Why not?

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#10.26 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 3:11 PM EDT
thelyamhound

Of course one can. Why not?

Because an "absolute" standard (or the closest thing we can reach thereto) is always going to require some enumeration of rights and responsibilities to which organisms tacitly or actively agree. A social contract, if you will. Now, I don't think that contract needs to be derived of some metaphysical principle (though, as a pantheistic Buddhist, I DO have recourse to metaphysic in contemplating moral questions); even a constitution or philosophical text could be considered a "good book" for these purposes.

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#10.27 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 3:46 PM EDT
believer-369603

always going to require some enumeration of rights and responsibilities to which organisms tacitly or actively agree. A social contract,

I agree, but, Does it have to be a book? What about cultures and societies which never developed a written language?

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#10.28 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 3:53 PM EDT
thelyamhound

I was using the notion of "book" pretty broadly, believer, the same way I, as a critic, suggest that one can treat music, cinema, even athletic competition or sex as "text" to be analyzed for content, evaluated, placed in context, deconstructed, etc.

So the "good book" can also arise from oral tradition, indigenous ritual, etc. Hope that clarifies my point a bit.

  • 2 votes
#10.29 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 4:11 PM EDT
believer-369603

yes, thanks.

I don't believe ethics necessarily must stem from religion, and when you mentioned "book" I misunderstood the implications.

But I do agree, that social structure, once it gets to a certain size, demands some type of an agreed upon moral code. This 'code" then becomes the basis for a legal code to delineate rights and responsibilities. as you say.

  • 4 votes
#10.30 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 4:19 PM EDT
Jalmeno

Actually, I used the word "book", with religion in mind.

But I'd be happy to go with the broader definition.

No problem.

  • 4 votes
#10.31 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 4:58 PM EDT
thelyamhound

Actually, I still had religion in mind; I just didn't necessarily have written text in mind. Further, I don't think that the concept of religion relies on metaphysic; it only relies on connecting moral imperatives to how and why we came to be. That is to say, if one can derive morality from evolutionary theory, that derivation is religious.

Indeed, that's not all that far from Buddhism/pantheism/Taoism, wherein morality is derived from the fact that we share with all phenomena and all organisms this condition we call "Being."

  • 3 votes
#10.32 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 5:01 PM EDT
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Perrie

Jal,

You make an interesting point, but only for western cultures. As Jack pointed out, eastern cultures didn't have the 10 commandments till the 1800's and yet they had a very moral societies.

Further, the Ten Commandments haven't been rigorously followed for centuries, and Eastern cultures had never even heard of them until recently (in historical terms). You'd be quite hard-pressed to argue that the Eastern Hemisphere was a cesspool of amoral skullduggery before the 1800s, though.

Food for thought from Jack Huang.

  • 5 votes
Reply#11 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 8:24 PM EDT
believer-369603

Some, not all, of the 10 are pretty universal. It's a little presumptuous for Christianity to co-opt them. Just because some eastern cultures never wrote their morals down in a book, does not mean they didn't have any or did not practice them., or that they had different morals from westerners.

  • 7 votes
#11.1 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 8:28 PM EDT
Perrie

beleiver,

Eastern religions most defiantly had morals, but they were not spelled out for them like a list. It was more based on what you give out is what you get back....( You know, as we say here in NYC, what goes around comes around).

It's a little presumptuous for Christianity to co-opt them

Actually, I have a funny story about that. Once someone asked me what I was and I said "I was raised with Catholicism and Judaism" and the person asked me, 'So if your half Jewish, do you still believe in the 10 Commandments?" And I laughed at their total ignorance and said, "Who do you think had them first? Moses was a Hebrew".... but I digress yet again...

  • 4 votes
#11.2 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 8:42 PM EDT
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Jonny-1740441

Morality, of itself, is completely subjective. Morality is not part of nature. Animals don't struggle with right or wrong. It's unique human condition. Jalmeno has a important point.

Which person or group have the right to tell another person or group, what's right or wrong? Isn't it the person or group with the biggest guns? A thug may feel and justify he is entitled to steal something, but he may not...because law enforcement got bigger guns. If the thug has the biggest guns then anyone else and he can't be stopped, he may steal things not entitled to him. Isn't that what dictators all about, a thug with the biggest guns? But who is to say this thug is "wrong"?

Who is to say Saddam Hussein, Hitler, Stalin, Mao or Kim Jong Il are wrong?

Darwinism, Natural Selection and Survival of the Fittest, certainly contradicts with morality of justice and fairness. Nature isn't fair. So why is it "wrong" for someone stronger to take from someone weaker, their belongings...or even their life?

If morality, definition of what's right and wrong, is left to be determined by the "strong" (majority) then it may change with the times... we are in serious trouble. It'll change when the majority changes it.

If morality, definition of what's right and wrong, is determined by a concept of "God"... and that "God" represents certain moral codes, then it won't change with the times... moral codes remain stable. The majority wouldn't be able to change it. Natural Selection and Survival of the Fittest that applies to animals, won't apply to humans, since God seperates humans from the animals. Weak can survive with the help of the strong. If morality is left to pure Darwinism, the weak is left to die, genetically cleansing the race and leaving only the strong. But we don't allow that because everyone, weak & strong, are special to God and fall under Him... not under each other.

Hence forth why pushing "God" completely out of our society can be detrimental. "God" becomes the moral compass, immovable rod, unchanging star, that generations can look at for their moral code.

  • 3 votes
Reply#12 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 9:02 PM EDT
Jonny-1740441

Take God completely out of the picture and place all of us in a room to dish out what's morally right and wrong among ourselves. When we can't agree... guess who's law we'll end up following; One who is the strongest and can enforce his/her will on the rest. That should'n't be how what's right & wrong is determined.

  • 4 votes
#12.1 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 9:36 PM EDT
Jack Huang

Darwinism, Natural Selection and Survival of the Fittest, certainly contradicts with morality of justice and fairness. Nature isn't fair. So why is it "wrong" for someone stronger to take from someone weaker, their belongings...or even their life?

You should ask the chimps. Their social structures often punish stealing and reward fairness, and I'm not aware that they practice any form of theism, mono-, poly-, or pan-.

If morality, definition of what's right and wrong, is determined by a concept of "God"... and that "God" represents certain moral codes, then it won't change with the times... moral codes remain stable. The majority wouldn't be able to change it.

So remind me: if a concept of "God" renders all morality under God immutable, then why did Martin Luther form the Lutheran Church, and for what reason was the Church of England created? Is a Mormon's idea of morality absolutely identical to that of the Catholic?

If morality, definition of what's right and wrong, is left to be determined by the "strong" (majority) then it may change with the times... we are in serious trouble. It'll change when the majority changes it.

Pretty much. Those who pretend that absolute morality exists are simply shoving their heads in the sand. All morality is subjective and relative. Some moral players are simply honest about that fact.

If morality is left to pure Darwinism, the weak is left to die, genetically cleansing the race and leaving only the strong.

Not at all. Elephant groups actively care for their elderly. You need to learn more about this "Darwinism" you speak of before, well, speaking further of it.

But we don't allow that because everyone, weak & strong, are special to God and fall under Him... not under each other.

I don't think I need to point out the countless times in Western history when this alleged religious principle was thrown under the bus for the sake of religiopolitical expediency.

Hence forth why pushing "God" completely out of our society can be detrimental. "God" becomes the moral compass, immovable rod, unchanging star, that generations can look at for their moral code.

You should really read up on Western history, and look at just how much Christianity has changed (and fragmented) since its inception.

Take God completely out of the picture and place all of us in a room to dish out what's morally right and wrong among ourselves. When we can't agree... guess who's law we'll end up following; One who is the strongest and can enforce his/her will on the rest. That should'n't be how what's right & wrong is determined.

The same result would generally apply to a room full of Christians and Muslims, or Catholics and Protestants during the time of active Christian infighting in Europe.

  • 7 votes
#12.2 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 9:58 PM EDT
Jonny-1740441

Jack if what you are implying is true.. that natural selection and evolution instilled certain behaviors within us which we define as moral values, and that we don't really need to think about it.. heck we dont even have a choice apparently since it's genetically ingrained in us to behave properly...

Well then... what the heck is wrong with the condition of the world today? What happened Jack?

And how should we try to fix it, make it better?

Isn't that the subject of this article?

  • 3 votes
#12.3 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 11:59 PM EDT
Jonny-1740441

You should really read up on Western history, and look at just how much Christianity has changed (and fragmented) since its inception.

If you don't agree with my comment then tell me your thoughts. Pls don't presume I don't know western history and Christian history or doctrine, and suggest you know more. This was a sly insult Jack. Pls don't do that. Rather explain your thoughts why my comment isn't accurate. That I respect.

Besides I see you analyzing everyone else's comment but did not clearly provide your own thoughts, opinion, philosphy on the matter.

What do you believe regarding this subject Jack?

  • 3 votes
#12.4 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 12:12 AM EDT
Jack Huang

Jack if what you are implying is true.. that natural selection and evolution instilled certain behaviors within us which we define as moral values, and that we don't really need to think about it.. heck we dont even have a choice apparently since it's genetically ingrained in us to behave properly...

It's not as simply as a direct "morality has a biological basis, so all morality is genetic" causality. If you want to read my "own thoughts, opinion, philosophy", I wrote an article a while ago that expands upon my view of morality. It's somewhat lengthy, so I'd rather not copy-paste it here.

In short, basic morals (don't kill your kin, don't steal from your kin, protect your kin, etc.) are biologically ingrained. Anything much more complex is the result of these basic morals and complex social interaction.

Pls don't presume I don't know western history and Christian history or doctrine, and suggest you know more.

Fair enough. I simply think that anyone familiar with Western history would know that God has never generally been anything remotely resembling a moral "immovable rod, unchanging star," as I noted before with my questions regarding Lutherans, Anglicans, and Mormons--which you apparently saw fit to ignore.

Well then... what the heck is wrong with the condition of the world today? What happened Jack?

As js notes above, it's not necessarily an actual breakdown in modern moral fiber. We're simply getting worse (or less vigilant) in hiding our immoralities. Women were once relegated to the kitchen, and kids were once treated essentially as personal accessories. Crime rates have generally gone down. Can we really argue that morality has truly slipped over the years? Or, do you we simply take fundamental moral progress for granted, and now focus on the more superficial immoralities of reality TV and text messaging?

  • 5 votes
#12.5 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 8:36 AM EDT
js-445607

Religious history usually comes with a great amount of immorality. In the times when men ruled in religion they often times were the most corrupt and often committed acts that were totally against what they preached. It was license to do anything one pleased as one could blame God or say the act was committed in the name of God. These were unruly times where a man could beat his wife and children commit adultery and do any number of violations without fear of retribution. Anyone not believing the way the individual believed was subject to inexcusable acts simply because of a belief system, which was a convenient way to "do as you please".

It has only been 30 years or so since we've begun to try to curb the abuse against women children and minorities. Up until this surge began if we didn't like someone we could treat him or her horrifically and discount their validity. Once it was decided that every human had equal value the wars began due to a number of people feeling they are superior humans and must have someone to degrade and lord over. For example we have pushed for human rights and there has been reluctance on the part of many to accept this. So for blacks and other minorities such as women the handicapped and the GLBT community there are many not wanting to grant full equality as they feel this is not correct. Although I find it odd to believe one person is better than another is I can see how this might happen. When a group cannot rule and must share often times there is a ruckus.

  • 4 votes
#12.6 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 1:44 PM EDT
thelyamhound

Animals don't struggle with right or wrong. It's unique human condition.

Are you certain of that? Why?

Which person or group have the right to tell another person or group, what's right or wrong? Isn't it the person or group with the biggest guns?

Not necessarily. It's just as often the person or group who can create a great enough consensus that sheer numbers can make up for the size of guns. One points out that Nazi Germany enforced a vision of "right" through force, while failing to acknowledge that the rest of the world ultimately created enough consensus to oppose that force . . . with yet more force (and to repair the damage of opposing forces through years of peaceful reconstruction).

A thug may feel and justify he is entitled to steal something, but he may not...because law enforcement got bigger guns. If the thug has the biggest guns then anyone else and he can't be stopped, he may steal things not entitled to him. Isn't that what dictators all about, a thug with the biggest guns? But who is to say this thug is "wrong"?

Who is to say Saddam Hussein, Hitler, Stalin, Mao or Kim Jong Il are wrong?

Whomever wishes may say so; whomever can build greatest consensus may posit that moral position as transcendent. What's more, others may continue to hold that moral position as being in error.

Darwinism, Natural Selection and Survival of the Fittest, certainly contradicts with morality of justice and fairness.

Why? Mightn't justice and fairness be seen as evolutionary adaptations for certain classes of social organism? After all, they clearly have conferred greater survivability on our particular species.

Nature isn't fair.

But "fairness" might be a reasonable, survival-oriented response to "Nature" (so far as it exists as an independent, Platonic entity, which I don't think is very far). The "nature" of any given organism or population of organisms is often a response--and not infrequently an antagonistic response--to "Nature" in the macrocosm.

So why is it "wrong" for someone stronger to take from someone weaker, their belongings...or even their life?

It's not . . . to the stronger organism doing the taking. To the weaker organism suffering the loss, it is. And if enough weaker organisms agree with this outrage and band together to oppose the stronger force, and/or if enough stronger organisms can be convinced of the injustice of "might makes right" to create a reasonable police or military force, then we have a mechanism--a social contract--by which principles can be put into action. This can happen at many different levels: governmental, familial, metaphysical, communitarian. Smaller units often adhere to a greater number of moral directives than are provided by the over-arching contractual unit that binds these smaller units together.

If morality, definition of what's right and wrong, is left to be determined by the "strong" (majority) then it may change with the times... we are in serious trouble. It'll change when the majority changes it.

That seems to be the case even with religious influence.

If morality, definition of what's right and wrong, is determined by a concept of "God"... and that "God" represents certain moral codes, then it won't change with the times... moral codes remain stable.

Not at all. In the absence of a shred of empirical evidence for deity, our understanding of the divine relies on descriptions thereof by mere humans. Therefore, value systems that claim to be transcendent are ultimately as contingent and anthropogenic as value systems based on either might or consensus.

If morality is left to pure Darwinism, the weak is left to die, genetically cleansing the race and leaving only the strong.

Why? If, say, intelligence, creativity, or compassion have served us well as survival adaptations (and I submit that they have), "fitness" might actually include certain forms of "weakness"; and if, indeed, certain forms of weakness have proven either useful or neutral to our collective survivability, it lands in our best interest, as organisms, to protect the weak.

Hence forth why pushing "God" completely out of our society can be detrimental. "God" becomes the moral compass, immovable rod, unchanging star, that generations can look at for their moral code.

But if one believes, as I do, that "[G/g]od" is simply a code word anthropomorphizing the essentially amoral unifying forces of the universe (and there's no evidence to the contrary), then this "immovable rod" is just another anthropogenic tool for organization, no more verifiably transcendent than the U.S. Constitution, the Communist Manifesto, or 120 Days of Sodom.

  • 1 vote
#12.7 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 4:05 PM EDT
thelyamhound

. . . natural selection and evolution instilled certain behaviors within us which we define as moral values, and that we don't really need to think about it . . .heck we dont even have a choice apparently since it's genetically ingrained in us to behave properly...

I'm not sure why you'd infer that we don't need to think about it. I'd say that thinking about it is precisely what we've adapted to do. The appearance of choice, whether or not it's illusory (some schools of Buddhism, as well as Spinoza's naturalistic pantheism, would suggest that free will is, in fact, a deceptive term, that the universe functions more deterministically), obligates us to exercise apparent agency.

In other words, if morality is reflexive, it's because we reflexively contemplate morality, and the fruits of that contemplation serve as our moral guideposts.

Well then... what the heck is wrong with the condition of the world today?

While I'm not entirely convinced that the "now" is the snakepit we seem to be making it out to be, I'd say that anti-intellectualism and a natural struggle with the complexities of democracy and pluralism are the source of contemporary malaise. After all, the kind of pluralism humanity now experiences, and the rigors of democratic process, are rather "new," in terms of the totality of human history and evolution.

  • 3 votes
#12.8 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 4:18 PM EDT
Jonny-1740441

Jack and Lyamhound, you both broadened my horizon on this issue, gave me food for thought. Both of your explanations were thought out clearly. It also makes sense. Thank you. Morality is such a elusive subject, can discuss it endlessly I think.

It's so elusive and subjective, personally I like to keep it simple; "Creator says its right or wrong..." Hah. Call me a simpleton. ;p

Human history though, among all ethnic groups, evolved with a religion of some sort. How much of that religion influenced certain values is hard to say. I wish there was one ethnic group that didn't have some type of a religion that instilled some type of moral value. Then we can clearly compare what effect religion has on forming certain views and values and what type of views and values are formed w/out it.

Such is life though. As far as morality & religion, how one influences the other and how one can exist without the other... we're all in a test tube still.

Thank you both of you. Was great comments.

  • 4 votes
#12.9 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 4:46 PM EDT
thelyamhound

It's so elusive and subjective, personally I like to keep it simple; "Creator says its right or wrong..." Hah. Call me a simpleton.

Hey, whatever works for you. I'm disinclined to criticize the source of anyone's morality, provided that his morality doesn't interfere with my own libert[y/ies].

Actually, on the surface, Buddhism is just as simple: Four Noble Truths, Eightfold Path (feel free to look those up), all of which boils down to the Mystic Law (expressed among us Nichiren followers as Nam-Myoho-Renge-Kyo), which itself boils down to cause & effect--that behaviors have consequences, either latent or manifest, and we ought be mindful of those consequences.

Human history though, among all ethnic groups, evolved with a religion of some sort. How much of that religion influenced certain values is hard to say. I wish there was one ethnic group that didn't have some type of a religion that instilled some type of moral value. Then we can clearly compare what effect religion has on forming certain views and values and what type of views and values are formed w/out it.

It's been suggested that religion itself was a universal, evolutionary adaptation on the part of our species.

  • 2 votes
#12.10 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 4:54 PM EDT
Jack Huang

Jack and Lyamhound, you both broadened my horizon on this issue, gave me food for thought. Both of your explanations were thought out clearly. It also makes sense. Thank you. Morality is such a elusive subject, can discuss it endlessly I think.

No problem. Morality is indeed one of those philosophical debates that can easily find no end.

It's so elusive and subjective, personally I like to keep it simple; "Creator says its right or wrong..." Hah. Call me a simpleton. ;p

KISS isn't a bad philosophy to live by, and I don't have much of a problem with the bare idea of basing morality on a Creator. I usually prefer to take issue with particular moral declarations. :-P

Human history though, among all ethnic groups, evolved with a religion of some sort. How much of that religion influenced certain values is hard to say. I wish there was one ethnic group that didn't have some type of a religion that instilled some type of moral value. Then we can clearly compare what effect religion has on forming certain views and values and what type of views and values are formed w/out it.

I'm not claiming that religion hasn't influenced moral thought for a huge swath of humanity (or that it wasn't a sensible stage in the progression of human thought). However, so has war, and people generally agree that war didn't create morality. ;-) I agree that it indeed would be nice if there was a "control set", if you will, for analyzing religion's influence on morality. Alas, this lack of controlled experiments is a pitfall one always runs into when analyzing societal problems.

  • 6 votes
#12.11 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 7:32 PM EDT
Perrie

I usually prefer to take issue with particular moral declarations.

That is an excellent point. There are no absolutes when discussing moral, and therefore, declarations should never be made. Opinions can be offered with supporting data.

  • 5 votes
#12.12 - Sat Jun 19, 2010 1:27 PM EDT
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argghhh

Not so sure the moral compass has been lost - perhaps it's just not working, spinning freely with nothing to point to.

People have mentioned the Golden Rule (do unto others as you would have them do unto you). There is also the Silver Rule (do not do unto others as you would not have them do unto you) as well as the Platinum Rule (do unto others as they would have you do unto them) and other variants. These are all well-meaning and largely applicable rules, but they all have some issues. For instance, one must know and understand another's value system in order to properly execute some rule, but one may not have an opportunity to know another's wishes before being forced to choose some "right" action. Also, applying some rule in consideration of another may violate some principle you have for yourself. It's not hard to come up with scenarios that challenge each of the above rules; consider the many dilemmas around life support and assisted suicide.

Also, we get many mixed or arbitrary messages regarding if or when a given action could be an appreciated "right" or an interfering, overstepping "wrong". Again, it's easy to come up with challenges when considering the reprimanding of "other people's children", especially in social settings.

It's also hard to do "right" when the rules change so quickly. I knew someone that almost lost his job when, in a meeting with several members of management, he responded to his superior (a female) with "yes, ma'am". He was from the south and considered this a sincere token of respect. She, however, viewed this as an attempt at mockery or insubordination. I, while working behind a retail counter, offended several women by addressing them as "ma'am".

I agree with those that have said we are not taught to do "right" anymore. Consider Aesop's Fables. These tales of (secular) morality went from being an adult favorite, to a children's introduction to morals, to something too dark to let children read. I couldn't even find the book at my local books stores (because it was not kept in stock). I doubt many people even know what Aesop's Fables are anymore, or if they do, they may know a couple of the several hundred fables.

I don't know that these issues are because of piety or a lack thereof. I think technology has created more moral dilemmas than we are educated to handle and our complicated, mixed-culture, society has too many moral pitfalls.

  • 4 votes
Reply#13 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 9:11 PM EDT
Perrie

argghhh,

For instance, one must know and understand another's value system in order to properly execute some rule, but one may not have an opportunity to know another's wishes before being forced to choose some "right" action.

This is very true. A personal experience. I took a field trip when one of my students fell ill. I took her to the hospital and tried to contact the mother. We were unable to. She needed a blood transfusion because she had sickle cell anemia and she would die otherwise. I saw terror in her eyes as the dr. told me that she needed a blood transfusion, but she said nothing. I called the school and they gave me the go ahead to sign medical permission. The child seemed not as scared anymore. When her mom was found and came to the hospital, she was beyond outraged. It seemed that she recently had converted to Jehovah Witness, and didn't change the records.

I went home and wondered if I had known, would I still have signed the papers for the transfusion. Was it a violation of her faith based on my beliefs. Later, I found out that the little girl wanted the transfusion. What she was afraid of was dying for her mother's newly found faith. How about that for having to be forced to choose?

I agree with those that have said we are not taught to do "right" anymore. Consider Aesop's Fables. These tales of (secular) morality went from being an adult favorite, to a children's introduction to morals, to something too dark to let children read. I couldn't even find the book at my local books stores (because it was not kept in stock). I doubt many people even know what Aesop's Fables are anymore, or if they do, they may know a couple of the several hundred fables.

There was much to learn from those stories. But for some reason, they are thought of as violent, while many of the video games our children play, that are over the top violent and that offer little in value to their morality, is just fine to play.

I don't know that these issues are because of piety or a lack thereof. I think technology has created more moral dilemmas than we are educated to handle and our complicated, mixed-culture, society has too many moral pitfalls.

It could be that our global society has forced us to deal with so much change and diversity in such a short period of time, that we just don't know where to focus.

  • 6 votes
#13.1 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 11:16 PM EDT
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Paying Attention

A teacher friend told me she hated parent/teacher meetings. Some parents did not even show up for meetings; they just let the kids raise themselves. Other parents would show, but considered themselves and their offspring too privileged to be accountable. Lack of personal responsibility crosses all classes, so is it innate?

As far as ‘advertising’, I remember in the early 70’s my old Irish boss came back from an executive meeting very disgusted. Our ‘advertising’ department was changing its methodology and now was to be called Marketing. He said, “God help us all; we are about to be ruled by the ‘dream merchants’!” It is more difficult for the ‘dream merchants’ to control independent thinkers. Is independent thinking an innate ability?

My daughter told me about a recent gathering and a young child that caused a disruption over fear of dog that entered the room. Some began and continued mocking the child. My daughter was appalled at the lack of empathy and called them out; one of the mockers was a young minister. Is empathy innate?

Religiosity does not guarantee adherence to a set of moralities; otherwise we would not be seeing failings of many public church leaders. Perhaps some feel they require rules or fear to follow a moral code, but if it is not innate, will they still fail?

If it is innate, I am curious as to the why. Is it genetic or is it because of (or lack of) generational evolvement and/or individual development?

  • 4 votes
Reply#14 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 9:36 PM EDT
Perrie

Paying Attention,

Your teacher friend speaks the truth. It is one of the most upsetting times of the year. It is one of the reasons that I wrote this article.

Empathy I believe is innate, but it can be killed or encouraged to grow.

Religiosity does not guarantee adherence to a set of moralities; otherwise we would not be seeing failings of many public church leaders. Perhaps some feel they require rules or fear to follow a moral code, but if it is not innate, will they still fail?

Or the job attracts a certain type of person. Maybe one where they are trying to work out their own demons, much like many psychologists are in need of one themselves. They became interested in the field because they were trying to work it all out.

If it is innate, I am curious as to the why. Is it genetic or is it because of (or lack of) generational evolvement and/or individual development?

There you got me.

  • 6 votes
#14.1 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 11:36 PM EDT
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nonStitiousZealot

IMO morality began to die with the advent of the birth control pill .
This was an advance that solved one problem [threat of overpopulation] but
introduced other problems [ a blurring of social roles and the social
structure that was built on these roles ] . It was far easier to have a code
of conduct when the entire society agreed on these roles and the associated rules of behavior .

With the advent of "the pill" the rate of social change accelerated sharply
and the threat of "being left out" became the motivating force for most people . This was interpreted as simply acting for self advancement and self promotion above all else . Where this was most damaging was I think , in parenting roles and rules .

  • 5 votes
#15 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 10:06 PM EDT
Jack Huang

IMO morality began to die with the advent of the birth control pill .
This was an advance that solved one problem [threat of overpopulation] but
introduced other problems [ a blurring of social roles and the social
structure that was built on these roles ] . It was far easier to have a code
of conduct when the entire society agreed on these roles and the associated rules of behavior .

One big problem with this analysis: contraceptive concoctions, abortifacients, and surgical abortion were fairly common practice long before the invention of the birth control pill.

Further, the birth control pill didn't solve overpopulation. Not by a long shot.

With the advent of "the pill" the rate of social change accelerated sharply
and the threat of "being left out" became the motivating force for most people

Ummm... how did the advent of birth control pill increase the desperation with which people feared "being left out"?

  • 7 votes
#15.1 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 10:17 PM EDT
nonStitiousZealot

One big problem with this analysis: contraceptive concoctions, abortifacients, and surgical abortion were fairly common practice long before the invention of the birth control pill.

Fair enough Jack ; clarification is required .

Although there were prior contraceptive and abortifacient methods , none received the enormous popular reception that the pill did . IMO , the sea change that brought about was due to the change in women's self perception . For the 1st time in history women were able to be proactive in their ability to not give birth . They were thus able to devote themselves more fully to becoming "sexual beings" on an equal footing with men . This was an enormous change in self perception .

Further, the birth control pill didn't solve overpopulation. Not by a long shot.

I am not attempting to address global concerns here . I'm assuming this
article is mostly about the U.S. where the birth rate is below the replacement rate [with the exception of Hispanic citizens] .

how did the advent of birth control pill increase the desperation with which people feared "being left out"?

It had to do with the acceleration of the rate of social change .
Sorry if I'm not being clear on this . Perhaps more elaboration is required .

  • 5 votes
#15.2 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 10:49 PM EDT
Perrie

Well guys,

Thanks for doing such a great job with that discussion. It saved my fingers more of a work out :-)

  • 6 votes
#15.3 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 11:47 PM EDT
nonStitiousZealot

Perrie ,

Jack is one of the few viners I know intelligent enough to
formulate difficult questions . His points allowed me to better
focus my thoughts . Tomorrow after you've slept on this , perhaps
you'll have some questions too .

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#15.4 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 12:11 AM EDT
Perrie

Jack is amazing at asking the really probing questions, but you are no slouch yourself. It's getting late and I am trying to answer everyone who posted tonight, so that I have a fresh mind in the morn.

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#15.5 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 1:16 AM EDT
Jack Huang

Although there were prior contraceptive and abortifacient methods , none received the enormous popular reception that the pill did . IMO , the sea change that brought about was due to the change in women's self perception . For the 1st time in history women were able to be proactive in their ability to not give birth . They were thus able to devote themselves more fully to becoming "sexual beings" on an equal footing with men . This was an enormous change in self perception .

Hmmm, perhaps. But then I have to pose the chicken vs. egg question: was the birth control pill's popularity a catalyst for women's sexual liberalization, or was the women's general social liberalization (Rosie the Riveter, women's suffrage, etc.) the catalyst for gaining the social ability to make the birth control pill popular?

"The pill" was first approved for use in the US in 1960, so if we're purely going by comparative timelines of social movements, I'm leaning towards "liberalization led to Pill adoption," and not the other way around.

I am not attempting to address global concerns here . I'm assuming this
article is mostly about the U.S. where the birth rate is below the replacement rate

Was the US ever really in danger of being overpopulated, though? Our current population stands at around 300 million, and we have several times more arable land than China, which still manages to sustain 1.3 billion people.

It had to do with the acceleration of the rate of social change .
Sorry if I'm not being clear on this . Perhaps more elaboration is required .

Yeah, I think you'll have give a longer explanation. :-P

I've always attributed accelerated social change to advances in telecommunications and a progressive rise in in average standard of living.

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#15.6 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 8:44 AM EDT
MalamuteMan

A little Wiki-info

The words "birth control" entered the English language in 1914 with the American reformer Margaret Sanger. In 1914 she launched The Woman Rebel, an eight page monthly newsletter promoting contraception, with the slogan "No Gods and No Masters", and coining this term).

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#15.7 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 9:07 AM EDT
MalamuteMan

I've always attributed accelerated social change to advances in telecommunications and a progressive rise in in average standard of living.

Seems like that all really began with the industrial revolution...

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#15.8 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 9:09 AM EDT
Perrie

About the pill:

Gregory Pincus was an American physician, biologist, and researcher during the 20th century. Early in his career he began studying hormonal biology and steroidal hormones, but his first breakthrough came in 1934 when was able to produce in vitro fertilization in rabbits. In 1953, Margaret Sanger and Katherine McCormick confronted Pincus with the idea of creating an oral contraceptive. He sought out Searle, a pharmaceutical company, about funding for their plan. Searle's initial reaction was 'no' because it jeopardized his company due to the austere birth control laws. Despite the fact that Searle had no intention of creating an oral contraceptive, Frank Colton, a chemist at the company, accidentally developed a type of one. Pincus was allowed to have samples of the drug for his research and in 1957 The Pill was released as a treatment for gynecological disorders. Finally, in 1960, it became FDA approved and by 1963, 1.2 million women were using it. Although Searle was originally reluctant to fund research for an oral contraceptive, he soon reaped the rewards of the newly invented Pill, and monopolized the industry for a short time.

http://www-scf.usc.edu/~nicoleg/history.htm

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#15.9 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 12:06 PM EDT
Perrie

Seems like that all really began with the industrial revolution...

I tend to agree with you there. I would also like to add that sometimes technology surpasses our ability to deal with the ethical questions that comes with it.

Think "Blade Runner".

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#15.10 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 12:09 PM EDT
nonStitiousZealot

Jack ,

But then I have to pose the chicken vs. egg question:

An excellent question ; however , I am unconcerned about the answer .
I am not implying that "the pill" was the cause , only the catalyst .
It was a catalyst because it took a theoretical construct
[women are equal to men] and made it more practical
[I feel equal to a man because I can avoid the consequences of casual sex . ] .

Was the US ever really in danger of being overpopulated, though?

Possibly , but either way that does not detract from my central argument .
I think the intention of the inventor was to prevent overpopulation .

I've always attributed accelerated social change to advances in telecommunications and a progressive rise in in average standard of living.

As Jack and Mal both point out there have been numerous technological changes that have affected our economic structure and sped things up . All of these are I have little doubt , part of the picture .

But I maintain that widespread adoption of the pill had its own unique effects . A lot of what we call morality has its basis in the family structure and the raising of children . Women's identity was mostly fixed in that role and in related career paths [teacher nurse etc.] . In any case there was almost no direct competition between the genders . But all that changed with the "liberation" of women that was catalysed by the pill . Now women feel free to pursue almost any career path .
There wouldn't have been a Danica Patrick back then . Now she is free to compete directly with men . Thus there is a general deemphasis on the child rearing function of women and a changed emphasis to competition in the workplace etc.
It is this large increase in the general level of competition that leads to a lack of standards of behavior IMO . I hope I have made myself clearer this time .

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#15.11 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 12:09 PM EDT
nonStitiousZealot

From the historical info about the pill I will have to change my
statement about the intention of the inventor . Apparently it was
motivated by women's liberation influences from the start . The pill is still the catalyst of this huge social change .

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#15.12 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 12:25 PM EDT
js-445607

Prior to the women's liberation movement a woman was expected to leave the past behind and reshape herself in the image her husband demanded. The husband instructed the woman in every act. He'd admonish her in public if she made a social mistake and berate her if she "forgot" even the pettiest demand. Many women became depressed, as it is very difficult to have nothing of yourself and feel like a vessel filled with rules and expectations, none of which came from the self. Women kept secrets, dreamed and imagined yet hid this well as it was forbidden.

Along came the 60's and men decided that women could go out in the workforce and help with the financial needs of the man. The money the woman brought in often paid the lion's share of the debts while the man could support his hobbies. It was indeed a strange time. The woman could not compete with her husband and he was still completely in control.

It has taken years to gradually turn things around. Women stopped buying into "Because I'm the Man" after discovering they were not given choices expected to support be the domestic and completely in service to another human being. The battle for equal rights has a huge impact on a society as many are battling for and just as many are battling against being as one.

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#15.13 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 2:03 PM EDT
Jack Huang

It was a catalyst because it took a theoretical construct
[women are equal to men] and made it more practical
[I feel equal to a man because I can avoid the consequences of casual sex . ] .

That is only one manner in which gender equality could be reached. I would think that actual civil rights, like the right to vote, would count at least as much.

Possibly , but either way that does not detract from my central argument .
I think the intention of the inventor was to prevent overpopulation .

The intention of the inventor is irrelevant to whether or not the birth control pill solved overpopulation, in much the same way the intention of the inventor is irrelevant to whether or not lasers helped us listen to the Jackson Five on the go.

But I maintain that widespread adoption of the pill had its own unique effects . A lot of what we call morality has its basis in the family structure and the raising of children . Women's identity was mostly fixed in that role and in related career paths [teacher nurse etc.] . In any case there was almost no direct competition between the genders . But all that changed with the "liberation" of women that was catalysed by the pill . Now women feel free to pursue almost any career path .

Faulty causality. Whether or not a woman is actually a mother has little bearing on whether or not she should choose "nurse" (versus, for example, "engineer") as her career path (especially since engineers typically have much more predictable working hours). It is merely social perception which decides such things, not actual conception control.

Pre-birth-control-pill America was not a vast plain of teenage pregnancies, and World War 2 certainly demonstrated that women didn't need the birth control pill to do what was traditionally man's work. As such, I don't see any support for your argument that the birth control pill was some sort of primary catalyst of women's liberation.

There wouldn't have been a Danica Patrick back then . Now she is free to compete directly with men . Thus there is a general deemphasis on the child rearing function of women and a changed emphasis to competition in the workplace etc.

All you've said here is that women's liberation indeed happened. You've demonstrated nothing about the significance of the birth control pill.

The pill is still the catalyst of this huge social change .

Frankly, I've yet to see you rationally support this statement.

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#15.14 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 2:41 PM EDT
nonStitiousZealot

I would think that actual civil rights, like the right to vote, would count at least as much.

I have not said or implied that "sexual equality" is the only factor ;
Only that it was the last event in the chain to bring about actual equal rights .

The intention of the inventor is irrelevant to whether or not the birth control pill solved overpopulation

Where did I say or imply that "the birth control pill solved overpopulation" ? And this has nothing to do with my central thesis about the social effects of the pill .

Faulty causality.

I'm not talking about causality . I'm talking about identity .
Women's identity was very much wrapped up in conception and
child rearing . Now it's not as much . They could not pursue many
varied career paths till they freed themselves from that former identity .

Do you disagree that women didn't "feel free to pursue almost any career path" in the past ?

All you've said here is that women's liberation indeed happened. You've demonstrated nothing about the significance of the birth control pill.

OK , try this . Women are NOT equal . That is because they are not the
same as men . Take away their birth control and their right to abortion
and they revert to their original IDENTITY as the child bearing gender .
The pill was the 1st true freedom from that identity .

The pill [or something like it] was necessary to allow that new
identity to emerge .

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#15.15 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 3:08 PM EDT
Jack Huang

I have not said or implied that "sexual equality" is the only factor ;
Only that it was the last event in the chain to bring about actual equal rights .

Where did I say or imply that "the birth control pill solved overpopulation" ?

Uhhh... right here:

IMO morality began to die with the advent of the birth control pill .
This was an advance that solved one problem [threat of overpopulation]

Do you disagree that women didn't "feel free to pursue almost any career path" in the past ?

No, I agree with that. However, I don't see support for your emphasis of the birth control pill as "a sea change" or "the catalyst."

OK , try this . Women are NOT equal . That is because they are not the
same as men . Take away their birth control and their right to abortion
and they revert to their original IDENTITY as the child bearing gender .
The pill was the 1st true freedom from that identity .

Again, the ability to control childrearing without requiring abstinence was not pioneered by the birth control pill. Even assuming that the Pill does provide utter freedom from this "identity" as the child-bearing gender (and I'd argue that it doesn't, since men have yet to gain the ability to give birth), it was hardly the first thing to allow such freedom.

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#15.16 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 4:12 PM EDT
Jonny-1740441

nonStitiousZealot has a point though. Birth control pill may not be "the" catalyst, but it's accurate to say it was a significant catalyst. Can we ever point to one event for significant progressive social change? Probably not. Sociocultural evolution usually require series of small to significant events. It did level the playing field. Perception of inequality, that women shouldn't have multiple partners due to risk of pregnancy while men can, got thrown out the window. Call it sexual equality. In the realm of sexual gratification, game changed; Men and Women became equal. Did this significantly contribute awareness for and leading to gender equality?

I think so.

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#15.17 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 5:55 PM EDT
nonStitiousZealot

Thank you Jonny ,

I was hoping someone else would get my point .

Jack ,

I can't say that I have proved my point . It is not the kind of event
that lends itself to proof . But I have said my piece . And you have not
disproved my thesis . However you have resorted to nit-picking .
That is disappointing .

  • 4 votes
#15.18 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 6:27 PM EDT
Jack Huang

Birth control pill may not be "the" catalyst, but it's accurate to say it was a significant catalyst.

I can see how that would be true. But, it'd be nice if someone could point me to direct evidence supporting this claim.

Can we ever point to one event for significant progressive social change?

Not at all, thus one of my disagreements with nSZ's thesis.

It did level the playing field. Perception of inequality, that women shouldn't have multiple partners due to risk of pregnancy while men can, got thrown out the window. Call it sexual equality. In the realm of sexual gratification, game changed; Men and Women became equal. Did this significantly contribute awareness for and leading to gender equality?

I don't think it did. Heck, men and women still aren't truly on a level playing field when it comes to sexual freedom (or other facets of social perception). Popular sexual expectations still differ markedly for men and women, and in the end, it is culture (like those expectations) which dictates social equality.

And you have not
disproved my thesis .

Depends on which thesis you're talking about. The goalposts shifted a couple of times over the course of our discussion.

However you have resorted to nit-picking .
That is disappointing .

On nitpicking. :-P

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#15.19 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 7:38 PM EDT
Jonny-1740441

Heck, men and women still aren't truly on a level playing field when it comes to sexual freedom (or other facets of social perception). Popular sexual expectations still differ markedly for men and women, and in the end, it is culture (like those expectations) which dictates social equality.

Agreed. Guess we are still socially evolving ;).

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#15.20 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 8:27 PM EDT
nonStitiousZealot

Jack ,

men and women still aren't truly on a level playing field when it comes to sexual freedom (or other facets of social perception). Popular sexual expectations still differ markedly for men and women

I'm going to take a guess here about your age . You are not old enough to
have been an adult during the beginnings of the "sexual revolution" .
My motive for making the statements I did was based on my experience of
this era as an adult and the rapid changes I observed . Sexual mores went
through a rapid change but then biology reasserted itself .
[I expect you're going to blame this on social mores but I don't agree .] .

Depends on which thesis you're talking about. The goalposts shifted a couple of times over the course of our discussion.

I've had only 1 main thesis the whole time . It hasn't shifted once .
And no it wasn't that the pill defeated the population explosion .
Try rereading what I said about that .

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#15.21 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 9:40 PM EDT
Jack Huang

I'm going to take a guess here about your age . You are not old enough to
have been an adult during the beginnings of the "sexual revolution" .

That sexual revolution began before the introduction of the Pill, so that makes you over the age of 75 (2010 - 1960 + 25)?

Sexual mores went
through a rapid change but then biology reasserted itself .

And I don't see the Pill as fundamentally equalizing male and female biology. Women are still the only ones who can give birth.

I've had only 1 main thesis the whole time . It hasn't shifted once .

Well, for starters, "a catalyst" is fundamentally different from "the catalyst." :-P

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#15.22 - Sat Jun 19, 2010 12:32 AM EDT
nonStitiousZealot

for starters, "a catalyst" is fundamentally different from "the catalyst."

Still nit-picking Jack . I have repeatedly used "the catalyst" and
that is my stance . If you look back you can see it was another party
that said "a catalyst" .

If that's all you got , you ain't got much .

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#15.23 - Sat Jun 19, 2010 12:55 AM EDT
Jack Huang

Still nit-picking Jack .

Pardon me for trying to have a discussion in clear terms. I'll consider working on rhetorical hopscotch in the future.

I have repeatedly used "the catalyst" and
that is my stance . If you look back you can see it was another party
that said "a catalyst" .

Alright, now you've really got to clarify.

You're claiming that your point has solely been about the Pill being "the catalyst," yet Jonny wrote "nonStitiousZealot has a point though. Birth control pill may not be "the" catalyst, but it's accurate to say it was a significant catalyst. Can we ever point to one event for significant progressive social change? Probably not.", which you responded to by thanking Jonny for being someone who "gets [your] point."

So, for final clarification on just this one brutally simple facet of your argument: do you mean "the catalyst" (which contradicts Jonny's point), or do you mean "a catalyst" (which contradicts, well, your current point)?

If you can't even clarify this elementary issue, one can hardly be expected to have a meaningful discussion about something as complex as women's liberation.

If that's all you got , you ain't got much .

Merely in the comment you just responded to, I had about three times as much. :-P

You also had a different point earlier, specifically: "The pill was the 1st true freedom from that identity ." Curiously, this came after my note that the Pill was hardly the first form of control that women got over their childrearing schedule.

Now, even if I do accept that your statement at face value, just for the sake of indulging you, that the Pill was indeed primarily responsible for leveling the sexual playing field, your initial thesis was "morality began to die with the advent of the birth control pill."

If you'd like to explain the causal link between sexual equality and moral decay, feel free.

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#15.24 - Sat Jun 19, 2010 1:16 AM EDT
nonStitiousZealot

So, for final clarification on just this one brutally simple facet of your argument: do you mean "the catalyst" (which contradicts Jonny's point), or do you mean "a catalyst" (which contradicts, well, your current point)?

As I just said , I meant "the catalyst" which is what I said .
If you call that a complete contradiction to what Jonny said take it up with him .

"The pill was the 1st true freedom from that identity ." Curiously, this came after my note that the Pill was hardly the first form of control that women got over their childrearing schedule.

You quoted me correctly . Let me stress the emphasis . "The pill was the 1st TRUE freedom from that identity ."
By that I mean that it gave women the feeling of being in control of their
reproduction which they didn't have with abortion for example since that involved outside agents . I am trying to make a point about women's identity which involves how they feel about the process they are using .

If you'd like to explain the causal link between sexual equality and moral decay, feel free.

First I need to know how the rest of what I said in this comment has been
received . If there is no consensus about that there is no point in adding to it .

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#15.25 - Sat Jun 19, 2010 1:49 AM EDT
Jack Huang

As I just said , I meant "the catalyst" which is what I said .
If you call that a complete contradiction to what Jonny said take it up with him .

Ah, so Jonny getting your point was bulls---. Noted.

In that case, I'll reiterate my earlier point that the Pill still didn't level the playing field, and you've yet to show me how legal equality (like suffrage or employment anti-discrimination) were less important than the Pill for women's liberation.

I'll note that even after the passing of gender-based anti-discrimination laws, women are still not considered sexual equals, since they're still often allowed maternity leave.

"The pill was the 1st TRUE freedom from that identity ."
By that I mean that it gave women the feeling of being in control of their
reproduction which they didn't have with abortion for example since that involved outside agents .

So you completely ignored my disagreements with that at the end of #15.16 and in the middle of #15.19. Okay, to reiterate: a measure of freedom in childrearing scheduling that's simply more convenient than abortion doesn't counter the fact that there's still only on gender tasked with childbirth.

First I need to know how the rest of what I said in this comment has been
received . If there is no consensus about that there is no point in adding to it .

Ah, so no explanation yet.

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#15.26 - Sat Jun 19, 2010 8:25 AM EDT
nonStitiousZealot

to reiterate: a measure of freedom in childrearing scheduling that's simply more convenient than abortion doesn't counter the fact that there's still only on gender tasked with childbirth.

Nevertheless , the rate of childbirth has gone down dramatically since the advent
of this new BC technology . In that respect there is "less than one gender"
actually having children . [The proportion of women who are mothers is less
and the average family size is much less .]
That convenience was a big deal back then . It changed the way women FELT about themselves . OK , I implied that it was all women . I oversimplified . I should have said "a large number of women" . My apologies for doing that . I was reaching for an idea and did not get all the details precisely right the 1st time through .

I still think my basic idea is correct . The women who were most interested in sexual equality were directly affected by having an option they did not previously have . I know that when I was going for a second college degree in the 1970's the effect it had on coeds was profound . In any case the noise about the equality of women increased dramatically in that period . And the identity of girls growing up then wasn't so
singularly focussed on marriage and childbirth . It allowed for many more possibilities .

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#15.27 - Sat Jun 19, 2010 12:42 PM EDT
js-445607

nonStitiousZealot you post is really good and I agree with you on the point of women's liberation and choices. Until the movement women and that was me had one identity and that was of her husband. If she were single she'd be up for scrutiny if she were not married by a certain age. In those times most women were married before their 21st birthday. I made it to 20 and had my first child when I was really old...23. That was simply how things worked. I was married to a doctor and introduced as Dr R's wife not "js" as I was just the chic who was in service to the guy. I was also arm-candy although they didn't call it that in those days. I was so shallow that I saw the governor and his wife in the elevator and she was wearing flat shoes in public and I was appalled for her fashion mistake. This is embarrassing to reveal but it does give you a sampling of how broad and enlightened I was. I had no thoughts of my own once married and it was pretty much forbidden. When Women began resisting this condition we were doing happy dances and we could study what we wanted explore laugh play and be curious without someone's thumb being pressed down upon us. No more closet education dreams and expectations we were free to come out and be who we truly were. We threw away or burned our bras snubbed Tupperware parties and began to live. Our men had a hard time with this but found they liked a freer woman for the most part. There were advantages for them.

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#15.28 - Sat Jun 19, 2010 1:18 PM EDT
nonStitiousZealot

Thanks for sharing your experiences js .
It helps to get a personal perspective on those turbulent times .

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#15.29 - Sat Jun 19, 2010 1:24 PM EDT
Perrie

Actually, I just remembered from my social anthropology class what was the first major catalyst for woman's liberation and laid the ground work for woman entering the work force as equals. That was WWII, when woman took jobs at factories building planes and ships at equal pay of their male counterparts. Woman finally realized that they no longer needed to be relegated to the job of just being a mother and wife, as they still had to take care of the home and be a part of the work force.

The Pill, did help to level the playing field when it came to reproduction, but it didn't do away with the double standard (men who fool around with a lot of woman are players, but woman who do are called loose or worse), not could it correct the one thing that science can't yet counter, which is the biological clock. So woman are still forced to make a decision between having a family or not, and if they have a family, in many cases picking up the extra responsibilities ( I am a very lucky girl in this respect....Matt really did his fair share in child rearing)

Jack,

One thing that needs to be clarified. Although the pill was developed about 75 years ago, it was only introduced to the general public in the 1960's as a form of birth control, and the first pill made many woman quite ill since the dose was too high, so they many opted to use other forms of control until the 1970's when lower dose pills were introduced.

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#15.30 - Sat Jun 19, 2010 1:54 PM EDT
js-445607

The birth control pill of the 60's was so awful that it really was birth control as it completely depressed the libido. That pill was far too strong and for me a curse. I felt bloated and cranky and truly wacko while taking it. I think many women had very sensitive systems and this pill was pretty terrible. The idea was wonderful but the side affects were truly concerning. I along with many other women developed "pigment" spots on my body. It is a great relief that improvements have been made.

In the late 60's I interviewed for a job and was asked about my sexual activities was I on birth control and did I plan to have more children. I'm sure this will give you a hint that men weren't quite ready to give up their role of controlling women.

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#15.31 - Sat Jun 19, 2010 2:18 PM EDT
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Joanna Caroll

What has really died is good parenting.

Amen. Or not. Because the lack of good parenting doesn't explain the abysmal lack of character among a great number of this country's most notable "leaders" or role models. The one thing this group of notables has in common is money; many are religious, people of faith, family-value minded. And I have no answer but I do hope the discussion goes on.

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Reply#17 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 11:33 PM EDT
Perrie

Because the lack of good parenting doesn't explain the abysmal lack of character among a great number of this country's most notable "leaders" or role models.

But that is timeless. Napoleon, Julius Caesar, Nero....absolute power leads to absolute corruption.

The one thing this group of notables has in common is money; many are religious, people of faith, family-value minded.

There are loads of people that have no faith and are just as corrupt. And people who fake faith to get into power. It seems, in America, we want to know that the people we have in power, have a faith, whether they really mean it or not.

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#17.1 - Thu Jun 17, 2010 11:45 PM EDT
Paying Attention

Perrie, you have named it.

But that is timeless. Napoleon, Julius Caesar, Nero....absolute power leads to absolute corruption.

Every generation from the beginning of time has equally tolerated and learned from their rebellious 'free thinking youth'.

Absolute corruption, greed, and profits, by the so-called adults, however have sometimes altered our progression of human understanding.

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#17.2 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 3:24 AM EDT
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Solidarity Nite

I don't think that there has been any real decline in morality.. altho I think that human beings are overall good we are still animals. People have been complaining about the decline of morality since recorded history began. So this is nothing new. When we think about morality we have only to look around us at history to see that we are probably living in the best of times and it is probably only going to get better. Remember only a short while ago women couldn't vote and weren't even considered persons.. slavery was legal.. go further back children were property, it was commonplace to commit what today we would call war crimes or genocide and so on so forth..

What is different is that we have media that can report in a flash the most horrible thing of the moment to us instantaneously instead of it happening and being forgotten about like it was even only forty years ago or less.. we're just more aware. I think tho that more peoples attention are being drawn to the problems and the crimes and that they are increasingly being viewed as less acceptable and the origins of our inhumanity to each other are exposed and understood..

Things only look bad because we're deluged with bad, in other words.. imagine if the media spent half as much time reporting about all the good things that happened instead.. the world isn't a half bad place and its only getting better not worse

As for religion vs humanism, imo when the last priest dies that will be when humanity's chains will finally fall away

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Reply#18 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 3:12 AM EDT
Perrie

I don't think that there has been any real decline in morality.. altho I think that human beings are overall good we are still animals. People have been complaining about the decline of morality since recorded history began. So this is nothing new. When we think about morality we have only to look around us at history to see that we are probably living in the best of times and it is probably only going to get better. Remember only a short while ago women couldn't vote and weren't even considered persons.. slavery was legal.. go further back children were property, it was commonplace to commit what today we would call war crimes or genocide and so on so forth

This is true. In many ways, life has become more fair to more people. But does that mean that people are behaving ethically? That is a different question. For instance, in a recent survey of high school students:

In the past year, 30 percent of U.S. high school students have stolen from a store and 64 percent have cheated on a test, according to a new, large-scale survey suggesting that Americans are too apathetic about ethical standards.

http://www2.tbo.com/content/2008/nov/30/survey-says-more-hs-students-lying-cheating-steali/

Things only look bad because we're deluged with bad, in other words.. imagine if the media spent half as much time reporting about all the good things that happened instead.. the world isn't a half bad place and its only getting better not worse

Well, I have to agree with that statement. But let's just face it, people want to see that. Happiness doesn't sell. Maybe that's why we rubber neck!

As for religion vs humanism, imo when the last priest dies that will be when humanity's chains will finally fall away

I detect a defunked Catholic. Well, I am not sure if the church keeps people in chains. People are free to pick and choose what they like about any faith. I kind of keep a Chinese menu of religion in my life.

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#18.1 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 1:40 PM EDT
Solidarity Nite

What is happening to our young people? They disrespect their elders, they disobey their parents. They ignore the law. They riot in the streets inflamed with wild notions. Their morals are decaying. What is to become of them? - Plato

We've been complaining about the younger generations lack of morality for probably as long as there has ever been a younger generation to complain about.. the ancient Greeks and Egyptians apparently were also complaining about how morality was in decline.. I think that every generation has its own way of expressing its interpretation of morality that is in essence little changed from that of their parents.. otherwise if morality was really in such decline for so long we would have long ago reverted to complete barbarism.

Yes, definitely a defunked Catholic.. but not against the concept of religion itself but the concept that religion has to be rigid and that it needs enforcers, sanctioned interpreters, dogma.. a menu of religion is just fine, it's when a fundamentalist decrees that their way is the only way that we have problems

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#18.2 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 2:43 PM EDT
nonStitiousZealot

In all fairness , that quote from Plato was shortly before the fall of the Greek civilization .

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#18.3 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 3:15 PM EDT
Perrie

Solidarity,

Look up at post #2.1. Almost at the very beginning of this discussion, I recognized that for generations this has been going through the minds of elders of that time. And Yes,NSZ, it was close to the fall of Greece. But what I am referring to is more akin to ethics. Now somewhere up this dialog, is a link to a study that was done, that showed that young people think that it's OK to lie, steal and cheat on test. That is defiantly not an improvement. As for other aspects of our lives, sure, they have gotten better. We no longer have slaves and woman have rights...but wouldn't you say that there may be a bias against new people? Do we just change one bias for another? I digress....

Yes, definitely a defunked Catholic.. but not against the concept of religion itself but the concept that religion has to be rigid and that it needs enforcers, sanctioned interpreters, dogma.. a menu of religion is just fine, it's when a fundamentalist decrees that their way is the only way that we have problems

I hope that you didn't take that as a judgment call. It wasn't meant to be. Heck, I am not even sure what I believe, and I had two faiths to choose from, LOL! But I agree with the rest of your statement 100%

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#18.4 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 5:32 PM EDT
Jonny-1740441

Here is another question to ponder though; Almost all of us commenting here are U.S. citizens. We grew up in this culture. Although Christianity may be on a decline in the U.S. today, (especially among our young men & women), the religion was quite a moral influence in our country since it's founding.

We grew up within communities with moral values that was significantly influence by judeo/christian doctrine. May not be anymore, but it was, I'd say, even up to 20 years ago. Christian conservatives had a powerful voice in this country when it came to issues of morality. Those of you who are not 30 yrs or older may not relate heh. Here is where our real ages start to come into play.

"Moral Decay". The word itself suggests that at one point our moral standards were higher; People within our community, individually and generally as a whole, held a higher moral standard. But now, individually and generally as a whole, hold less moral standard.

Could there be a correlation between moral decay and decline of judeo/christianity in our country?

When certain values are taught from youth by our communities, whether that be via family members, television, teachers etc... those values shape us. We tend to impart those same or similar values to our children and so forth.

When certain values are not taught or different sets of values are taught by our communities, we tend to impart those same or similar values to our children and so forth.

Is there a correlation I wonder? Personally I think so.

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#18.5 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 6:46 PM EDT
thelyamhound

Perrie:

People are free to pick and choose what they like about any faith. I kind of keep a Chinese menu of religion in my life.

I wouldn't think to criticize this approach in and of itself. The problem, from, say, the mainstream Protestant perspective is that Christ has no use for half-measures, for cafeteria faith. From an epistemic perspective, the problem is that, in addition to the "rules" and philosophical posits within any given religion (from which one can borrow, cateteria style, if one doesn't assume that the metaphysical assertions or historical narratives of the religion are true), there are also arguably falsifiable assertions of truth. That is to say, either there is a god or there isn't; either Christ is the messiah, or he is not; either his crucifixion atoned for our sins, or it didn't.

Since I don't believe in an anthropomorphic deity, in the resurrection, or in the historical veracity of the Bible per se, I have no objection to your "borrowing" elements of the Bible that suit you; after all, I believe that Christ was likely a bodhisattva, given that he obviously had enough charisma and influence to have a whole movement built around his purported philosophy (the catch being that, according to the doctrines of Mahayana Buddhism, we're ALL bodhisattvas, so his particular distinction becomes a little less monumental). But I'm not sure most Christians would agree.

Also, insofar as being religious implies belief that something is true, it is immune to the notion of "choice." One may certainly "choose" the doctrines to which one is obedient; one has less choice--pretty close to none, though we could quibble about tangential or supporting choices regarding modes of observation or epistemology--regarding what one believes to be true.

Jonny-1740441:

Although Christianity may be on a decline in the U.S. today, (especially among our young men & women), the religion was quite a moral influence in our country since it's founding. We grew up within communities with moral values that was significantly influence by judeo/christian doctrine.

Maybe. Then again, my tacitly Catholic parents were pro-choice, pro-gay-rights (even so far as allowing a gay couple to babysit first their eldest son--me--and later both of their boys), pro-contraception, unconcerned by premarital sex, etc. Conversely, the moral principles about which they were most rabid--responsibility to others, politeness, hard work, etc.--were/are in no way specific to Christianity.

It's always interesting to debate the matter for me, because there are moral precepts within Christianity worth keeping (civility, sacrifice, tolerance, pluralism) that are expressed (some might say better expressed) in other faith systems, while some specific to Christianity (proscriptions against homosexuality or premarital sex, admonishments against belief in other deities, insistence on the sabbath) seem to have little-to-no specific value when the matter at hand is being good to/responsible for one another.

Those of you who are not 30 yrs or older may not relate heh.

I'm 38.

"Moral Decay". The word itself suggests that at one point our moral standards were higher; People within our community, individually and generally as a whole, held a higher moral standard. But now, individually and generally as a whole, hold less moral standard.

That's the premise, yes. Whether the premise itself is correct is a matter worth investigating. Are we less moral, or has the focus of our moral concern shifted?

Could there be a correlation between moral decay and decline of judeo/christianity in our country?

One could as easily point to the way that consumer goods like cars, computers, and phones, and even others like cell phones and their various descendents, went from being luxuries to necessities, amenities that current or prospective employers assume that you will have (depending on the industry wherein your talents and interests lie, of course; I can guarantee that no one without nigh constant email access has gotten much theater work in the last decade), and/or to the necessity of dual income households in such a system. Could car culture and suburbanization have lead to social isolation, thus eroding civic values?

Perrie and I also converse above about the degree to which anti-intellectualism has left the population unable to contemplate moral philosophy in such a way as to be mindful of the consequences of action. I think it's impossible to overstate the importance of this development. As a side note, I do agree that religion is a useful tool for introducing moral standards to those too blunt or simple to absorb them philosphically or intellectually (or even for those who are so inclined; after all, I'm practicing Buddhist and, philosophically/cosmologically, a pantheist), but that Christianity isn't unique in its capacity to do so.

When certain values are taught from youth by our communities, whether that be via family members, television, teachers etc... those values shape us. We tend to impart those same or similar values to our children and so forth.

So the question is, what are family members imparting in the (posited) absence of Judeo-Christian values? Have they replaced it with no religion at all? Following that to its reasonable extension, might the problem be less one of decreasing religiosity and more one of decreasing moral-philosophical interest?

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#18.6 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 7:29 PM EDT
Jonny-1740441

Perrie and I also converse above about the degree to which anti-intellectualism has left the population unable to contemplate moral philosophy in such a way as to be mindful of the consequences of action. I think it's impossible to overstate the importance of this development.

If we were to compare current generation with previous generations, isn't current generation more educated and more inclined towards intellectualism? With the www. and information era, nothing is hidden. People can research, reason, evaluate, judge & conclude for themselves.

Which poses another question; Is there a correlation between positive ethical individual morality which governs one's social behavior, with intellectualism? Hm... What I mean; Is highly educated scientific mind (intellectualism) produce higher ethical moral behavior?

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#18.7 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 8:23 PM EDT
thelyamhound

I don't really equate intellectualism with science. Science is obviously a pursuit requiring intellect, and it's the best system we've encountered for observing, recording, and "explaining" (so far as it's possible) natural phenomenon, but I certainly don't imagine that science is better than religion, poetry, intuition, or philosophy at prividing a basis for moral reasoning.

So . . .

If we were to compare current generation with previous generations, isn't current generation more educated and more inclined towards intellectualism?

Not at all. Among some minority and immigrant populations, "intellectualism" seems to be equated with whiteness; harping from the right about "elites" and coastal intellectuals in their "ivory towers" shows that intellectualism is not much more respected by rural whites.

What's more, education rarely includes exposure to moral philosophy, comparative theology, or even various theories on the evolution of moral principles, theories regarding the survival utility of morality, creativity, compassion, etc.

As a Buddhist, I'm actually expected to be able to tackle these questions intellectually as well as apprehending them emotionally and spiritually through chanting. But I was studying those matters before I was a Buddhist; I didn't need the Catholicism of my youth to guide my interest in moral matters during my years as an atheist, agnostic, and/or budding pantheist in order to reach any of a number of conclusions about the utility of morality.

People can research, reason, evaluate, judge & conclude for themselves.

They can, but do they? To me, the latest escapades of my favorite band or film director are of a kind with moral philosophy, which is in turn just as interesting to me as new information about, say, the romans frenetiques in Romantic-era France. I get the feeling, though, that people are not exposed to philosophy as a matter of course.

Is there a correlation between positive ethical individual morality which governs one's social behavior, with intellectualism?

I would say that there is if the intellect is steered toward the pondering of ethics and the nature and consequence of behavior for a social organism. That is to say, what is required is not deity or even metaphysical principle (though I happen to believe in the latter, if not the former), but focused contemplation of morality as a necessary subject for study.

Philosophy was not required in the past because its concerns were presumed to be covered in church. Now that we are a pluralistic society of varying religious backgrounds (including atheistic and agnostic perspectives), instruction in philosophy--which, in my opinion, should ALWAYS have been required, as it presents the only human pursuit that truly distinguishes us a species--becomes urgent.

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#18.8 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 8:38 PM EDT
Jonny-1740441

...would say that there is if the intellect is steered toward the pondering of ethics and the nature and consequence of behavior for a social organism. That is to say, what is required is not deity or even metaphysical principle (though I happen to believe in the latter, if not the former), but focused contemplation of morality as a necessary subject for study.

...Now that we are a pluralistic society of varying religious backgrounds (including atheistic and agnostic perspectives), instruction in philosophy--which, in my opinion, should ALWAYS have been required, as it presents the only human pursuit that truly distinguishes us a species--becomes urgent.

Ah focused intellectualism into ethics and nature, connections between sociobiology, evolutionary psychology, moral philosphy...to hammer out certain core values and ethics.

Hm... Yes. I absolutely agree. I myself believe in God. My family came from strong Buddahist background (although I am not a buddahist).

I whole heartedly agree, we shouldn't leave ethics and moral values solely to religion to hammer out and teach.

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#18.9 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 9:05 PM EDT
thelyamhound

I whole heartedly agree, we shouldn't leave ethics and moral values solely to religion to hammer out and teach.

Nor, however, should we allow a blunt instrument like government to legislate it, or society to enforce at the expense of moral self-determination.

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#18.10 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 9:24 PM EDT
Perrie

Jonny,

Could there be a correlation between moral decay and decline of judeo/christianity in our country?

Your killing me with the scrolling up and down, LOL... OK from the article:

According to the Gallop, there has been a slight decrease in people who attend a religious institution. Presently 63% say that they do, making for a 10% decrease in the number of congregants. The more significant number comes when asked "How important is religion in your life?" Here the number is significantly different, with 75% of Americans saying very important in 1952 to 56% presently. But the mixed message that the Gallop found, was that although there are fewer people who participate with a particular faith, still 8 out 10 people identify themselves with a faith and furthermore, the Gallop points out that "The fact that fewer Americans say they have a religious identity does not necessarily mean there has been a decrease in overall religiosity in America. It is possible that some portion of those who don't identify with a specific religion are still personally or spiritually religious."

and even more importantly:

The most significant part of this survey is that the people who identified with being, secular, agnostic, atheists or unaffiliated, 67% believe that there is an absolute standard of right and wrong, while those that are religiously affiliated agree with this statement at 80%

So, religion or not, most people have a sense of what is moral behavior and what is not. It just doesn't seem to follow thorough in practice.

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#18.11 - Sat Jun 19, 2010 2:08 PM EDT
Perrie

thelyamhound,

Also, insofar as being religious implies belief that something is true, it is immune to the notion of "choice." One may certainly "choose" the doctrines to which one is obedient; one has less choice--pretty close to none, though we could quibble about tangential or supporting choices regarding modes of observation or epistemology--regarding what one believes to be true.

I think that there is a difference in religiosity and liking certain tenants of a faith and that is what I meant. I am not dogmatic about anything, but I do find value in many of the things that my faiths gave me.

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#18.12 - Sat Jun 19, 2010 2:19 PM EDT
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nicole0779

greed is the path to immorality. greed has destryoed this country and some of the biggest stains on American history were caused by greed. Take for example: Halliburton sold BP faulty cement casings to cut cost knowing full well that federal regulators wouldn't disapprove. Eight days before the Deepwater Horozon rig blew Halliburton bought a oil clean up company for $200 million dollars and are now getting paid to help clean up the mess they helped to create. I think we've surpassed immorality and landed right on top of evil.

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Reply#20 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 5:17 PM EDT
Perrie

greed is the path to immorality. greed has destryoed this country and some of the biggest stains on American history were caused by greed.

I totally agree!

The rest of your post would belongs on a political article and not here. Please try to stay on topic.

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#20.1 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 5:39 PM EDT
nonStitiousZealot

greed is the path to immorality. greed has destryoed this country and some of the biggest stains on American history were caused by greed.

Greed has also made this country . The original robber barons of industry
were indeed greedy and ruthless . But their industries allowed this nation
to develop at a rapid pace and thus become a world power .

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#20.2 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 6:39 PM EDT
thelyamhound

Greed has also made this country . The original robber barons of industry
were indeed greedy and ruthless . But their industries allowed this nation
to develop at a rapid pace and thus become a world power .

Perhaps. But couldn't that rapid development have been a "catalyst"--rather like the pill, per your earlier assertion--for the various moral "failings" that arise from affluence and its accompanying complacency?

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#20.3 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 6:43 PM EDT
nonStitiousZealot

couldn't that rapid development have been a "catalyst" ....
for the various moral "failings" that arise from affluence

Although I'm inclined to say no my mind is far from made up .
I am willing to read arguments supporting your thesis .
BTW I am more concerned with "ruthlessness" than I am with greed .
The monopolistic practices of Rockefeller and Carnegie are textbook
examples of "ruthless and vicious and even murderous" practices .

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#20.4 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 7:27 PM EDT
thelyamhound

Although I'm inclined to say no my mind is far from made up .
I am willing to read arguments supporting your thesis .

They're going to be pretty similar to the ones you made regarding the pill: Prior to the excesses of industrial capitalism coming to fruition, specific rules governed society with regards to one's duty to one's fellow man, the purpose of the "corporation" (so far as such a thing existed at all) within the community, etc., just as the promise that sex would lead to womb-rats once consigned men and women to very specific roles. Affluence, of course, led to different understandings of how one related to the fruits of his or her labor, and not all of those understandings were erroneous: if those who worked could be allowed access to the fruits of their labor, they would likely reinvest some portion of those fruits into the community.

You could, of course, take this further (and I would), and suggest that "happy" organisms are more likely to participate in soceity, and that therefore whatever modes of pleasure appear to please the organism, provided they don't directly harm person or property of another organism.

Of course, this whole line of reasoning can go terribly wrong, and lead to the ruthlessness and murderousness of the robber barons in the first instance, moral anarchy in the second. But the lines between reasonable application of these principles and unreasonable application is subjectively defined.

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#20.5 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 7:36 PM EDT
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nonStitiousZealot

Prior to the excesses of industrial capitalism coming to fruition, specific rules governed society with regards to one's duty to one's fellow man

Are you talking about charity here ?

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#21 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 7:42 PM EDT
thelyamhound

Not specifically, but that could apply. Perhaps just reasonable wages for the work done; after all, if captains of industry simply paid fair wages, there'd have been no need for unions.

Also, there's the shifting of understanding as to whom a corporation serves. It used to be a given that a farm, store, or factory in a town served the town, the county, the state; now, it's just as much a piece of received wisdom that a corporation serves its shareholders, who have no stake in the community where the workers live, the environmental impact of the product and mode of manufacture, etc.

The point being that just as birth control affected the role of the individual within the nuclear family (the most stifling unit of the family, but that's another discussion), market capitalism affected the role of the individual in the community.

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#21.1 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 7:53 PM EDT
nonStitiousZealot

OK , if you're going to approach this topic from the left , I'll do the
yang to your yin and approach this from the right side .

The one simple principle of economics is that market forces determine
the price of goods and labor . To establish fixed prices has deleterious
effects on the market and results in less people having their needs and
wants being satisfied . In the case of the capitalist who offers substandard wages , he also gets substandard workers since the able workers quit to find better paying jobs .
The only reason unions were necessary is because the companies were colluding with each other to fix labor prices . That is nothing but a distortion of market forces and not "real" capitalism .

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#21.2 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 8:09 PM EDT
thelyamhound

I'm not really approaching it from the left; I'm just noting that the relationship between acquisitiveness and economic exploitation (and of the fact that corporations function as de facto governments, ultimately creating the necessity for the two income household) is as clear and linear as that between women being able to have sex without fear of pregnancy and the supposed breakdown of the "traditional" family.

As a professional performer/writer/teacher, I've not objection to capitalism per se, but I have to wonder:

That is nothing but a distortion of market forces and not "real" capitalism .

What, in your mind, are the internal mechanisms that keep "real" capitalism from functioning the way you describe (the way that, let's face it, most corporations actually function)?

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#21.3 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 8:18 PM EDT
nonStitiousZealot

I'm not really approaching it from the left

You may not think so but you are .
If I understand your background correctly , you're in the entertainment
business . That automatically makes you lean to the left .
If you've never been involved in industry , you don't know what's involved
with setting up a business and running it w/o having it fail .


What, in your mind, are the internal mechanisms that keep "real" capitalism from functioning the way you describe .

There are well established government regulations that are designed to
protect us from the excesses of industry . They are far from perfect .
Collusion does happen . And periods of extreme deregulation occur
which removes those protections .

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#21.4 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 8:28 PM EDT
Jack Huang

The one simple principle of economics is that market forces determine
the price of goods and labor .

In an ideal free market, that is correct.

To establish fixed prices has deleterious
effects on the market and results in less people having their needs and
wants being satisfied .

Not always. Deregulation of the California energy grid led to rolling blackouts (which, in the summer, have the nasty tendency to occasionally kill people) and that whole Enron fiasco.

In the case of the capitalist who offers substandard wages , he also gets substandard workers since the able workers quit to find better paying jobs .

Yes, but the "standard" is, in part, determined by employers, since their collective choices dictate the range of wages available to workers of certain skill levels.

The only reason unions were necessary is because the companies were colluding with each other to fix labor prices . That is nothing but a distortion of market forces and not "real" capitalism .

Unfettered capitalism, even with regulations that prevent collusion, would never have led to the prohibition of child labor or the institution of the minimum wage. I work in finance, so I'm a fan of capitalism, but the conceptual ideal of capitalism has very real limitations.

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#21.5 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 8:32 PM EDT
thelyamhound

If I understand your background correctly , you're in the entertainment
business .

Yes, theater. We in this industry work more hours for less money than just about anyone. What's more, a good portion of my theater work is self-produced, which means that my meager income is generally put at risk in service of the art.

I'm also a self-employed personal trainer, a partner in my wife's therapeutic massage business (she does all the massage, but I help with her banking), and a receptionist/volunteer coordinator for a non-profit. Therefore, this statement . . .

If you've never been involved in industry , you don't know what's involved
with setting up a business and running it w/o having it fail .

. . . isn't really true.

That automatically makes you lean to the left .

Socially, perhaps (given that homosexuals, for instance, are disproportionately represented in our industry). Economically, only on the basis of our being broke and seeking ways of being less broke.

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#21.6 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 8:44 PM EDT
nonStitiousZealot

Jack ,

Deregulation of the California energy grid led to rolling blackouts
and that whole Enron fiasco

There were illegalities in both of these situations . The messes that occurred had little to do with deregulation and a lot to do with unlawful actions .

the conceptual ideal of capitalism has very real limitations.

I think we are in agreement on this point .

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#21.7 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 9:11 PM EDT
nonStitiousZealot

LH ,

As a group , people in the entertainment industry are more left leaning
than perhaps any other occupation . I could speculate on why that is but
what would be the point ? The few right leaning examples mostly revealed
their political preferences after they already left the industry .
Reagan and Heston come to mind .

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#21.8 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 9:17 PM EDT
thelyamhound

The few right leaning examples mostly revealed
their political preferences after they already left the industry .
Reagan and Heston come to mind .

I'm trying to decide whether it's telling or not that your examples couldn't even act. :)

Though, to be fair, I did rather enjoy both The Omega Man and Planet of the Apes.

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#21.9 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 10:19 PM EDT
nonStitiousZealot

Who would be your choices for those who can really act ?

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#21.10 - Fri Jun 18, 2010 10:27 PM EDT
Jack Huang

There were illegalities in both of these situations . The messes that occurred had little to do with deregulation and a lot to do with unlawful actions .

I don't see how you can draw a stark dividing line between deregulation and illegality, as laws are simply one form of regulation, no? ;-)

Further, the reaction to the rolling blackouts scenario wasn't simply punishing Enron (which, of course, did happen), but the shutdown of deregulation and the return of the California energy grid to full regulation. That's worked out pretty well so far.

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#21.11 - Sat Jun 19, 2010 12:37 AM EDT
nonStitiousZealot

I don't see how you can draw a stark dividing line between deregulation and illegality, as laws are simply one form of regulation, no?

Where is that logic you're so famous for ?
Obviously my point is , after the removal of the regulations there were
still other laws in place and these were the ones that were violated .

So what , are you just playing dumb here ?

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#21.12 - Sat Jun 19, 2010 12:59 AM EDT
Jack Huang

Obviously my point is , after the removal of the regulations there were
still other laws in place and these were the ones that were violated .

Beyond the fact that regulation vs. deregulation is itself a matter of legal mandate, price spikes and supply shortages in the California energy grid cropped up before Enron actually committed any illegal acts, nor was Enron the only player that traded electricity in a manner that caused price spikes. It was simply the most successful (and the most greedy).

If you'd like a similar example of market failure without illegal actions, you can look at the collapse of the credit derivatives market that led to our current economic crisis. Nothing technically illegal happened there, but the market collapsed like a flan in a cupboard. Now, replace "credit derivatives contracts" with something that's a modern life necessity (like electricity), and you'd have a situation similar to the California situation I've been trying to explain to you.

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#21.13 - Sat Jun 19, 2010 1:22 AM EDT
nonStitiousZealot

Yes , I agree that price fixing is not in itself , deleterious to the markets but it depends on how far off the market the price is fixed . It is a quantitative factor rather than a qualitative one .

If you'd like a similar example of market failure without illegal actions

Are you saying that the failure of the supply shortages in the California energy grid were not due to illegal actions ?
Of course there are failures in the economy that have nothing to do
with legal violations , but if I recall the reported details correctly
there were laws being broken . Certainly Enron was playing with a circle
of shell corporations that passed off obligations [?] on each other
without the buck ever stopping anywhere .

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#21.14 - Sat Jun 19, 2010 2:03 AM EDT
Jack Huang

Yes , I agree that price fixing is not in itself , deleterious to the markets but it depends on how far off the market the price is fixed . It is a quantitative factor rather than a qualitative one .

I don't think I was even talking about price fixing, since that's not what happened in CA, nor was it what happened in the credit derivatives markets, as there was no active collusion.

"Are you just playing dumb here?" ;-)

Of course there are failures in the economy that have nothing to do
with legal violations

Thank you for agreeing with my point. Distortions are, themselves, part of "real" capitalism (as you call it). As such, free market determination of prices isn't this cure-all you implied in #20.2, nor is regulation absolutely worse for satisfying needs than market determination, which was your other implication.

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#21.15 - Sat Jun 19, 2010 8:33 AM EDT
nonStitiousZealot

I am far from an expert in the field of economics . I wasn't so much
expressing my opinions as just taking a debating point with LH .
I said as much in #20.2 :

OK , if you're going to approach this topic from the left , I'll do the
yang to your yin and approach this from the right side .

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#21.16 - Sat Jun 19, 2010 12:57 PM EDT
Perrie

That was interesting. I could get into the whole economic thing here, but I fear we are going a tad off topic, and then we will be plagued my people who want to discuss the economy and the present admin, and I just don't want to go there. You guys are free to carry on, but if I join in, it's me putting the OK on the dialog going off topic. So please excuse me for not joining in but please continue.

BTW....

Charlton Heston was a Democrat that was an active member of the civil right movement when he did the Omega man and Planet of the Apes. No one knows why he made such a radical change. For an interesting bio:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Charlton_Heston

http://entertainment.timesonline.co.uk/tol/arts_and_entertainment/film/article3695075.ece

Hey, even though he did become a raging gun toting old man, I chalk that up to his Alzheimer's!

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#21.17 - Sat Jun 19, 2010 2:55 PM EDT
Socrates1

I would suggest that it is not that difficult to understand why CH made the change. When the various movements went from positive goals, ie. equality for all, to negative goals, ie. destroying the concept of individual rights in favor of group rights, and from rewarding merit to providing an "even playing field" at the expense of merit, many others made the move as well. Essentially as "Liberal" thought changed, those who were Liberal became Conservative without much change in outlook.

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#21.18 - Sat Jun 19, 2010 3:45 PM EDT
Perrie

I'm not sure about that. It is a huge difference between being a liberal and being a conservative. I would have bought that for sure if he became a libertarian, since that has more to do with individual rights v government, but that was not the case with him. We may never know, since he refused to ever say why.

A Hollywood mystery so to speak.

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#21.19 - Mon Jun 21, 2010 12:20 AM EDT
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Socrates1

Interesting article and comments. It also happens to be an area which I am particularly interested in...:)

1. Each generation suggests that the new generation is less moral....Unfortunately each generation is right until we reach the final point and the society disintegrates. As mentioned above, Greece is a great example,

2. Unfotunately tolerance, almost by definition, results in more "grey" areas which contribute to the decline in standards of ethics.

3. I suggest that the decline of morality is linked with the decline in religion. Perhaps not in the way some would suggest. It is the defense of the ethical and moral code that counts. Thus, even in the case of those who consider themselves religious, the belief that one should not judge anothers actions results in the general decline of the entire system. In the case of polls, etc. this might result in people continuing to respond that they are "religious", and yet not reveal the more important concept of ethical responsibility. In other words, the religious concept of individual choice might mask the part that the particular religious beliefs play in maintaining ethical standards.

4. I have often argued that Christianity is well suited to the task before us. Basically providing an ethical and moral framework while, at the same time, containing the rights of the individual to his/her own beliefs. The apparent desire on the part of many to tear down Christianity while providing no viable substitute is, in my view, very short-sighted.

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#22 - Sat Jun 19, 2010 2:48 PM EDT
Jonny-1740441

Kudos. Well said. Especially 4th point. ;)

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#22.1 - Sat Jun 19, 2010 5:51 PM EDT
js-445607

I think many do not wish to tear down Christianity but to update some of the views that harm other humans. I am one who embraces all and have no problems with acceptance. I also have no problem with having a strong moral code. I believe the only problem organized religion might have that puts people off is some feel they do not need to follow the laws of man as they follow the laws of God. This only gives license to reject others and judge them as abominable or less than worthy. When a group of people demand respect yet cannot extend this to others I find this a problem.

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#22.2 - Sat Jun 19, 2010 6:24 PM EDT
inmycircle

Don't you think, a true religious person doesn't judge others, but leaves Justus up to the courts? Isn't that what makes us moral? Like living the golden rule?

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#22.3 - Sat Jun 19, 2010 8:03 PM EDT
Socrates1

inmycircle..I thought I addressed that in my post.

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#22.4 - Sat Jun 19, 2010 9:48 PM EDT
js-445607

I believe if as a society we gave up feeling we have to trump someone in order to feel our own worth we'd be champions. I see the only problems we have are those we create for ourselves. If I want a fulfilling wonderful life I must offer the same to all others. It certainly doesn't matter what others believe I believe in me and with this I am confident that making moral choices is not a problem at all. We cannot blame others for our actions and not corrupt ourselves in the meantime.

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#22.5 - Sat Jun 19, 2010 10:03 PM EDT
inmycircle

Socrates 1,

Sorry for not reading it close enough the first time. I guess I was gettin your drift, though,

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#22.6 - Sun Jun 20, 2010 12:38 AM EDT
Perrie

I have often argued that Christianity is well suited to the task before us. Basically providing an ethical and moral framework while, at the same time, containing the rights of the individual to his/her own beliefs. The apparent desire on the part of many to tear down Christianity while providing no viable substitute is, in my view, very short-sighted.

I don't think that Christianity should ever be torn down. But what you propose is that on faith is good for all people and there I have a problem. I think that each religion was meant for the people that it originally served. That the reason it appeals to a specific group of people is because it derived from their culture.

I once went to a talk by a Buddhist Monk. He said something that has always stuck with me. He said that a child that was born christian was meant to be that, as was the child born Jewish, Buddhist, etc. That not only was this the natural order of things, but also their destiny. Just food for thought.

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#22.7 - Mon Jun 21, 2010 12:30 AM EDT
Socrates1

Interesting dialogue and thoughtful points as a result of the article. The environment is almost too rich and any comments I might make would inevitably require further explanation. That being said..just some food for thought.

1. The first question is, of course, what is morality, and how do we determine if we are, as a society, less or more moral?

2. There were certainly several down-sides to the "Woman's" Movement. One could suggest that it had negative, as well as positive, consequences economically, socially, and ethically.

3. As already noted, the fragmentation of American Society, including the move away from many "Christian" Principles has also had negative consequences.

4. As each generation is nurtured in a less "moral" environment the process is accelerated as the basis for the morality is less and less an integral part of each successive generation's inner being.

5. The issue of free choice and individual morality has been emphasized without the corresponding background to make those choices.

6. Agreeing that all morality is relative results in......."moral relativity".

7. Religion can provide a decent moral framework without the need to do the "heavy lifting".

Probably enough for now...)

Probably enough for the moment.

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#22.8 - Mon Jun 21, 2010 2:35 PM EDT
Jack Huang

3. I suggest that the decline of morality is linked with the decline in religion. Perhaps not in the way some would suggest. It is the defense of the ethical and moral code that counts. Thus, even in the case of those who consider themselves religious, the belief that one should not judge anothers actions results in the general decline of the entire system.

So, to cast this in blunter terms, ethical behavior comes from personal judgmentalism? I can see that general point, but I would think that many Christians disagree with that view of ethics.

4. I have often argued that Christianity is well suited to the task before us. Basically providing an ethical and moral framework while, at the same time, containing the rights of the individual to his/her own beliefs. The apparent desire on the part of many to tear down Christianity while providing no viable substitute is, in my view, very short-sighted.

This is the idealized version of Christianity, not Christianity in all of its widely popular forms through the centuries. Christianity, as a conceptual ideal practiced by some, can protect individual rights to independent belief. However, it's been used to tear down individual rights many, many times through its history.

Further, the simple fact that Christianity provides some sort of "ethical and moral framework" says nothing about its suitability or benefit to society. The specific morals practiced by Christendom (not simply advertised by Christendom) are what really count.

3. As already noted, the fragmentation of American Society, including the move away from many "Christian" Principles has also had negative consequences.

Which "Christian" principles in particular?

6. Agreeing that all morality is relative results in......."moral relativity".

Pretending that any morality is absolute is simply lying to yourself. I feel alternately amused and perplexed at some religious advocates' knee-jerk antipathy to "moral relativism," when their own moral systems are utterly subjective, self-selected, and have changed over time.

7. Religion can provide a decent moral framework without the need to do the "heavy lifting".

"Decent" is subjective, and if I'm reading your statement correctly, I agree that religion can simply serve a ready-made moral system for those who'd rather not do the "heavy lifting" themselves. However, the quality of this ready-made morality varies greatly from religion to religion (and sect to sect), and from observer to observer.

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#22.9 - Mon Jun 21, 2010 4:05 PM EDT
Socrates1

3. ethical behavior comes from personal judgmentalism?

Before I respond, I would ask for clarification.

4.

This is the idealized version of Christianity, not Christianity in all of its widely popular forms through the centuries.

Certainly, morality and ethics are an attempt join the ideal with the reality.

Christianity, as a conceptual ideal practiced by some, can protect individual rights to independent belief.

Glad we agree on that point, as that is my point.

However, it's been used to tear down individual rights many, many times through its history.

Certainly, I might agree with this statement, but, so what? Do you reject the use of the combustable engine because it has been used in time of war?

Further, the simple fact that Christianity provides some sort of "ethical and moral framework" says nothing about its suitability or benefit to society.

Agreed, but I suggest that the framework it provides has shown to be suitable and benefitial, if you are in favor of individual rights, etc. Other systems may, in theory, provide the support, Christianity has, in reality, provided such support to a much larger degree than any other system in history of any size and longevity. It is that very strength that, as we are discussing here, is its weakness.

The specific morals practiced by Christendom (not simply advertised by Christendom) are what really count.

Yes, and no. I agree that practice is important, but I would suggest that the framework is of extreme importance as a guide to determine practice.

Which "Christian" principles in particular?

The idea that there are even principles with which one should be concerned. The idea that there might be some "universal" truths, and that sometimes the journey is as important as the destination. As mentioned in another comment, the rise of cheating, lying, and the acceptance of like behavior.

Pretending that any morality is absolute is simply lying to yourself. I feel alternately amused and perplexed at some religious advocates' knee-jerk antipathy to "moral relativism," when their own moral systems are utterly subjective, self-selected, and have changed over time.

Of course, this belief indicates exactly what I suggest. Certainly there are many who agree with you with the expected results.

"Decent" is subjective, and if I'm reading your statement correctly, I agree that religion can simply serve a ready-made moral system for those who'd rather not do the "heavy lifting" themselves. However, the quality of this ready-made morality varies greatly from religion to religion (and sect to sect), and from observer to observer.

And we agree....As we also agree that the quality varies, which I welcome coming from you, I would suggest that Christian Principles can provide that "ready-made" moral system, including tolerance, while at the same time having the necessary force, to protect it.

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#22.10 - Mon Jun 21, 2010 4:37 PM EDT
Jack Huang

Before I respond, I would ask for clarification.

I'm referring specifically to this statement of yours:

the belief that one should not judge anothers actions results in the general decline of the entire system.

Certainly, morality and ethics are an attempt join the ideal with the reality.

Hmmm, perhaps, but that's not my perspective. Morality and ethics are simply vectors of social control.

Certainly, I might agree with this statement, but, so what? Do you reject the use of the combustable engine because it has been used in time of war?

Hardly, but I ask simply for cognizance that Christianity is merely a tool, like the combustion engine, not innately good or bad.

Other systems may, in theory, provide the support, Christianity has, in reality, provided such support to a much larger degree than any other system in history of any size and longevity. It is that very strength that, as we are discussing here, is its weakness.

Christianity has also supported bigotry, hatred, discrimination, and warfare to quite a sizable degree, as well. By body count, it's not the greatest supporter of such (since early conflicts were limited by, well, the total number of people in the war zone), but by social influence, it very well may be.

Yes, and no. I agree that practice is important, but I would suggest that the framework is of extreme importance as a guide to determine practice.

Yes, but even in your statement, the framework is indirectly important only because it influences practice.

The idea that there are even principles with which one should be concerned. The idea that there might be some "universal" truths, and that sometimes the journey is as important as the destination.

While those may be part of some (maybe even "most") Christian thought, they aren't unique to Christianity in any way. In this respect, I'd say that Buddhism is a superior model to Christianity. its incidence rate of religious warfare is far lower, and embodies the abstract ideas you noted above quite well.

As mentioned in another comment, the rise of cheating, lying, and the acceptance of like behavior.

Ah, but these activities were "accepted" long before any modern decline of Christianity.

I would suggest that Christian Principles can provide that "ready-made" moral system, including tolerance, while at the same time having the necessary force, to protect it.

Again, that may be true of the Christian ideal, but it does not accurately describe the reality of Christendom. Further, it really depends on which Christian principles we choose to emphasize, even if we're only referring to basics like the Ten Commandments.

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#22.11 - Mon Jun 21, 2010 8:20 PM EDT
Socrates1

ethical behavior comes from personal judgmentalism?

Still, not attempting to be obtuse, but what? Ethical behavior is in the eye of the beholder?

Hmmm, perhaps, but that's not my perspective. Morality and ethics are simply vectors of social control.

Perhaps similarly I would say yes, but not completely. Should m and e be simply vectors of social control, a shared system of ethics would be even more important, not less. The universality, in my opinion, of certain truths represents each individuals self-interest. In short, a still born article titled "What is Evil" examined this question. I began from the base line whereby if one was alone on earth would there be such a thing as evil? It seemed that the concept of evil needed at least two. From that perspective all morality and ethics certainly involves the relationship between two or more people.

Hardly, but I ask simply for cognizance that Christianity is merely a tool, like the combustion engine, not innately good or bad.

I would agree, and have suggested, that Christianity can serve as a tool in the here and now, without one necessarily being required to accept the more religious aspects of the faith. To a certain extent I might argue its inate goodness or badness. Many of the "better" qualities of Western Civilization have been built of Christian Principles. Many of the "so-called" bad effects of Christianity have been combated by a further investigation of the faith itself and, in so doing, have resulted in the "better" qualities having an even stronger base by way of rooting them in Christian Principles.

Christianity has also supported bigotry, hatred, discrimination, and warfare to quite a sizable degree, as well. By body count, it's not the greatest supporter of such (since early conflicts were limited by, well, the total number of people in the war zone), but by social influence, it very well may be.

I would suggest that, regardless of the truthfulness of your statement, that, by body count, and social influence it has, by far, been the largest contributor towards a greater awareness and support of Universal Human Rights. I return to the "engine" analogy.

Yes, but even in your statement, the framework is indirectly important only because it influences practice.

Yes, but a framework that does not support certain values I regard as "good" would be even worse.

While those may be part of some (maybe even "most") Christian thought, they aren't unique to Christianity in any way. In this respect, I'd say that Buddhism is a superior model to Christianity. its incidence rate of religious warfare is far lower, and embodies the abstract ideas you noted above quite well.

I would disagree with your suggestion that Buddhism is a superior model to Christianity on several counts, but the primary one is pragmatic.

Ah, but these activities were "accepted" long before any modern decline of Christianity.

Here again, I think further clarification might be required for me to make any meaningful response.

Again, that may be true of the Christian ideal, but it does not accurately describe the reality of Christendom. Further, it really depends on which Christian principles we choose to emphasize, even if we're only referring to basics like the Ten Commandments.

Considering we seem to agree that the Christian "ideal" has something to offer, your concern seem to be primarily in the area of practice. Here again I would suggest that, in actual practice, and in providing an acceptable frame-work Christianity has done a relatively good job. Please don't refer to such things as the Inquistion, etc.etc. I do not deny those things and therefore Christian failures are not really, to my mind, proof that Christianity has not, in the end, moved Man forward, if one supports the concept of Universal Human Rights. More basic than the Ten Commandments is the principle of individual responsiblity and the freedom to choose, which is an adjunct of that responsibility. That particular discussion, the difference between the concept of individual responsibility while at the same time providing an ethical and moral code which one regards as the "right" one is one in which I have been involved for quite some time as the result of an article I wrote quite some time ago, and you may have already read...frankly without reviewing the comments I can't remember. The point being that should you disagree, or not understand, my perspective on that particular point I might not be too inclined to discuss it at this time.

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#22.12 - Mon Jun 21, 2010 9:48 PM EDT
Jack Huang

Ethical behavior is in the eye of the beholder?

Of course, including which existing moral system the beholder chooses to follow.

Should m and e be simply vectors of social control, a shared system of ethics would be even more important, not less.

Indeed, and I agree that morality can only come from social interaction. I noted in past comments that it is indeed, solely the product of social interaction.

I began from the base line whereby if one was alone on earth would there be such a thing as evil? It seemed that the concept of evil needed at least two.

To me, evil is a purely subjective matter, so even if you're the only person on the planet, you can still deem certain things "evil." However, such a label in such a world is just as worthless as any other opinion.

Many of the "better" qualities of Western Civilization have been built of Christian Principles.

Eh, I'm skeptical of that claim. The Golden Rule, for example, didn't originate with Christianity, nor did Christianity pragmatically enforce the Golden Rule too well during its history.

You can point to Christianity forming the basis for the individualism of, for example, Martin Luther. But, it also forms the foundation of Catholicism, one of the most rigid and hierarchal social control systems in modern society.

Many of the "so-called" bad effects of Christianity have been combated by a further investigation of the faith itself and, in so doing, have resulted in the "better" qualities having an even stronger base by way of rooting them in Christian Principles.

This stronger foundation for "better" qualities that comes from questioning "bad" effects is possessed by only a portion of Christendom, though. There are still plenty of Christians out there who celebrate what some consider the "bad" side of Christianity.

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#22.13 - Tue Jun 22, 2010 12:09 PM EDT
Socrates1

Thank you for your reasoned comments and responses. Basically, much of the conflict that occurs when I become engaged in discussions such as this is when we begin the "war of examples". As previously stated, my position goes something like this. I agree that examples can be found where order was supported over liberty. I agree that not all Christians nor all divisions of Christianity have completely clean records. To me, though regrettable, they still do not negate the fact that support can be found within Christianity in text and action. In many cases, even when the opposition is "Christian", Christians can be found, using Christian Principles, leading the charge for tolerance and individual liberties. I do not deny that, for example, Buddhism may provide similar support, but I would suggest that. for whatever reason, it has not provided a secure base nor an adequete defense mechanism to protect not only its own followers, but those of other faiths as well. This may be true of Christianity as well, we can only wait and see.

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#22.14 - Tue Jun 22, 2010 2:22 PM EDT
Jack Huang

I agree that examples can be found where order was supported over liberty. I agree that not all Christians nor all divisions of Christianity have completely clean records. To me, though regrettable, they still do not negate the fact that support can be found within Christianity in text and action. In many cases, even when the opposition is "Christian", Christians can be found, using Christian Principles, leading the charge for tolerance and individual liberties.

The same arguments can be in support of the opposite claim, that Christianity has been a force of oppression. It simply depends on which examples we choose to deem exceptions and which we call the norm.

I do not deny that, for example, Buddhism may provide similar support, but I would suggest that. for whatever reason, it has not provided a secure base nor an adequete defense mechanism to protect not only its own followers, but those of other faiths as well. This may be true of Christianity as well, we can only wait and see.

I'd say that while Christendom is adequately protected itself for centuries, it hasn't done much towards protecting those of other faiths, going so far as to have major Christian factions actively oppressing dissenters, both within and outside of Christendom. In other words, I don't see why "we can only wait and see."

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#22.15 - Tue Jun 22, 2010 7:53 PM EDT
Socrates1

The same arguments can be in support of the opposite claim, that Christianity has been a force of oppression. It simply depends on which examples we choose to deem exceptions and which we call the norm.

Yes, one could make that argument, and. in fact, many have. I just do not find it very convincing.

I'd say that while Christendom is adequately protected itself for centuries, it hasn't done much towards protecting those of other faiths, going so far as to have major Christian factions actively oppressing dissenters, both within and outside of Christendom. In other words, I don't see why "we can only wait and see."

Again, I would have to disagree. I would suggest that it is in those countries which are either primarily Christian, or have a Christian background, that you find the most religious freedom.

The "wait and see" part was meant to suggest that it is the tolerance and respect for individual rights, as well as the failure of many to credit it with those qualities, which may well result in further erosion of support for Christianity.

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#22.16 - Tue Jun 22, 2010 10:15 PM EDT
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Doctor Leon

Hello Perrie,
I agree with you on virtually all of your points, but I believe there are a few additional considerations that would explain the decline in morality. First and foremost, I agree that religion or lack of religion has little or nothing to do with morality. Each different religion mandates different rules (although similar) for behavior; yet underlying all the rules is a rather immoral understanding that anyone who doesn't share your particular religion is "evil," or "ignorant." How moralistic can that be?

I was born into the baby boomer generation. I've watched morality on a steady decline since the 60s, but my perception of the reasons is slightly different. The first chink in our morality armor was caused by the Vietnam war. The psychology of war is an interesting animal, especially when young men can be involuntarily drafted and sent into a war they know they can not win; but where they are very likely to die. Many people facing prospects like that just give up. People who have given up rarely concern themselves with issues of morality.

The second (and possibly the most insidious arrow through the heart of morality) was the women's liberation movement in the 70s and 80s.

I don't presume to speak for all the men of my generation but I'd bet the majority of them would agree that for the most part, we were raised by our parents to be polite; to open doors for other people; to give up our seats to pregnant women and the elderly; to say "sir" and "maam" to anyone older than ourselves; and above all, to respect women.

Womens' lib killed that. Subsequent generations to mine can't seem to relate to an experience I had in the mid 70s in a supermarket in San Francisco. I had just walked out of the supermarket holding a bag of groceries with one arm. I saw a woman walking towards the door, so I stopped and held the door open for her.

She stopped in front of the door and asked me what I was doing. I couldn't think of anything to say. Was she retarded? I was opening the door for her. I would have done that for any woman or possibly for anyone else I saw entering the store as I was leaveing. The woman then launched a string of insults at me about the male chauvenistic pig I had to be if I believed she was so weak or stupid she couldn't even open a door for herself. While this was all happening, I thought it was some kind of a joke. But apparently she was serious.

She finally stormed into the store and I started walking out into the parking lot. This angry woman actually came back out of the store, yelled a few more insults at me and then smacked my grocery bag, tearing the paper and spilling my groceries on the pavement. Whoa...

My parents had taught me all my life to never hit a woman. My contemporary circle of friends seemed to believe the same rule still applied unless (of course) a woman hit you first. But I just stood there, transfixed somehow in a confusing state of culture shock. I never opened another door for anyone after that unless it was someone I knew.

Another factor in the breakdown of morality is the breakdown of the family. It's not about divorce or economics; it's all about a lack of role models for kids while they're growing up. Schools have turned into massive baby-sitting dormitories and society is inundated with psychologists who want children to believe sincerely that they can do anything they want; they can achieve any goal they work towards; it is bad to achieve or get recognition for achievement; we don't play games to win, we only play games to "participate and have fun," and that any adult who is honest with children about the realities of life is bordering on the fringes of child abuse.

Since children can no longer look to their parents as role models, they look to the most visible alternatives; movie and entertainment celebrities. What a choice, especially in the music world where celebrities will do virtually anything shocking they can think of to garner a few minutes of publicity. Celebrities are the worst possible role models because they don't live in the real world, but what else do the kids have nowadays?

So where does the profanity come from? That's easy. It comes from the military and it comes from our celebrities. Where does the sexual promiscuity come from? It comes from the movies, it comes from television, and it comes from advertising. We have done it to ourselves.

Unfortunately, there doesn't seem to be any workable way to reverse the declining morality trend. Sex sells movies, videos and products. Priests think little boys are fair game. Dating sites on the Internet are losing ground to "Lets have sex" sites. Kids have no concept of what it means to be in control of their own lives because their parents aren't in control; the government isn't in control and there are fewer and fewer legal constraints or punishments for violating the old rules of morality, let alone violating legal laws. When kids believe they have no control; they just give up. They give up and live for the moment because every moment may be their last moment.

How sad.

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Reply#23 - Mon Jun 21, 2010 11:30 AM EDT
nonStitiousZealot

Well said Dr. L .

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#23.1 - Mon Jun 21, 2010 12:43 PM EDT
Socrates1

Dr. L

I wrote my comment regarding the possible negative effects of the Woman's Movement and than read your post. There is much truth in what you said.

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#23.2 - Mon Jun 21, 2010 2:37 PM EDT
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js-445607

Women's liberation did bring a few very angry and hateful women out of the closet. Many of us were tired of being used and abused. I knew a few of the radical reactionary women and snubbed them for the most part. As a female I've always opened doors for others helped them when in need and am always polite. I've taught my children to do the same. The all of our society has contributed to our downfall of moral code. We've let things slide built resentment and have stubbornly allowed chaos to happen around us. Instead of taking action we simple weep and wail and gnash our teeth yelling' "Poor me ain't it awful". If you want respect you have to practice respect. If someone gets up in your face and tries to pull some negative banter simply walk away. Pretty soon this type will catch a clue and the only ones listening to their crap will be like minded and that won't be much fun.

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Reply#24 - Mon Jun 21, 2010 3:43 PM EDT
Socrates1

It's a little deeper than that, but again, one would have to agree on the goal prior to entering into a discussion.

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#24.1 - Mon Jun 21, 2010 4:39 PM EDT
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Robert Erickson

Perrie. I believe that much of the answer to your question is found in this thread. Nations have become significant, historically, by having common values, common goals, and common enemies. They tend to deteriorate, when that triangle is weakened. A hundred years ago, the answers you would have gotten to this question, probably would have been very similar, or even expressed surprise that you asked it at all. Now, we have here, all sorts of answers, beliefs, "worship" of uncertainty and comparative scales of judgment. The "pillars" of a homogenous, functional group of humans, in a common endeavor, is gone. Our children are bombarded with hundreds of cable channels of disparate data with regard to beliefs, morals, behavior and the futility, or sanctity of life. Is it so surprising that this indoctrination has an obvious effect? If your big worries are whether or not your neighbor may believe in God, or if they eat in a restaurant with their chldren, there are some problems. These are not survival issues. People, are going to have children around. Everyone knows that children have certain behavioral attributes at different ages. Resenting them, or excluding them, belies the very "accept everything" concepts comparative ethicists, claim to hold dear. That really translates into," accept everything, as long as I like it." So then, the "mechanisms" that were the glue of a homogenous society are still functioning, but, functioning according to different values. This produces, conflicts, dissensions, stress, depression, anxiety, and even behavioral issues. It all seems to revert back to earlier man, functioning in tribes. Each member had a function, and was too busy living, to sit around and contemplate whether the beginning of the Universe had anything to do with their navel being an "innie' or an "outie". There is a distinct difference, betwen living, and analyzing life to death.

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Reply#25 - Sun Jun 27, 2010 9:23 PM EDT
Perrie

Robert,

You touched on many things but I am unclear about some. Do you think that bad parenting is the problem, or a society that moves so fast and is into instant gratification? Is it a lack of faith, or just a lack of thinking?

Societies come and societies go. Ours, using history as a measuring stick, is still very young. Do you think that we will stand the test of time, or fall victim to it?

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#25.1 - Sun Jun 27, 2010 10:35 PM EDT
Robert Erickson

Those are very large questions, Perrie, and I'm no genius. It just seems to be the life cycle of cultures. As much as I want to believe we will be different, didn't they all think that?

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#25.2 - Sun Jun 27, 2010 10:40 PM EDT
Perrie

It just seems to be the life cycle of cultures. As much as I want to believe we will be different, didn't they all think that?

I am sure that, that is quite true. Now that is scary and real food for thought.

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#25.3 - Sun Jun 27, 2010 10:49 PM EDT
Robert Erickson

Yeah, I don't care much for that part, either. (:

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#25.4 - Sun Jun 27, 2010 10:51 PM EDT
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Paying Attention

Live goes on regardless of our preconceived notions There are those who came before us and there will be those who come after us. Only those that make individual connections will make a difference in our current world.

The current generation is not the be all and know all, regardless of what I thought I knew in my youth. (Hey, but I think I was close!)

Smile, we are all on the world's candid camera!!

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Reply#26 - Sat Jul 3, 2010 2:58 AM EDT
Perrie

The current generation is not the be all and know all, regardless of what I thought I knew in my youth. (Hey, but I think I was close!)

Funny that you said that. I am a teacher and a parent to twin 16 year olds, and I can tell you when I was their age I knew much more about our world and current events. This generation is too self absorbed to be interested in anything other than trite things.

If you know some teens, ask them when was the last time they read a newspaper or watched the news. They are too busy watching American Idol or keeping up with the Kardashians.

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Reply#27 - Sat Jul 3, 2010 11:22 AM EDT
Socrates1

I was quite well traveled as a child, but I find the present lack of knowledge rather appalling. Unfortunately I'm not sure if I am making valid comparisons.

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#27.1 - Sun Jul 4, 2010 6:45 PM EDT
Perrie

Well, being well traveled gets you outside of your own little world, but it doesn't make a person informed. That comes from the home, discussions around the dinner table, watching the news. Being interested in things that are not superficial.

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#27.2 - Sun Jul 11, 2010 12:20 AM EDT
Socrates1

I'm not sure if I would agree that travel cannot make one informed. My comment was more towards the fact that I really don't have the personal knowledge to compare today's sixth grader with the past sixth graders.

    #27.3 - Sun Jul 11, 2010 4:27 AM EDT
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